"Then I roughly pulled off her shorts. She tried to stop me but knew it was too late. They were off."

Rapey Friday and nobody told me...

Sent myself a roofie and tore that **** up using 2+2 Forums

I will also make my last post on the subject since it seems this will go nowhere.

1. Bringing him in here will do nothing, hes obviously going to say he didn't rape her no matter what actually went down, maybe he will accurately describe the events better in a way its obvious it was a playful setting, or maybe he will falsely describe them in a way to make it more playful(even if he honestly believe he is detailing the truth)

2. The whole "this is how asians are" thing could be true, but its going to get you into really troublesome spots because it might be hard to decipher who wants to fulfill basic rape fantasy or who is actually against the sexual advances. So obviously its better to just not do this stuff without being told shes into that kind of thing(louisckrape.youtube.com).

3. His writing style in general is REALLY creepy. He may be a good guy, but the way he writes just comes off creepy and desperate.

At the end of the day, majority of people would not let it get to that point, its just something against a lot of people. If that's how asians like to have sex I guess I wont be getting anywhere with any asians anytime soon.

Yeah I deleted my last post as I don't want to get anymore into this either.

1. I agree, I'm not gonna bother.

2. I've been to Asia/Thailand a bunch and I don't think this is a real thing or a legit generalization. I think that it was just a random donk who watches too much porn making stuff up in that thread. And even if it were true it's a terrible reason to be forceful obviously.

3. I agree that as written some of it comes off badly. Having met him though, I know what he is like IRL so maybe it's easier for me to read it with a different tone.

My contention I guess, is basically something you alluded to as well, that there was probably more signs of reciprocation/enjoyment than he is writing about.

Also given the results, later dialogue and picture of her the next morning in his apartment wearing his yellow t-shirt, I don't think she feels like she was raped.

No way Gus or Spurcious is anywhere near the bottom two posters. They both bring a lot to the thread imo. Im thinking more along the lines of TT and WSOP

if poker doesn't work out he has a promising future in literotica.

Thanks for the help guys. I think I've got my head screwed on right now.

I'm going over here in 3 hours to return her things and get my things. We are gonna chat.

At this stage she still thinks that we are going for our fresh start thing. I now realise that no matter what we do its not going to work, simply because the way she is. The only way the relationship will work is of I just continue to get walked over and do everything for her or if she changes to not be like that. But If she changes, it'll be fake.

I think it's a good thing that this happened now.

Another thing is the ring I bought her for her birthday a month ago. I got it for $600 down from $1200. Should I ask for it back? I don't think she's worn it since she got it.

no. lol who the **** asks for a birthday present back....

Dude, let. it. go. Let it ALL go. Literally, all of it.

What? Don't even ask for the money back?

I'm a ****ing student. That's a lot of money to me.

If you loaned her money you can try to get it back, not entirely sure how you will in the near future though.

Dont ask for the present back.

I think she will give it back based on past experience. But at the moment I'm unsure of everything so who knows.

The money I mean. Not the ring.

She has my bank details. She can just set up a $50 per week plan.

She can pay for my days for the next couple of months haha

Dates*

Always easier said than done the majority of the time when trying to get re paid from friends and family

That's so.....naive...

You really are clueless my friend.

I am not saying this to be mean,I'm speaking from experience and observation.

At this point,don't expect anything, just get away from her.

Why torture yourself by having dealings with her?

It doesn't make it easier,it makes it harder.

She will use this against you,letting you twist in the wind wondering if she is going to pay you your money,and who she is banging.

You got played,it happens,but let it all go.


Sent bank info,got identity theft, using 2+2 Forums

Since it's rather topical, I also ended things with my "girlfriend" of "4 years" on Thursday. Was gonna post but didn't want to steal Otty's thunder.

Basically we weren't together but she visited Aus in Feb, I've booked tickets to visit her in August, the eventual plan was to get back together this time next year either in Canada or US. We always had the provision that we were single and to tell each other if anything developed that was serious.

She had been acting weird and I called her out on it, and she basically said i've been dating someone for two weeks, it's not even close to serious yet but I want to see how things go, so can't guarantee what happens when you (me) visit. Also, she has decided she doesn't want to move overseas, which was basically what we needed for us to get back together.

So nowhere near as emotional a breakup as Otty's, but still somewhat rough. On the plus side this new guy (if I have stalkbooked correctly) seems like a downgrade from me, so that makes me happy. Will probably go to the states as trip costs a **** load to cancel, and will still visit Philly for a few days while im there to catch up with everyone, but now I effectively have a few weeks to kill on this trip.

Anyone doing anything fun? At this stage i'm looking at Sanfran/denver/philly as locks, and will probably stay in Toronto still (assuming people from here want to meet up, as otherwise there is not much point), but also want to do the south. Looking at Austin/NO/Miami/Richmond.

Any recommendations for things to do or places to go?

I'll be in Vegas in august

Chicago is awesome and a short flight from Philly

I live near philly. When exactly are you going to be in?

Austin. UT campus and sixth street. I got your back.

Trip is from the 2nd-22nd August. Will probably start on West coast and make my way east.

Will definitely be around Philly for the weekend of the 17th-18th. Apart from that the trip is pretty open. I've got friends going to Outside Lands in San Fran the weekend before that, so thinking about hitting that up, but the timing is annoying, as I will probably be going Denver-Austin-NO-back to San Fran-back to somewhere out East.

Figured you guys would be a decent option for stuff since all of my friends work so I have effectively have 10 working days to kill while I'm there. This trip has the potential to be amazing (just doing random stuff in random places, meeting tons of people in hostels etc) though it does have the potential to be a bit of a flop as well haha.

richmond va? dont go there. charlottesville 10000x better. also decently close to DC.