you should have had sex right around there. so either your relationship sucks or you posting about your relationship sucks. also don't get defensive. i'm just trying to make sure you realize you might be settling for this relationship when you really want something better.

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I'm just about to start the wall of text but "gf"? Didn't you just start dating this chick like two days ago?

around a month...its easier to type gf then to type "girl ive been dating for a month". not really the focus but w/e

How, by you spelling out "c_nt" in words with friends? You should have gone off on her already. Spending time with these chicks together after Katie said all this **** to Jenn is like holywtf.

yea no kidding....but i am friends with her too and figured this was her way of apologizing/correcting the situation of her being a total bitch. when this didnt happen and i went with it as if everything was ok without bringing something up i mustve just been in some non confrontational mood at the time. i honestly dont have any desire to talk to kaite about anything at this point, but if she keeps trying to sabotage two of her friends who happen to like eachother then yea i will confront her. i debated calling her today to say something but quickly decided against it as it would only lead to make the situation worse at this point.

Sending a dick pic 3 weeks in should do the trick.

Good work! Keep the fire burning a little while you're apart.

anyone read that wife cheating thread in OOT? pretty intense

My date for Friday is big into stand up, but we are pretty early in the dating process. Where we go Friday is totally up to me (obv). Should I take her to a comedy club? I'm cautious since it could be like a movie date where we don't get to talk much., thoughts?

Just take her to the Gibson. EZ game.

Very glad this was the first post after the TR.

LOL at something like this ever happening in a relationship with a sane person, let alone after a god damn month. Really?

"you know, i asked you if you ever hooked up with so-and-so and you said no, well katie is pretty sure you did" and she just walks off."

She has MAJOR MAJOR self-esteem issues and will create drama whenever possible. You have to break up, I know you wont, but this will end so bad, you will waste whatever time you spend with this girl.

I'm not gonna go as far as Spurious in indicting her entire personality based on this one incident, but I do think that this chick caring so much about who you hooked up with in the past or whatever is a bad sign.

Although he's quite crude, GG makes a lot of good points. Imagine if one of your friends were dating Jenn instead and had this same experience...what would you tell them to do? "Run" would probably be in there somewhere.

At this point, you seem desperate to your gf, and desperation is *really* unattractive. You need to stand up for yourself in this bitch drama, because obviously nobody else is (and it's not good that this new gf isn't quick to stand up for you either). Tell her the facts, explain what you think Katies other motives are for being dishonest, and force a decision. Either she can stop being passive aggressive with you and take you at your word, or this relationship is going nowhere. If she is this easily swayed or this quick to change her mind, then you don't want to be in this relationship anyways.

Most of this drama is ridiculously stupid. Who cares if you hooked up with some girl that she really doesn't like? It's none of her goddamn business. Make a stand there, don't just beg her to believe you, because clearly you don't have the credibility for that to suffice.

Also, take a solid look at what this relationship is "adding" to your life. You sound pretty miserable, kind of terrorized by the idea of this not working over some drama that Jenn is enabling. Are you trying to make this work because its going to make you happy, or because you just don't want it to fail on principle now? If Katie is able to bring out a bitchy side of Jenn with this little effort, then she's doing you a favor by breaking you two up.

that's a lot more concise than what I wrote, but I agree with it 100%

It's one of the more pathetic threads in 2p2 history. That said, it might single handedly resurrect OOT.

Lol @ "singlehandedly resurrect oot." I hope so, it's sucked since about 2008.

TBob, jenn sounds like most hot girls - not very smart, sort of crazy, v emotional. If she is hot and sex is good then just put up w it till you meet someone hotter/saner. But don't get too into the thing w jenn. The whole "she is a star among her friends for the great head on her shoulders is typical delusional guy stuff, we all do it. Girl is hot, girl has nice boobs, girl sexes me magically turns into girl is smart girl is ambitious, girl has greatpersonality. Don't take offense but based on her actions wrt to Katie and you, it's very unlikely jenn has a good head on her shoulders. I won't say dump the bitch cause it sounds like jenn is hot, but if you cant keep from developing feelings for jenn, its gonna cause lots of unnecessary drama.

+1, amazing cocktails and makes you look pretty badass

hypothetical:

if you were going to go on a road trip with a couple - 1. a guy who is a nice dude and acts friendly, but is slightly off, so you like him cause he's nice to you, and super interesting as he is such an odd person, but at the same time you don't click so great and so he'd never really become a best friend and 2. the dude's wife, who is sort of hot and has GOAT tits and is kinda slooooty and flirty but obviously in love with the dude...

and if you knew the three of you would be sharing sleeping quarters...

and if you knew the three of you would be consuming lots of drugs...

and if you knew the three of you would sometimes venture off by yourselves, leaving the other two alone...

and if you knew that when you consume lots of drugs, all bets are off...

what sort of steps would you take to ensure that you didn't cross any kind of line with the dude's wife? is there any scenario where you pre-emptively tell him that you're slightly tempted cause his hottie slut wife (don't say it so crudely ldo) + drugs could spell trouble but you want to make sure he knows that you respect him and won't **** him over and promise that you won't do anything, thus kind of forcing yourself to stick to your word even when you're tripping ****ing balls and she starts rubbing your schlong with her GOAT tits?

or just let whatever happen happen and if he finds out just say lol sorry we only kissed two or three times

I'm sorta assuming it is at a bar, or very near a bar. So they drinking prior to the show and the drinking after the show should make up for the 1-2 hours of limited talking. I think it would make a good second+ date idea, as it is a fun activity that shows your not boring. Make sure she has a some drinks prior and during the show, it makes things funnier so she will have a better time.

Dammit, yeti did not have to lock that cheating thread. It's not like MBP was going to hold to his "I'm done posting updates" any more than he held to "I'm 100% done with this." He might now that he has to PM yeti to say "yeah, open it back up."

lol

I like this post...thank you.

I will update tomorrow, gonna watch game 1 tonight w jenn and talk about this ****. Fwiw and nobody has to believe me but she really is a standout amongst her friends. Has a great job involved w what she actually studied in school, doesn't get hammered constantly, doesn't random hookup w dudes, is genuinely into some things I am passionate about (and is honest about the things she could care less about). She is playful and fun from what I've seen and is into spending time that doesn't have to be super serious all the time.

I don't know that I seem desperate but I can admit that I'm coming off a little like the annoying hippy dude chanting "can't we all just be friends?". That needs to change. The funny thing is that she was standing up for me big time to katie ae first but I guess the one thing that bothered her was being told I hooked up with her mortal enemy. For the girl in question, we did make out etc over a year ago but surely that would be a "no" to being asked "did you ever hookup"? Not her f business anyway

it's a first formal date. we have sort of a minimal rapport going, but it's still very early.

mittens, nhfunkii, et. al,

i googled gibson's and that's really awesome. sort of reminds me of a much more upscale version of that place we went to on h-street that one time, greg (hipster bar night w/ your gf and all them) that basically just had a purple light over a door haha.

my thought is to go there at 8? (will get a reservation) then go somewhere from like 10-12? for a stand up routine or whatever then drinks again?

or is this too much and too long? this also allows me several points to bail if it's going badly and im not interested... but the same for her too.

she's a bit younger and is a senior in college if that's relevant at all.

I mean I would just make a night of the Gibson and avoid the comedy club for a first date, but I have different motives than you do on a first date so take that fwiw. Generally, I think the itinerary you've planned out is too long and structured though.

Fair warning: the drinks at Gibson are both delicious and incredibly strong, I've gotten into trouble on more than 1 date there because I was counting standard drinks and accidentally got way too drunk for the occasion. Tread carefully.