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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

06-15-2013 , 08:13 PM
Watch out henry.
06-15-2013 , 08:21 PM
More breakups should make for more TR's though.

I predict a golden age of this thread.
06-15-2013 , 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Colin_Piddle
from all accounts it seems the east coast is better for partying and has hotter girls then the west coast

3 breakups in 3 days for stlifers. the domino effect is upon us.
Woah there, as an east coaster, I dont know If I agre with this. Basically the warmer you get the hotter you get. Cali/Texas/Florida are prob best in USA girls wise, throw in ASU/UA and you got yourself a hot girl stew going.

Sure there are hot girls all over, but from a percentage wise those are probably the peaks.

Unless your talking about canada in which case ignore everything I just said.
06-15-2013 , 08:50 PM
That seem off to me. I always assumed Cali just because of weather and maybe a smaller effect from the movie industry would kill for hot girls.

In Canada the east coast is horrible. It is a low population, poverty stricken, teenage mom wasteland.

Montreal and Toronto are not on either coast although I guess if you divide Canada in half they are east of center.
06-15-2013 , 09:35 PM
Could someone please provide some input on my post a couple of hours ago.
06-15-2013 , 09:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Otty_Botty
Could someone please provide some input on my post a couple of hours ago.
seems like you have the right mentality. you won't be able to completely remove her from your life in an instant but try to minimize it. do not give up your mutual friends.
06-15-2013 , 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Otty_Botty
Could someone please provide some input on my post a couple of hours ago.
No to deleting mutual friends. If you really can't deal with seeing her posts I would go with blocking her but even that is really bad. The ideal thing is to do nothing and not let it bother you.

Regular sex comes from picking up. You had the right idea last night but drink less so that you are not completely useless.
06-15-2013 , 11:54 PM
still havent texted "no thank you" girl about a second date (we went out wednesday), but plan to tomorrow afternoon. wish me luck.

here's a new pic of her to prove to you she's worth putting up with

06-16-2013 , 12:11 AM
that's like the worst pic you've posted of her so far
06-16-2013 , 12:13 AM
no way mang look @ dat hurrr
06-16-2013 , 12:20 AM
i was merely meaning that montreal/ toronto was better then vancouver, calgary and edmonton. obv im wrong. i heard that the west coast of america is decent.
06-16-2013 , 12:23 AM
im sure that chick is hot maybe she just dosent photograph that well. she still looks good tho.
06-16-2013 , 12:53 AM
funky that chic looks good
06-16-2013 , 01:55 AM
da **** with that zipper placement. Why the **** would you ever need a zipper there.

2/10 would not bang
06-16-2013 , 02:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
No to deleting mutual friends. If you really can't deal with seeing her posts I would go with blocking her but even that is really bad. The ideal thing is to do nothing and not let it bother you.
Well obviously I'd love it if I could just forget about her overnight but it's not possible. Everything reminds me of her and makes me want her back. I constantly have to remind myself the reasons I broke it off.

Yeah I've just stopped her from showing up in my news feed. Great feature that.
06-16-2013 , 03:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Otty_Botty
Well obviously I'd love it if I could just forget about her overnight but it's not possible. Everything reminds me of her and makes me want her back. I constantly have to remind myself the reasons I broke it off.

Yeah I've just stopped her from showing up in my news feed. Great feature that.
There is no silver bullet to forgetting your ex. Just do your best by hiding her on all social media, hit the gym, keep busy, go on dates. Finding a new girl asap you like will alleviate the problems you're having. In the beginning its usually inevitable you'll have some rough patches, getting over a serious gf is simple in theory but you just need to follow through on the execution.

Honestly it's like that scene in Swingers with favreau and livingston, you just keep doing your thing every day it hurts less and less and one day you wake up and it doesn't hurt at all.

It's great you have supportive friends but don't just hang out with them and constantly mope about your ex. Talk about it as infrequently as possible and keep super busy so you think about it less too.
06-16-2013 , 03:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
Sorry to hear about the break up.

August is too far in the future to commit but I'm still open to possibly coming down to Toronto.

A second suggestion would be Montreal. Now that you're not scouting for a place to live Montreal might be more fun. I prefer Toronto to Montreal but I am racist against Quebecers. An objective assessment makes Montreal the much better city for young people partying. Barring any major event (wedding / bachelor party) I'd be up to coming to Montreal since it is a little over an an hour drive as opposed to Toronto which is over four hours drive or a plane ride.
Cool that could be fun. We'll just play it by ear. You think you could give a commitment 2-3 weeks out?

I've basically now got Denver 2-3rd (non refundable hotel, plus mates there) then 4th-8th be in Austin/NO, undecided on details though. 9-11th in San Fran for Outsidelands (looks pretty sick) then the rest of the trip is pretty much up in the air outside of a visit to Philly at some stage. Basically will be looking at Montreal/Somewhere south East near richmond (good friend lives there, has mentioned Myrtle beach?) and maybe Miami or Vegas to end the trip with a bang.
06-16-2013 , 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by goofyballer
that's like the worst pic you've posted of her so far
I actually thought it was the best but to my knowledge you really like hipster girls.

IMO the previous pictures with the glasses draw more attention towards her nose, which one need not be a PhD-level art critic to realize is not what she really wants to do.
06-16-2013 , 08:31 PM
I thought the nose was more prominent in the last pic than any of the others.
06-16-2013 , 08:34 PM
whatever i texted her at noon and she hasnt replied yet. it's taken her a long time in the past to reply, but im not optimistic
06-16-2013 , 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted by The-fryke
Cool that could be fun. We'll just play it by ear. You think you could give a commitment 2-3 weeks out?
Certainly
06-17-2013 , 02:31 AM
I've got a date booked in for thursday or friday night at Hog's breath. For those that dont know, its a steak place. Nothing fancy. But very delicious.

The girl is from POF, 21, has a 2 year old kid, knows I just got out of a long term relationship and doesn't want anything serious. Sounds easy to me.

I actually ran into her randomly when I went out on Saturday night (I can't remember if I mentioned that already)
06-17-2013 , 02:37 AM
Bad idea, very bad idea.
Dont date 21yo moms, please, thank you!
06-17-2013 , 02:51 AM
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Originally Posted by coinflip_si
Otto,

Anyone making a joke or trolling about this can **** themselves. Losing your first love is one of the hardest things in life - im sorry to hear that otto.

Ultimately, everyone goes through this at least once in their life, its better to happen sooner rather than later like it has with you. Your relationship does sound like a mess and im sure you realise it now. Shes done you a favour for ending it as abruptly (in your eyes) as she has. Theres no doubt you will do well out of this, probably better than she does. Time is a great healer man, gl.
Great advice, disagree with the latter advice though. Time doesnt change things. Doing things changes things. You won't feel any better lying in your bed for a month straight. Be devestated for a week, then get back on the field. You can do it player!
06-17-2013 , 03:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
Bad idea, very bad idea.
Dont date 21yo moms, please, thank you!
Who cares, he's not looking for anything serious and neither is she. They probably both just want to get laid by someone new.

      
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