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Originally Posted by Otty_Botty
Well obviously I'd love it if I could just forget about her overnight but it's not possible. Everything reminds me of her and makes me want her back. I constantly have to remind myself the reasons I broke it off.
Yeah I've just stopped her from showing up in my news feed. Great feature that.
There is no silver bullet to forgetting your ex. Just do your best by hiding her on all social media, hit the gym, keep busy, go on dates. Finding a new girl asap you like will alleviate the problems you're having. In the beginning its usually inevitable you'll have some rough patches, getting over a serious gf is simple in theory but you just need to follow through on the execution.
Honestly it's like that scene in Swingers with favreau and livingston, you just keep doing your thing every day it hurts less and less and one day you wake up and it doesn't hurt at all.
It's great you have supportive friends but don't just hang out with them and constantly mope about your ex. Talk about it as infrequently as possible and keep super busy so you think about it less too.