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Originally Posted by dareyou2call
ive been defensive of JY when it comes to the MM situation cause in that situation i know he is being honest....so if i know this it would make sense to defend him
Cool. I'm also giving JY the benefit of the doubt as much as possible, and I'm going about things assuming that everything he has told me has been the 100% truth.
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as for the slanderous comments.....i was not talking to you ....i was talking to some random drooler who kept coming in here and making comments and statements that were ridiculous and lacked any merit yet he was passing them off as fact
I understand that. The key point that you seem to be missing is that several of these "random droolers" came to their conclusions in large part due to seeing how JY handled my situation. Therefore I was curious if you thought this was fair, and the only way for you to evaluate that would be for you to look over my situation and see for yourself.
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as for your situation....i have in previous posts said the JY has not been perfect in his dealings ...i have made that clear.....in your case.....yea he was negligent....but he admitted it.....hes not saying he wont pay....he is saying that he will
I agree that he was negligent. I agree that he is saying he will pay. However, the bolded is simply not true. He has continued to refer to it as a "mutual" misunderstanding. After I posted in this thread his response wasn't to apologize, but rather he felt the need to point out that in one of my tweets I began it by saying "I've been slacking on this" as if that somehow makes this my fault(when in reality it was just me trying to be polite, in the hope that extreme politeness and no casting of blame would be optimal in terms of me getting paid).
Or our phone convo yesterday...as I said, I was kinda shocked at first when his tone wasn't apologetic as I was expecting. Thats ok and all- I just wanna get paid, I don't need an apology(in fact I think apologies are usually more beneficial to the apologizer in terms of character development than they are beneficial to the apologizee). However, this does not support the bolded part of your post.
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but from what ive heard....it wasnt like you were contacting him constantly over an extended period of time
This was in large part because I had no idea how to contact him outside of 2p2. I posted on 2p2(in the exact thread where our bet was made), sent him PMs, and used the 2p2 "send an email to this user" feature.
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you admitted to being somewhat lax in your collection methods as well
I mean, I have very little experience trying to collect debts. I'm not one to intimidate people or make threats. At minimum he has been completely aware of the situation since March 9, 2013. Once I've made sure that he is aware of his debts, what else am I supposed to do?
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.so yes.....jason could have handled your situation better.....no it has no relevance to chris
ok, thats where you and the "random droolers" seem to disagree. Thats why I brought this up- just to clarify for you why that disagreement exists. I don't care enough one way or the other to argue it, so I won't bother to give any opinion here.
Thanks for taking the time to answer. I guess it can only be +EV for me to ask......
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and yes i believe when he says that he will eventually pay his debt to you in full
If I'm still not paid in X amount of time, would you be willing to vouch for him and pay it? You can make X whatever you want....6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, etc.