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06-19-2010 , 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyLegs
OP, I'm going to do something that may in fact be a big mistake... I'm going to be serious for a moment. I'd never forgive myself if you're really looking for help and all you get is smart-ass answers.

I see two possibilities here:

1) This is a level. If so, nice one!
2) This is not a level. If not, I do in fact think you have some confusion about your sexuality and/or gender. That doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, but there's definitely something brewing and it's possible that Tom's androgynous qualities are bringing it up. On the spectrum of places for you to explore gender and sexuality, BBV is quite possibly the very worst option available. It's a hostile, unforgiving environment for anything even remotely unmanly. I strongly recommend you not look for acceptance or advice from this community on these matters. Talk to a professional and find a community that will support you on your journey. Good luck.
if you're being serious you're the biggest F*ck tard ever
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06-19-2010 , 12:57 PM
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omfg

amazing
I actually can not believe how epic that picture is...
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06-19-2010 , 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by aura


Do you think she is pretty OP?


Spoiler:
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06-19-2010 , 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyLegs
OP, I'm going to do something that may in fact be a big mistake... I'm going to be serious for a moment. I'd never forgive myself if you're really looking for help and all you get is smart-ass answers.

I see two possibilities here:

1) This is a level. If so, nice one!
2) This is not a level. If not, I do in fact think you have some confusion about your sexuality and/or gender. That doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, but there's definitely something brewing and it's possible that Tom's androgynous qualities are bringing it up. On the spectrum of places for you to explore gender and sexuality, BBV is quite possibly the very worst option available. It's a hostile, unforgiving environment for anything even remotely unmanly. I strongly recommend you not look for acceptance or advice from this community on these matters. Talk to a professional and find a community that will support you on your journey. Good luck.
Thanks for the intelligent response.

Trust me, I don't expect any good advice about my sexuality.

You did hit on something that I already know about myself- I am completely comfortable with having blended gender traits. What I mean is..... I will not let society tell me how to think or behave.

I am fully aware of my "genderblending" and, believe me, it is a bit tougher for a hetero male to have these traits. I have plenty of other "female gendered" traits, but I don't shy away from them. I sometimes try to show people why it is okay to do so.

I can only speak about the U.S., but the gender lines are pretty heavily drawn and any deviation is considered "abnormal" by the masses. I mean, if you don't like football (<---U.S. version) and beer here, then you're halfway to the gay pride parade as far as many men (and women) are concerned. I choose simply to resist the mob mentality thinking, even though it is a bit of a pain to do so sometimes. I like what I like, and I will not let others determine it for me.

Professional help? I truly don't need it. I have always been considered "different" or other similar adjectives, but I don't mind.

As far as gender goes, I do have plenty of what people consider as "male gendered" traits, but I don't feel like I have to lock myself into exhibiting a gendered trait just because it has been deemed so by society.

Which poker player would I have sex with over all others (by far)? Liv Boeree.

Not coincidentally, I like tough girls who have some "male gendered" traits. An example would be Liv's shredding on the guitar.

I like independent thinkers of both sexes. durrrr falls into this category, so that's one reason why I like him so much.

With all that being said, I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry.

durrrr's androgyny is definitely one of the reasons why I think the shops work so well. Does it relate to the dream and everything else? Probably, but I am, without a doubt, a heterosexual.

Remember that I was highly disturbed when I woke up. Yes, I was aroused (not stiff), but that was because of durrrr's kisses on my neck.


cliffs:

JimmyLegs' post was well thought out.

No gender confusion... it really is more of a blending of gender traits.

I am still a hetero.

I Liv

I made some shops of durrrr as a girl and had an ultravivid dream about him (kissing my neck).

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06-19-2010 , 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by TheRenaissance
I am close to 99% sure OP is in fact NOT ghey. This is for a very simple reason: No man in denial about his sexuality would make this thread. Instead he would be making threads about how some chick is so ****ing hot or nerdy posts about football. In fact I think the rest of us, who are suuuuper excited about this thread, would benefit more from some introspection.
This.

Well said.
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06-19-2010 , 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted by aura
Thanks for the intelligent response.

Trust me, I don't expect any good advice about my sexuality.

You did hit on something that I already know about myself- I am completely comfortable with having blended gender traits. What I mean is..... I will not let society tell me how to think or behave.

