LDO post incoming

Where you live, what circles you mix in and the type of girls you go for is key here. PW sounds like the sort of gym-bro type of guy who lives in a world of plastic, dumbass influencer girls with surface-level aspirations for their men.

While elements of that lifestyle draw on things that are obviously real in terms of things women broadly look for (confidence, status, looks), it’s a somewhat cartoonish outlook.

The fact is that women in the real world also want men who show humility, emotional intelligence, loyalty, kindness. If you’re a certain type of guy you can bang all the girls you want without any of those traits, but once you hit your 40s you’ll wonder where all the pussy went

I mean…I’m a straight married guy and I want to **** you

My usual is to date two girls seriously and have a couple non seriously on the side. Tinder is the best for the hottest and most desirable girls in almost every way. Bumble has girls that are less confident but will also stick around for a while.

Long term relationships really **** the guy, I’ve had a number of them and unless you get married and or have kids, it’s a waste of time.

As I’ve gotten older I am happy to have had great years of dating , maybe a decade. I do not enjoy exclusive relationships with women and I don’t enjoy the financial responsibility that comes with them. Least of all I enjoy the nagging.

So far having a big dick and being responsible enough to maintain a nice car has worked for me since I got my first Mercedes in 2006. Dressing nice helps a ton. But the biggest thing is to be desirable in your social circles. So be good/confident/sexy at your job or at work and women will be attracted to you.

The number one thing you can do to get girls is to ignore them way way way more than you want to. They hate that. Good luck.


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nah he's just a young kid who thinks it's edgy parroting what he's read on the various reddit dating threads

reddit is heavily incel and populated with a very apathetic and forlorn approach in general

read a post where someone says that they are disappointed her sister went to thanksgiving at her inlaws this year because she went to hers every year before and half the comments section will say that OP needs to cut her sister out of her life entirely

someone posts in their tinder profile in another post that's most terrible photos, wrinkled clothes with stains on them etc etc etc and the common response will be "you need to be better looking and rich with a huge penis" instead of offering genuinely constructive criticisum regarding improving the quality of the profile working with what he's got

redditors live in a binary world where you've either been born with it all or you weren't and there's not much to do about it other than suffer and cut out anyone from your life who has given you the tiniest unintentional slight



pw, you being a total clown aside, my issue with your presence in this thread is you're not even remotely attempting to post in good faith, you're only trying to make yourself sound cool, aside from the fact that you're not fooling anyone, you're neither seeking advice nor giving it out and just stating general things which people either already are or aren't and can't do much about, at least within a time frame related to their next dating adventure - you're just taking up space and being a total douche along the way, at least be pleasant if you're not going to participate yet still post anyway

Ok here you go in case you missed it earlier

Drive a nice car , Mercedes, Audi, VW

Wear nice clothes; button ups, polos, V necks. Dark jeans. If you cant contrast your colors properly just west diff shades of black with some red, and grey thrown in there. Get your clothes tailored, it’s cheap

Do not be fat in any way, go to the gym
Get your hair cut regularly, every two weeks
Floss your teeth and get an electric tooth brush
Do not smoke cigs
Don’t drink too much
Don’t do drugs that often

Don’t chase women, chase money. Women are accustomed to being sought after and perceived 24/7. Let them relax and come to you. A woman will make herself known to you when she is interested. That means you can communicate in the slightest but you should still hold back and not make any adjustments for a while. Dating is a game of perception and importance. Women do not want men who are available 24/7 , they want men they have to work for and work around.

Simping ain’t pimpin

For dates go to coffee if it’s someone you wanna date seriously and go for drinks if it’s someone you wanna ****. Always open doors, always pay, and always be a gentleman. Don’t chase women, chase paper. Chasing women is counter productive and turns them off. Once a woman knows she can control your attention she will put you in another category and then begin her search for a new man to try and control


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As far as online dating

Tinder and bumble are where I have most of my experience. I also suggest using Snapchat. I have met a couple winners from there, and it’s easy. Add tons of girls. Post cool videos of yourself once a day and then show off your friends and what you do in social environments but don’t make it obvious that’s what you’re doing. Then make friends. Chat them up, and if they are down you get their number but keep communicating on snap depending on their age range. Snap is nice cause your embarrassing messages get deleted.

