I would lean towards being a little on the arrogant side than not…know your worth and operate from the position that you are the prize. If nothing else, that mindset will differentiate you from many of the men you are competing with. The women will notice a difference and want to know why you feel/act this way regarding yourself, even more so if you’re not obviously very attractive. Hopefully it will also prevent you from over investing very early in the relationship as well.

If you’re not going to swipe right on everyone I suggest swiping only on girls that you think you have a good chance with

Woman date the top 5-10% of men on apps.

If you are a normal dude , You do not have the ability to often date women that are more attractive than you are.

As a result, you will be much happier if you ignore those dates and focus on the ones that are going to bring you more fulfillment, faster, for less money.

Women are very picky. Make yourself attractive and then go after the women that will find you attractive.

thedean1 / AKA deanondraft solved dating some years back on twitter.



He said if you're a 7 then go for nothing but 6's and below. Boom dating solved.


Edit: https://www.tiktok.com/@yosoypabloes...13173602438442


It's about 1 minute into video.

Dating up is going to get you used, left and cheated on.

Gotta date down as a dude for success. Life isn’t fair lmao. Men that are 7s don’t get women that are 8s often enough to be a good use of your time


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I dated an attractive medical doctor I met on hinge for about 5 months and then she abruptly dumped me last month. Maybe no more attractive doctors. A less attractive physical therapist could be the way to go.

How did that make you feel?

try a plain looking veterinarian next time round... nvm she will see a lot of horse cock... so only if you're not in a rural area

Getting dumped did not feel particularly good. But there is consolation in knowing that I would have had basically zero shot at going out with this woman a few years ago when I was fat, less confident, and wasn't doing as well professionally. The higher the climb the harder the fall I suppose.

Funnily enough I read something recently discouraging people from adopting pets in my city because high cost of living is driving out veterinary technicians which is degrading animal care services. So it might be slim pickens with vets.

Did she give you any reasoning? You didn’t see it coming at all? Had you had the exclusivity talk yet?

Getting a reason is the worst. Wtf is the exclusivity talk? If a girl asks you , great , if they don’t, I wouldn’t bring it up for a long time if ever.

Sweet, more pointless words from a guy whose handle defines him perfectly.

On the contrary, I thought his words were not pointless but quite adroit. Meanwhile your post was rather elementary Malucci.

When someone you’ve been online dating ends things, you just say ok talk to you another time.


What you’re doing now is playing the long game and trying not to **** up chances at future sex.

Asking questions and being sad/ whiny is a bad look. Just leave them be and see if they come back

Also don’t try to be exclusive with girls you meet on dating sites. They are there to date up , get free meals and get ****ed by the hottest guys they can find. They aren’t there to get into an exclusive relationship with a guy who is too insecure to date a girl without being exclusive. Girls want what they can’t have. When you ask them to be exclusive , they have already won

what if you've been dating in real life?

More serious. But way less serious or not serious at all if one or more of the persons is on dating apps

what i've you've been dating in a simulation?

Be like PW.

**** loads of ugly girls and stay awesome

Depends what you mean by "dating up". A male doctor who is a 7 on looks can quite confidently assume their dating pool is women who are 8-9 and maybe even 10 in looks.

Meanwhile an unemployed man who is a 7 will probably have to settle for a woman who is max 4.

Doctors get like +2 points , maybe +3

Same thing for being 6’3+


Being unemployed isn’t a downside for a lot of women. But typically a man of level 7 desirability can date lots of 6s

Women love bad boys and projects.

I’ve only met a couple ugly girls and it’s cause their personalities were very jaded. Even girls who aren’t pretty by model standpoints are still pretty when they smile and look you in the eyes

what if you're just shy of 6'3, like 6'2.75?

so i should get a face tattoo?

If you wanna do drugs and date those kinda girls or guys then sure

i'm in

but need details:

neck/forehead/cheek?

color?

design?

I'm thinking best to get tear drops but instead of tears it's mom hearts