I am fully aware of my "genderblending" and, believe me, it is a bit tougher for a hetero male to have these traits. I have plenty of other "female gendered" traits, but I don't shy away from them. I sometimes try to show people why it is okay to do so.

I can only speak about the U.S., but the gender lines are pretty heavily drawn and any deviation is considered "abnormal" by the masses. I mean, if you don't like football (<---U.S. version) and beer here, then you're halfway to the gay pride parade as far as many men (and women) are concerned. I choose simply to resist the mob mentality thinking, even though it is a bit of a pain to do so sometimes. I like what I like, and I will not let others determine it for me.

Professional help? I truly don't need it. I have always been considered "different" or other similar adjectives, but I don't mind.

As far as gender goes, I do have plenty of what people consider as "male gendered" traits, but I don't feel like I have to lock myself into exhibiting a gendered trait just because it has been deemed so by society.

Which poker player would I have sex with over all others (by far)? Liv Boeree.

Not coincidentally, I like tough girls who have some "male gendered" traits. An example would be Liv's shredding on the guitar.

I like independent thinkers of both sexes. durrrr falls into this category, so that's one reason why I like him so much.

With all that being said, I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry.

durrrr's androgyny is definitely one of the reasons why I think the shops work so well. Does it relate to the dream and everything else? Probably, but I am, without a doubt, a heterosexual.

Remember that I was highly disturbed when I woke up. Yes, I was aroused (not stiff), but that was because of durrrr's kisses on my neck.


cliffs:

JimmyLegs' post was well thought out.

No gender confusion... it really is more of a blending of gender traits.

I am still a hetero.

I Liv

I made some shops of durrrr as a girl and had an ultravivid dream about him (kissing my neck).
come on man, really?
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06-19-2010 , 01:46 PM
confirmed gos
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06-19-2010 , 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by icracknuts
Do you think she is pretty OP?
Prettier than the original. Right?

Here's a post that includes this and


Last edited by aura; 06-19-2010 at 02:21 PM.
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06-19-2010 , 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by TheRenaissance
I am close to 99% sure OP is in fact NOT ghey. This is for a very simple reason: No man in denial about his sexuality would make this thread. Instead he would be making threads about how some chick is so ****ing hot or nerdy posts about football. In fact I think the rest of us, who are suuuuper excited about this thread, would benefit more from some introspection.
Unless he didn't want to deny because that would put him on as a gay in denial. So he makes a post just to show himself that he is comfortable and not gay. Which is fact is his way of denying it..

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06-19-2010 , 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted by sufit
Unless he didn't want to deny because that would put him on as a gay in denial. So he makes a post just to show himself that he is comfortable and not gay. Which is fact is his way of denying it..

YOU JUST BLEW MY MIND


whereas op just blew durrrr











































's mind
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06-19-2010 , 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by TheRenaissance
I am close to 99% sure OP is in fact NOT ghey. This is for a very simple reason: No man in denial about his sexuality would make this thread. Instead he would be making threads about how some chick is so ****ing hot or nerdy posts about football. In fact I think the rest of us, who are suuuuper excited about this thread, would benefit more from some introspection.
Good point well said.
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06-19-2010 , 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by aura
Thanks for the intelligent response.

Trust me, I don't expect any good advice about my sexuality.

You did hit on something that I already know about myself- I am completely comfortable with having blended gender traits. What I mean is..... I will not let society tell me how to think or behave.

I am fully aware of my "genderblending" and, believe me, it is a bit tougher for a hetero male to have these traits. I have plenty of other "female gendered" traits, but I don't shy away from them. I sometimes try to show people why it is okay to do so.

I can only speak about the U.S., but the gender lines are pretty heavily drawn and any deviation is considered "abnormal" by the masses. I mean, if you don't like football (<---U.S. version) and beer here, then you're halfway to the gay pride parade as far as many men (and women) are concerned. I choose simply to resist the mob mentality thinking, even though it is a bit of a pain to do so sometimes. I like what I like, and I will not let others determine it for me.

Professional help? I truly don't need it. I have always been considered "different" or other similar adjectives, but I don't mind.

As far as gender goes, I do have plenty of what people consider as "male gendered" traits, but I don't feel like I have to lock myself into exhibiting a gendered trait just because it has been deemed so by society.

