Seems like a waste of roofies, shes already passed out.

This is the student thread not young professionals, we dont all ball enough to splurge roofies on already passed out girls.

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Told a girl that she looks like Sharapova, then proceeded to ask if she makes noises like Sharapova.

anything with the phone dying is typically a lie.

it seemed genuine at first but the "sometime soon" convinced me this is a soft rejection.

another strange comment is the "idiot with dates" comment. is she referring to other guys or is that her way of saying what an american would call "plans"?

love it

She's referring to dates on the calendar e.g. June 26

yes, she has rejected him.

duke, don't ask again.

Yeah 'dates,' means organising things. I dunno. I'll text her tomorrow sometime and sort out another date or not another date haha then we can settle this matter.

After being in a relationship for so long I forgot how confusing girls can be. They definitely live in their own planet which does not involve common sense.

Oh really. I must've been confused with girls. Yeah if you've been rejected already let it go for sure. She won't be worth the effort.

Agreed that was a clear rejection. Girls are very smart with rejection and do it in a way to not hurt your feelings. when i was less experienced i couldn't actually read this and kept pursuing which was a big mistake. If she doesn't offer you another time she's free or doesn't make definite plans just take it as a rejection.

Also just because she rejected you today doesn't mean later on in the future nothing will happen. If you keep working on yourself and bringing up your value she might even start hitting on you, since she will feel like she missed out.

I agree here. Time to quit texting and asking her out. If you continue texting w/o making plans you will be in the friend zone quick. Just continue to chat with her on your way to next class and hope she brings up the hanging out part.

Michael is absolutely right. Amazing to see such a positive post from him as well!

Just read what I wrote. It does sound pretty lol. I've hooked up with her before. We were watching Spring Breakers and she fell asleep on the couch. Her intention wasn't to stay over but by that point she wasn't going to go home. She ended up waking up when the movie ended and came to my bed.

i havent texted her yet.

she said she was busy thursday, might be available friday. so i should text her (which would be my first time texting her) for tonight, but if she says shes busy, just say "ok, let me know when youre free" and then just leave the ball in her court?

no, you should not text her at all. if she wanted to hang out with you she would have proposed a time. i would cut off all contact. there's no benefit of continuing to text but you run the risk of her telling other girls you're annoying or something.

NM, misread posts

this is my understanding of how it went down:

he asked her on a date for thursday, she said she wasnt sure if she can make it

he doesnt hear back

he asks her AGAIN to go out on thursday, she says shes busy but may be around tomorrow


if you want to go ahead and have him ask her to go out on Friday that's fine but i'm 10000% confident she will be "busy" on friday. it's just very obvious to me.

maybe this can be a little SL Ask a Girl Out experiment.

what long message?

fwiw, we had the conversation where she said "busy today, might be free tomorrow, text me" in person

on wednesday, i asked her in general to go out (no specific day) and she said yes. then i asked her for thursday specfically, she said idk and quickly had to leave.

i didnt hear back b/c she doesnt have my number, i only have hers. she has no way to contact me except our class together. after class on thursday, i asked her again if shes free thursday, she said she wasnt but she might be friday and i should text her.

Holy **** you guys type fast. I got your story mixed up with someone else's, ignore me

she will never say no to your initial ask, so that means nothing.

also, iirc, once you proposed thursday she basically ran away. that's usually a pretty telling sign.

you can ask her again if really want to but i'm telling you i'm 100% sure she will not go out with you on friday.

yea she did run away. i wasnt sure what to make of it. she was late to class and her professor is strict about that as shes told me in the past. so i guess there could be a reason for it.

ill think on it, ive got some time. the only thing is, she doesnt have my number, and we only have 3 more classes left.

Ended up hanging out with cuddle girl last night. She moved out of her place so she ended up staying over here.

We had a few drinks but didn't even try to hook up last night. Then this morning I put in some serious effort. Ended up kissing her, taking her top off and she took my pants off. We were fooling around a fair bit, but at the same time it was kind of awkward. She kept saying how it was such a bad idea, and we were idiots, but at the same time she kept going for it.
She said we couldn't bang though because she was on her period. I'm not sure if that's true or not. I kind of think she was lying about it. She didn't give me head which was also unfortunate.
Oh well, we're having lots of drinks tonight so we'll see what happens. I think she'll stay over again since she has no bed to sleep on...unless she goes to another guys house.

Either way, I wont see her again after tomorrow for about a month. Maybe longer if I don't end up moving to her city.

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