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Originally Posted by funkyfood
no, i'm talking about very good friends from law school. we work in the same general area and meet-up sometimes for a quick lunch somewhere cheap (food truck, potbelly, etc) just because.
For this exact scenario I wouldn't be paying.
It's amazing how anyone is worried about what another thinks with regard to this issue. The whole situation is personal preference and dependent on the groups of friends you hang out with. I would pay for the girls in the scenarios I have outlined, but disagree with Henry and those that would pay for a whole groups drinks on a night of going out. However, I also don't hang out with an upper class social circle and this is not the way that my particular group of friends operates. If it is standard for one of the guys to grab the tab for the 6 guys/4 girls scenario in your circle of friends...then you obviously just pay the tab when it is your turn to do so (there is no point in keeping track of this, if these people are truly your friends then everyone will chip in at some point).
Funky, if you feel uncomfortable paying in any scenario then my simple advice is to not do it. You got your head on your shoulders and I'm sure there is a reason you feel uncomfortable so just gotta trust your reads.
People who think Henry's logic is off base are more than likely right with regards to their personal situation. I completely understand where he is coming from and would do the same in his shoes. There is no point in comparing what he does with his friends to what us young professionals/college students do with ours. It is just a completely different scenario.
Last edited by JockBay; 06-18-2013 at 11:36 AM.