Which poker player would I have sex with over all others (by far)? Liv Boeree.

Not coincidentally, I like tough girls who have some "male gendered" traits. An example would be Liv's shredding on the guitar.

I like independent thinkers of both sexes. durrrr falls into this category, so that's one reason why I like him so much.

With all that being said, I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry.

durrrr's androgyny is definitely one of the reasons why I think the shops work so well. Does it relate to the dream and everything else? Probably, but I am, without a doubt, a heterosexual.

Remember that I was highly disturbed when I woke up. Yes, I was aroused (not stiff), but that was because of durrrr's kisses on my neck.


cliffs:

JimmyLegs' post was well thought out.

No gender confusion... it really is more of a blending of gender traits.

I am still a hetero.

I Liv

I made some shops of durrrr as a girl and had an ultravivid dream about him (kissing my neck).
Actual forget my first post you sir a 100% ghey. Come on brah take a second a read your post back to yourself.
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06-19-2010 , 02:44 PM
op stop watching HSP late at night before going to bed ,OR YOU WILL DREAM ABOUT DURRRR KICKING ASS AT THE POKER TABLE.

OR IN YOUR CASE, BEATING UR ASS ON A POKER TABLE.
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06-19-2010 , 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Wanner5betme
op stop watching HSP late at night before going to bed ,OR YOU WILL DREAM ABOUT DURRRR KICKING ASS AT THE POKER TABLE.

OR IN YOUR CASE, BEATING UR ASS ON A POKER TABLE.

I'm sure OP will have a dream like this, which involves Durrrr and OP's ass. Beating? not so much
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06-19-2010 , 04:54 PM
[x] OP is gay.

[x] OP is in denial.

[x] OP needs professional help.

[x] 5 star thread.






































Oh and - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry - I can honestly say that if I was a girl, I'd put durrrr on the top of my list as far as guys I'd want to marry -

[x] OP is gay.
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06-19-2010 , 04:57 PM
your basically as gay as you can get without accutally shoving a **** in your mouth
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06-19-2010 , 05:19 PM
OP - just to clarify I wasn't suggesting seeing a professional because you needed "help", just that it might be an avenue for you to find emotional support. It's not my place to say what's normal or not, but what you describe is definitely uncommon, and it can be beneficial to find a supportive community.
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06-19-2010 , 05:33 PM
Jesus Christ man. Sexuality is a spectrum, there is no such thing as 100% straight. OP is normal, and he doesnt need "emotional support" lol. If you are leveling you got me good, and if not... oh dear.
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06-19-2010 , 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by aura
Prettier than the original. Right?

Here's a post that includes this and

LOL omfg I have no idea what to make of this, I wonder what durrrr would make of it.

5* OP without a doubt.
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06-19-2010 , 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by TheRenaissance
Jesus Christ man. Sexuality is a spectrum, there is no such thing as 100% straight. OP is normal, and he doesnt need "emotional support" lol. If you are leveling you got me good, and if not... oh dear.
I think you misunderstand me. I agree with you 100%. But theoretically there could also be issues of gender identity and I wanted to make sure OP at least got one serios response and not another dick joke.
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06-19-2010 , 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyLegs
OP - just to clarify I wasn't suggesting seeing a professional because you needed "help", just that it might be an avenue for you to find emotional support. It's not my place to say what's normal or not, but what you describe is definitely uncommon, and it can be beneficial to find a supportive community.
Understood.

I'm not sure which forum is more supportive... NVG or BBV?

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Jesus Christ man. Sexuality is a spectrum, there is no such thing as 100% straight. OP is normal, and he doesnt need "emotional support" lol. If you are leveling you got me good, and if not... oh dear.
TheRenaissance is spot on again! People are so afraid of being gay that they play the role of "manly man" (as they've learned through the media) to prove their hetero maleness.

I certainly was expecting jokes and shops, but it is surprising that there aren't more posters like JimmyLegs and TheRenaissance itt.

On a forum with so many highly intelligent people as members, it is a surprise to see so many who adhere to such strict (and boring) social rules.

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06-19-2010 , 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by jmrd27
I did dream of having sex with my sister once tho which was pretty messed up in itself
sweet baby jesus i hope your leveling
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06-19-2010 , 06:47 PM
I just woke up....


