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Originally Posted by funkyfood
The privacy equity girl is a friend of a friend who says she's cool. Not saying I'm gonna marry her, just that it madr me realize j don't really like okc girl enough to lead her on.
Isn't finding out about people what dates are for? Re: testing her.
And we've gone out about seven times I'd say.
Funky, I think you're a good dude so don't take this the wrong way. Your "testing" seems like something that females do to us. Throwing different scenarios out to see what one says and how they react, etc. Just go out and have a good time and let the conversation flow. You seem to pick up girls rather easily (and good looking girls at that), but I have noticed from some of your previous posts that you like to qualify girls into certain groups. For example...She is in private equity so: she likes money, is probably conservative, and thus hates homoesexuals (I know you did not literally write these exact words, however, I seem to remember you making some inference similar to this that came off this way). Obviously, If this was not you then forget what I said.
If you just go out and have a fun time these things will all sort themselves out. She seems like a really cool chick from the short things you have written about her and if a good friend of yours who has similar values to you enjoys her company then...she probably is. I agree that her implying you probably hang out with a lot of girls means that she could be clingy, however, it also means that she really likes you and isn't afraid of showing her hand. Girls like this are awesome because you don't have to worry about them playing games and testing you (unlike you do to them
).
I also think it is unhealthy to think after a couple dates "I could see myself marrying this girl", but it is something I do regularly that is rather hard to get over. I believe it is a function of not "having enough girls on the team" and fwiw...I'm sure this is more common than one might think.
Once again, just go out and enjoy yourself man. You got tons of girls pulling at your coattails and you get to siphon through them and choose which one is right for you. Don't take this for granted!
~JB