Awesome, I'll check those out. Thanks! (and yeah, I'm right by the Marina)

Damn, 2nd page doesn't look like it's been updated since 2009 (check the schedule page), first page 2008? It's hard to tell, the newest photos in the gallery are from 2008 and there aren't any active leagues/events listed for signing up for. That sucks, they both look fun.

drama bomb.

last night me and a girl who is getting married soon that i've hookedup were talking. i fell asleep and around 3am i got texts saying "if you were with me right now id **** you" and half hour later "hey get up!"

my night is shot so i text her. she calls me. i said hello and some dude says who is this? LOLL i insta hang up. now he just texted me "why are you texting my fiance ****er?"

i went onto facebook and immediately deleted her. a part of me reallyyyy wants to own this guy but he's an army guy so he'd probably try to hunt me down

hahahahahahahhahaha GG i vote for owning him.

TR: lol

It appears as though I was wrong for once in my life. Really didn't think we would be seeing each other any time soon again but never one to complain. Stayed up all night last night, fell asleep around 1pm. Wake up at 8 and Artsy had texted me

"I don't think we should stop seeing each other. You're right - that could be a very poor decision. Man, you drive me insane."

hahahahaha. I let her know of my amusement - "Hahahahahaha I just got up but no problemo. Good decision!" - and she calls me a couple minutes later to invite herself over after hanging out with her friends. She arrives, and instead of all the annoying self-loathing talk she has been in love with lately she seems in a chipper mood and I make her watch an episode of The Hard Times of RJ Berger with me and then we get straight down to business.

Afterwards she mentions how she is dreading talking to Arthur and letting him down, which is when I give her Henry's advice to just say she is busy from now on and let him get the point (hope you don't mind but I introduced the info as coming from my 'friend'!! bff4L?) which she wasn't a fan of, but at this point I think I couldn't care less and just let her handle that however she wants to.

She says some nonsense about being worried she will get hurt somehow, whether its me hooking up with another girl, getting a girlfriend ("LOL i'd still hook up with you if I had a girlfriend, don't worry about that," I assured her), or that I will just get bored of her. Obv fishing for reassurances - an annoying girlTactic, to be certain - so whatever I was guilted into giving them. It seems like after our chatting last night she is keen on molding herself into exactly what I want (I have a hard time buying that after what went down she is all of a sudden completely cool with it again just because her friend told her to be), which will not work with a man of my cynicism towards females.

Still going to have a talk with her brother once he gets back in town, as Arthur is unpredictable in this regard ("What, artsy? You were hooking up with ZZ, and after our date are going back to him!?" -> "Hey brotherArtsy, did you know about your sister and zugzwang!?") and again, I don't want to be beaten to the punch or deal with any surprises in any way.

Takeaway lesson here is definitely to stick to your guns no matter what, and they'll come around. They have to - they're females.

Great guy.

Whenever zugz eventually comes around here talking about getting into a relationship one day, I'm going to vote against it...

This is interesting.

Do you think she is actually cool with it or do you think she is just pretending hoping that if she does this it will develop into something more?

hahahaha

The latter. I mean if this was a week+ later then maybe the former but that drastic of a turnaround in less than 24 hours? Part of this is my read on her body language/tone of voice stuff but part of it is me just not believing she could pull a snap 180 that quickly. Suppose I could always be wrong.

IME, if she really is cool just occasionally hooking up she'll make it semi-clear early on, and she certainly wouldn't try and try and try for a relationship until she's defeated. I'd wager that this girl tries zz for a relationship again in the future if this hooking up continues.

I've had a few girls go this route with me, and tbh with the constant great sex it's hard not to fall into a relationship unless there's strong reasons not to get into one.

I'm of that opinion as well. I think she fakes it for until she suspects you hooked up with someone else then she flips out.

this is how yeota and yeota wife started iirc. congrats on the new girlfriend zugz!

got really drunk last night and texted 19yo, then just before i fell asleep i realized that was a really bad idea so i texted her that BG made me do it.

dont wanna look at my phone right now.

might have ****ed up hardcore last night. we'll see, but I wouldnt be surprised if she left me.

No i didn't cheat on her, hit her, or anything like that. Cops did get called though.

vintage on being karak

Yeah, seriously. WTF.

TR of last night:

All of my friends were out of town or working or sick. Basically being bitches. After UFC, a buddy and I part ways to head home, I'm pretty bummed and not looking forward to a movie/work/sleep. I see a bunch of flashing lights in a window, unmistakably the flashing lights of a party. In some campus building I've never been in. I walk up and signs confirm it's free, for some Jewish organization on campus. lol

I enter and ask the entrance girl what it is. She (rightfully) acts like I'm pretty sketchy, but can't deny me entry. I go in. I go to take a piss and meet some guy in line. This was a key moment.