I was dreaming i was playing softball. After the game everyone was having beers, and we ended up hanging out in my parent's[ strange] makebelieve condo. There were two girls there. I later found out that one of them was going through a divorce with her husband who was on the team.

Everyone left except the two girls. One immediately feel asleep in her underwear on the bed. The other took off all her clothes and wanted to take off my pants and suck me dick.

I told her I was married, but she insisted and started rubbing my ****. Her bare ass was on my lap, and I was rubbing her puss and spreading her ass cheeks.

Then I unfortunately woke up, and I had a hard on.

She was a smokin' hot brunette probably 5'2". Real nice body.


Op, this is what straight men dream about. I never have had any dreams of a man kissing my neck, or anything like it. If I did, I am pretty sure it would have been a nightmare.
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06-19-2010 , 07:27 PM
As a man I have a certain acceptance level for sexual interactions.

In all cases, it is a positive experience to have any sort of sexual interaction between woman who are only slightly below average looking or hotter (the 4,5,6,7,8,9 and 10 women). For the rest of the ladies, a vagina is still a vagina. As my old roomate used to say, crabby has no face. A quick bang is all i would really want or be able to endure. Any hand holding, kissing, or even cutesy flirting--hell no!

With any dude I would not stand anything sexual. If a man tries to kiss me my immediate reaction is to punch him. Gay guys hit on me all the time--well, often enough to bother me at least. If a guy seems interested in me than i am already uncomfortable. If he starts to chat me up--that is just too much there. But, kissing me passionately on the neck? This is a homosexual act. If this were to happen in real life and you first reaction was-- wow that felt good, you are gay. As a man, don't you have boundaries? For example, when you go to pee in a public bathroom and there is someone already there, do you prefer any specific urinal? Or, lets say you were trying to unzip your fly to take a pee, but the fly was stuck. Say the guy standing next to you reached over without saying anything and helped you out with that problem, successfully unzipping you. If the first thing you thought was, man that felt good, then that is just not straight. If you thought man that was weird, or just wondered about the situation, then that is borderline. If you left immediately, punched him in the face, or did anything that conveyed your disinterest, than that is normal hetero. If you are thinking that (for example) you are not gay because because you would not give a dude a bj,even though you would enjoy getting a bj from that dude, you are wrong. That is gay with a bit of brainwashing from society.

Maybe my definition of gay/homosexual is different than yours.

Q: Have you ever dressed up as a woman or considered it? (makeup and/or feminine clothing). If so, what was the reason behind it?
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06-19-2010 , 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted by iampi
As a man I have a certain acceptance level for sexual interactions.

In all cases, it is a positive experience to have any sort of sexual interaction between woman who are only slightly below average looking or hotter (the 4,5,6,7,8,9 and 10 women). For the rest of the ladies, a vagina is still a vagina. As my old roomate used to say, crabby has no face. A quick bang is all i would really want or be able to endure. Any hand holding, kissing, or even cutesy flirting--hell no!

With any dude I would not stand anything sexual. If a man tries to kiss me my immediate reaction is to punch him. Gay guys hit on me all the time--well, often enough to bother me at least. If a guy seems interested in me than i am already uncomfortable. If he starts to chat me up--that is just too much there. But, kissing me passionately on the neck? This is a homosexual act. If this were to happen in real life and you first reaction was-- wow that felt good, you are gay. As a man, don't you have boundaries? For example, when you go to pee in a public bathroom and there is someone already there, do you prefer any specific urinal? Or, lets say you were trying to unzip your fly to take a pee, but the fly was stuck. Say the guy standing next to you reached over without saying anything and helped you out with that problem, successfully unzipping you. If the first thing you thought was, man that felt good, then that is just not straight. If you thought man that was weird, or just wondered about the situation, then that is borderline. If you left immediately, punched him in the face, or did anything that conveyed your disinterest, than that is normal hetero. If you are thinking that (for example) you are not gay because because you would not give a dude a bj,even though you would enjoy getting a bj from that dude, you are wrong. That is gay with a bit of brainwashing from society.

Maybe my definition of gay/homosexual is different than yours.

Q: Have you ever dressed up as a woman or considered it? (makeup and/or feminine clothing). If so, what was the reason behind it?
You're gaying up this thread more than OP possibly could with this nonsense ^
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