IG is a must for showing how solid you are at life. It’s kinda like a dating prerequisite resume. It doesn’t often show who you’ve dated but it shows everything else.

If you have an android go ahead and upgrade to an iPhone right now. You will do way better with that simple trick.

I could go into more detail and stuff but that’s all I want to do for now. Thx hope this was helpful


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again, more general unsolicited blanket statements that anyone with a pulse is already aware of

the absurdity by which you just assume everyone in this thread is neither successful nor understands even basic concepts is just pure narcissistic reasoning - you come in here assuming we're all idiots and hopeless lost causes and none of us have have any idea what we are doing - it's just incredibly presumptuous and idiotic on your behalf

but more the point, it constrains others from posting genuine things because they'll just get a "make more money" idiotic response from you

please, go spread your aids elsewhere, this is thread is not your platform

If that’s your takeaway simply put me on mute


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Rickroll - is moving to a bigger city with a better dating pool a goal of yours? I recall some earlier posts about you job hunting in a bigger city but wasn’t sure if that’s still in the cards.

yeah, main issue is i've been a self employed gambler since 2016 so nyc landlords don't like me and most won't touch me because they have dozens of options, even people offering more than the listed price

this leaves me on the seeking roommate type of housing and those people are justifiably sketched out by my age and those people my age in nyc looking for a roommate are generally weirdos

considering a smaller second tier city now where landlords can't be so picky and things are way cheaper, which is huge given my profession has long break even stretches and losing months as well

visited a friend in colombus, ohio who was trying to sell me on moving there and frankly i could see making some place like that work

like out here in branson, i don't think this is a very viable option, but the bar we're going to tonight has $3 beers and $6 cocktails - you can't get a beer for less than $12 even in rural maine - so now strongly considering moving out of the east coast, at least until i rejoin the work force

I found playing poker for a living a difficult one for online dating. I was always comfortable financially, but never earning enough that it could compensate for the obviously risky short- and long-term financial prospect women would rightfully perceive me as.

And then secondly you don't have a work social circle, which is kinda bad for your dating life and mental health.

Girls care more about how your job is perceived than how much money or free time you have. They can’t brag to their friends about you or compete with their friends if your employment is non existent and their friends bfs work at Tesla or Apple

I haven’t done online dating in quite a while. But I have a lot of experience with it over many years (and now married almost 5 years to a girl I met on Tinder).

I probably went on about 100 first dates and chatted with a few hundred women on various sites. Over all those hundreds of interactions, I don’t think what kind of car I drove ever came up once.

Also, selling drugs and having a good job are usually mutually exclusive in my experience.

Did you never pick your date up?


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Very, very rarely; only if the girl didn’t have a car and it wasn’t somewhere she could walk to.

You must live in a city


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The majority of my online dating was when I lived in a city (or visiting a city). I definitely don’t anymore.
But even when I didn’t I rarely picked up a girl for a date.

How are these girls finding out about your penis size pre-sexual activity? Are you sending dick pics often?

https://www.theonion.com/ugly-man-wi...out-1819566240

No but I’m saying once you get laid they will keep coming back. Don’t send dick pics unless they ask. There’s a good tutorial on IG right now from some lady. Boudoir pics. I’ll post her @


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This is absolutely true. From a dating perspective you're far better off as a legal assistant earning 60k than a plumber earning twice that amount.

I understand there are variables such as future earning potential.

I pick girls up often and I always open the door for them. Make sure your car is clean inside and out.

For cars the color and make matters more than the model or year.


Usually for third or fourth dates I’ll pick the girl up and we will do errands and hangout for a few hours. I’m also quite fond of getting my dick sucked in my car so there’s that

^^^^ this guy is a Boss. I'd say listen to this guy if you are reading this thread!

Ah, I drove a purple car for almost my entire online dating career, perhaps that spoke for itself.

Come to think, it’s a Hyundai and I ended up marrying a Korean girl, so you could be on to something.