I had a first date set up with somebody last year around election day. I mentioned I didn't vote and she didn't think it was going to work and cancelled haha

lol wait, is her job like, going and getting people to sign up to vote, or something like that, and then you went on some "i took a year of econ" style line about voting being worthless? bc that would be hilarious, honestly.

was that before or after you talked about religion and ex-girlfriends?

Once had a girl ask me about abortion in the first 5 minutes, but I didn't agree with her ENTHUSIASTICALLY ENOUGH, so she chugged the beer I bought her and peaced.

How often do you guys message a girl after you've been on a date or two? I think that apart from setting up further dates I really shouldn't be initiating texts. I do not want to seem too needy or clingy. Which I am not. But I do not want to come off like I am indifferent either.

I am thinking about two instances in particular. Girl 1, we've had two dates. We made out on the second one and she texted me back the next morning and called me sexy. Then I texted her back. She texted me back and suggested we go to the movies a week from now. How should I play it?

Girl #2 we had a really nice first date. We talked a while and she told me that she had a tramp stamp and that she was 'giving away all her secrets" on the first date. We kissed on the lips. We texted again for a second date but are having scheduling issues. I am free on Friday but not her. She is free on Saturday but not me, etc. Should I still be texting her like hi, what's up? kind of texts?

I think you have to do whatever is comfortable for you. If you're not into texting much, don't force it. Wouldn't want to set an impression that you are early on and then a month later get accused of not paying enough attention when you fall into your true habits.

Fwiw I am not a big texter and I recently had two great dates with a girl but she is going away for a week. We haven't set a third date but it's essentially a lock to happen after she gets back. I'm not planning to check in much except to make fun of her when the Eagles beat the Giants on MNF.

i'm still not quite sure what her job is

she did bring up planned parenthood in the first 10 minutes

i think i might start texting less, may even say something like "i don't really text" right at the begining

If you're texting her "hi, what's up" you're doing it wrong.

For me, I would only text for setting up dates or if something came up in life that related to a convo we had on the date. For example: If they mentioned they had an interview in a few days on the date... I'd text them day of wishing them luck. Or if I happened to eat at a restaurant that came up on the date, tried a new beer, saw a movie etc...

Basically, it should be natural and will evolve over time as the relationship progresses. Forcing conversation with a "hi, what's up" is a recipe for disaster IMO.

Knowing when to say nothing is important

So yall know by now either it is or it isn't. Either I **** this bitch or I dont. I cheated on my last gf but I haven't so far on this one. You've seen my current gf. Either I have cheated or I haven't. I'm lying right now cuddling with a 10/10 who wants to have sec with me but udk if I should, she's not my gf. Yall seen her. What should I do? Yea or nay?

Also her pussy is in my face but I sont wanna do anything about it

Well your gf would've been mad anyway if you got caught lying and cuddling with a 10/10. Hopefully you went through with it.

Update- tweren't no 10/10... Tweren't even no 7/10...

Nothing happened though

Also I whipped my dick out and started pissing in my old roommate's hallway. But I got stopped before I got started and was redirected to the bathroom. Still a degen alcoholic. Guess not drinking is my only choice. Pretty bad beat. I tried to limit myself to three drinks but then someone handed me a mixed drink with many shots of tequila and things went poorly from there RE limiting myself. Also I'm not sure chugging a pitcher of beer counts as one drink to begin with.

This thread is best with WU in it's life

limiting self to 3 drinks and then making the first a pitcher of beer is totally standard afaik

It's pretty inexcusable. This is the first time I'd consumed alcohol in several months, and it's clear that I just can't be trusted with a drink.

The pitcher chug was in the context of a drinking game. Basically you get two pitchers and one gets poured in a bucket and then a little glass gets floated in it, and everyone goes around pouring beer out of their cup into the glass. If you sink the glass you have to drink it, and if you sink the glass on the last go round you have to drink the full bucket.

2nd date with Romanian girl from CMB. Took her to the Skywalk Observatory and Top of the Hub (great view of Boston), had whisky, made out a bunch, seeing her again tomorrow. She goes back to home/Europe in Nov, she's cool but hope we're on the same page here...

She wants a ring for the green card bro

Messaged a girl on tinder about 4 hours ago, just got this reply:

what kinda girls u like?... I'm goin 2 take a chance wit you .. tex me msg my cell XXX ####

Usually bots reply within minutes...odds this is real? Or just a more elaborate bot?

I've had bots take hours to respond you kinda gotta look at the profile to see if it's a bot.

If she gave you her number without you asking she is prolly a bot

Elaborate bot. I've had them.

Been in Vegas a week (moved here).

Had a meet tonight. Got turned at the door for dress code. Thought I would, when I saw the place.

Texted her. She flips out because she thinks it's because I'm white.

Her name is a sig on every text. Google it, she's a singer. Impersonator of a few people including Whitney, and she has the voice for it.

Her message me if - includes 'you won't ask to wear my shoes'.

Vegas, holy ****.

Chip,

I don't understand. She thought you were turned at the door for being white? Were you meeting at a nation of Islam gala?

I'm always confused by Chip's posts. I have no idea what I just read.

I think he tried to get into the meetup spot but couldn't because he was dressed like a slob. He then texted the girl who thought the only reason he didn't get in is because he obviously must not be white. After clarifying that to her, she said, ok, we can meet still but only if you don't ask to put on my shoes like the last weirdo.


I think.