I've recently been trolling some tinder-esque apps with varied succes. What I've found is that, at least for me, it's hard to build attraction through it, girls are either interested from the beginning and you just don't **** up, or they're not and there's no way to change it.

Several times though I've had the following happen. We'd set up some sort of date (mostly drinks) but due to mutually busy schedules it's 7-10 days in the future. They then in the meantime however keep texting me. I'm not a fan of texting in general, and most of them have the personality of a wet napkin so they're not particularly enlightening discussions. I try to keep replies to a minimum, as I can't just tell them to shut the **** up and still get a date/lay out of it. How can I minimize this behavior while still getting the date?
Currently I have a bad case where even if I barely or don't reply she reinitiates 3-4 times a day or keeps sending multiple messages. She's probably bat**** crazy, but pretty hot. As I normally don't text much at all, one of my coworkers even asked me who was blowing up my phone haha.

treat 'em mean,
keep 'em keen.
-gaz

I would just tell her you're going to be doing something for the next few hours and won't be able to reply or something. That'll save you some time at least. Or just take ages to reply and say sorry I was busy with xxxxx.

Quick TR from Wednesday night out.

Went to a mates place and drank while watching the SA vs England game. Then headed out at about 10.

Got free entry for me and my two mates through my connections at the club. Got a drink and sat down next to some random girls. Turns out they were there for one of their 18 ths. Beautiful.

We chat for ten minutes then they go off to dance, no biggie. A minute later a cute blonde walks up and says did you see where my friends went? I say no, but I'll keep you company til they come back. She's 18, amazing body, amazing ass.

We start chatting and she's clearly into me. Tells me I'm really attractive in under 2 minutes. After 5 mins we are making out. We go dance for a bit and she is working all the right areas. So we vary between dancing, the bar and sitting down for about an hour or so.

Now I suggest her coming back to my place, and this is where I'm not sure if I did anything wrong or not. I say, do you wanna get out of here? And she says no. I can't remember the reason she gave. But to me it didn't make sense since she was rubbing my dick at the time Haha.

So was she just not super keen, or are some girls just not into one night stands?

Also, on the topic of buying stuff for women. When we went to the bar to get a drink, I was buying a round for my mates as well as her and she literally would not let me pay for her drink. She pushed a twenty dollar note at me until I took it.

So yeah women are weird.

Oh also, she texted me tonight and said we should've done something together tonight because she was bored but alas it was too late. I did try the, how about a movie at one of our houses, but no deal.

This turned out way too long. Soz boiz.

Firstly this girl is probably needy/borderline insane if she feels the need to re initiate conversations with you 3-4 times a day. When they send you a text just say 'hey im busy i'll text you when it gets closer for us to meet up'.. A common mistake guys make is over texting and over emoting through text, they feel they need to keep in communication with the girl or she will lose interest and most of the time this is actually the opposite.

Seems likely that she liked you but was not trying to home with a rando on her friend's 18th birthday. Now that you have her number, seems pretty easy to text her in a few days and take her on a date if you like her.

Blonde came over again last night. Took her out to a local Mexican joint. She previously told me she loves Mexican, so that was ez game. Back to mine to watch the last bit of the Stanley Cup game. We then watch Juno. Try to make out, she's like, "can't, cold sore" At this point I just know she's going to give in b/c she's talking about how much she hates this cold sore, bad timing blah blah blah. Finally she just too worked up and says she can't take it anymore. She ends up leaving couple hours later around 4am.

I have free access to an outdoor fundraiser tonight through a friend, so she's coming to that with me. She'll be meeting some of my friends. Pretty much wifed up at this point.

Yeah ok cheers mate. That was the vibe I was getting.

This is just new territory for me.

Yea ask her on a proper date and you should be golden

Right.

I guess your A game makes women come for a whole week straight then...

I agree he's probably over thinking it, but some girls can come really easily from sex and he's just prob disappointed he could've done better.

Actually most girls can't orgasm from just intercourse. You need to be rubbing her clit while your ****ing her.

If by few times I mean twice. And by C game I mean I for some reason was really nervous. Most of the time I'd be happy if she came once. This girl was really good and could cum multiple times. I sucked pretty badly.

A few of my female friends say the orgasm isn't the reason they have sex. They get just as much enjoyment and pleasure out of the actual sex.

no wai

How can that possibly be?

Offtopic: i got home after going out and finally decided to check out the documentary Cocaine Cowboys (1). One of the sickest documentariesI've ever seen. Describes the rise and fall of Miami in the 80s simply due to the cocaine business. Highly recommended

agreed cocaine cowboys is a great watch.

+1

Successful TR time. Woohoo

I went and picked up the pof mum from her house and went out to the steak house. Had an awesome steak as well as a couple of cocktails. When we were at dinner she told me about her shopping today where she bought magnum ice creams. That's an 'in' even to my untrained eye.

We made a late decision to go see the internship which was freaking hilarious. One of the best I've seen.

So I drove her home after the movie at about 11:30 and invited myself in for a magnum. Haha. She agreed.

One thing leads to another, we are listening to macklemore in her bedroom and we have sex. I stayed the night since it was like 2am by this stage.

Love the single life.

I could have sworn from reading that magnum ice creams was some crazy new condom from trojan.

I am pretty sure macklemore is not really music I want to listen to while preparing to have sex.

Oh right international audience. They are deliciously amazing ice creams.

Then you are obviously not a hip hop fan. Hip hop can get me in the mood for anything.

Uh dude, I went as macklemore for halloween last year.

I still dont understand how macklemore is good music to have sex to. I guess if you were gay and same love came on you can have sex while crying.

I just put "X gon give it to ya" to the max and bang like there is no tomorrow... obv I call myself Mr.X and bark along to the song

Ok. Respect then.

Bahahahahahaha amazing.

We both love his music though. Most if his songs are upbeat I reckon.