I won't go into details cause it would be TL;DR. The cliffs/highlights:

Started out super awkward, but it was a fun challenge to try to feel comfortable and meet people. A good exercise.

I eventually meet a second guy, friend of the first. They think it's hilarious that I just crashed their party. Then I meet these two girls who are rolling on E. One has a friend there, the other doesn't. I talk/flirt with the one that doesn't have a friend. We hug to our non-Jewishness. She was of medium attractiveness, but to be totally honest, something about her face reminded me of pooptoad:



I kept coming back to the well on this one, thinking she would eventually just wanna ****. Nothing happened, just lots of mutual touching but always stopping when she stopped reciprocating.

I talked to some Indian girl that was 18 and ******ed for way too long. The conversation was good though, in that she was continually entertained. Mostly I felt good about getting back into rhythm after ****ing up so badly and feeling so awkward with that girl from last week that I bought a drink. This girl eventually went to the bathroom w a friend and then I just didn't see her again until I left. She was happy to meet me, but not cute enough to take her number.

Some girl grabbed me and asked me to dance with her. She was moderately attractive. Her smile was okay, but her incisors were pretty sharp. She was ****housed I think, so I tried to escalate quickly. She grinded on me a little bit even though nobody else was grinding. I thought she might be DTF, and she only knew like 2 ppl at the party and doesn't even go to my university. I wasn't worried about my reputation, so when she told me she was leaving I asked her to come home with me. She said no, and made up that she had a bf.

I also talked to probly the hottest girl at the party. We bonded over not being Jews, and it was going pretty well, she was flirting with me cause she was pissed at this dick that left her at the party. Then her boyfriend (who had ditched her) showed up and I just left. Couldn't be assed to deal with that. It was poor timing cause I think this could have gone somewhere; they'll break up in less than a month.

Talked a couple other random girls where the conversation went well but they weren't super into me.

Notably, I made like 4 guys friends that I talked to for a decent chunk of the night. I typically hate every guy I meet at venues/parties, but these guys were pretty cool. It was a good distraction so that I didn't really care about hooking up too much. I need more friends like this that are not so boring, then I'd probably enjoy going out for the sake of going out.

Though I didn't do more than dance/kiss on the cheek, it was a good night for boosting confidence and getting some practice talking to dumb girls about random stuff. It's so different from the normal conversation I'm used to, like being two people at once - one that can have long, deep conversations and another that can keep to very light, surface topics, never saying more than a phrase or two back and forth.

hahahaha

I like being single way too much to get into one. If it kept me from progressing things with FW I have a feeling that this won't be too hard. Already spent 4 years in a relationship. I am 22 (almost 23 though). Making up for lost time.

Well MuslimGirl hit me up last night but it was at 11 and I had already made plans to see Artsy otherwise I would have gone out with her. Rescheduled for next wknd. She almost NEVER initiates texts so I am assuming she wants to resume hooking up. This scenario could come sooner than expected.

lollllll when she told me about Arthur and I was writing that first TR this thought came to my mind as well.

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il_m falling in lurveeee, gonna lose that v-card soon.

In for details. Hope it works out the best for you man.

Played a new drinking game last night: Awkward Jenga.

Just like normal Jenga(cept if you knock over the tower, you finish your drink), but on all the pieces there was stuff written.

Anything from "Take 2" to "Give 2" to ""The Chalice""(everybody pours a sip of their drink into a cup and you have to drink it all mixed.. yea, disgusting), to more awkward ones, like "Switch clothes with the person to your right", which is sooo funny. Rules carry over every game so people couldn't just knock it over to get their clothes back.
It was really fun

Friday I played a new game (not sure if it is standard and my pony is slow) called SlapCup. Basically you have some number of beer-pong level cups in the middle of table and two cups being passed around with 2 ping pong balls. you have to bounce the ball into the cup when it is passed to you.

if you get it on first try to you can give cup to anyone, if it isn't first try you pass to your left. if the person directly to your right has a cup and you do too and they get their ball in before you get yours then they can slap your cup. you then need to drink one from the center and bounce ball into that cup.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FpnNGuIaHwI

here is a video of it i found on youtube, its fun as hell

Sounds fun. The name reminds me of Slap the Bag(for wine).

Also the best part of the like "things carry over to next game" rule in Awkward Jenga, is that some of the pieces have stuff like "Lose an article of clothing", so as everybody gets more drunk everybody is also getting more naked.

fury thats a top 3 game of mine. more people need to play it

Looked really fun