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Originally Posted by aphixxxx
Is it standard for a guy to initiate the first 4-5 interactions/hangout/hookups once you've met the chick? Somethin about it makes me feel needy.
We have fun together, and anytime she can't do something, she always re-schedules but in my past experience, after the first few dates/parties, I haven't had to make everything happen.
Granted I have a sample size of only about 9-10 women.
NO try once see what happens if shes interested or whatever perfect go from there, but if your trying more than I'd say 2 times don't bother.
For instance, a friend's sister is doing law at my school and I've never talked to her before but have her on FB. I send her the message "if your going out tonight text me xxx-xxx-xxxx". I was at the bar and get a text at like 1 asking where I am and how she wants to meet up I tell her but ended up leaving the bar because I had better thangs to do and she wanted me to go to some karaoke bar where all the law students were hanging out bla bla bla.
Fast forward a month and a half. I send her a text asking if shes going out she says yes she asks where I'm going I tell her she comes (with 4 guys) quite lame, I buy her a few jager shots and her friends cockblock hard so she leaves. The next weekend she's texting me wanting to go out for sushi the next day I accept everything is agreed upon only problem is I didn't stop drinking until noon the day we were suppose to go out for sushi I went to bed at noon I wake up at around 5pm - "**** I was suppose to go for sushi with x at 1pm" I text her she says it's alrght etc and that she has whatever to do but another time would be great. After that moment I decided not to text her anymore at all costs.
Fast forward a few weeks not a single text back.
Results: hahah She iced me.
Last edited by msustudent; 10-24-2010 at 10:57 PM.