Sounds like she is just a psycho... maybe she doesnt actually have the time for you but she is definitely sending mixed signals. Maybe Id try backing off a little and seeing if she will come around? Im not sure though, hopefully some other people will weigh in on this.

Hey Guys,

I've only been on the forums for a while. I went to university with thebigeasy59 and he got me into cards and 2p2. I graduated from college last year and am working at the local airport in halifax at a car rental company in sales trying to get into another course and paying off some student loans. Life's been pretty good for the last few months but I've hit a bit of a dry spell, mainly due to working a lot of hours and just not having the same social life I did in school (if tbe59's TR's are any indication of the kind of the partying we did)

Anyways, I'll quit with the life story and get to the point. I've been small talking a girl who works at a competitor over the last few weeks. She literally gave me the best opener conceivable as she was reading "The game" of all possible books behind her counter and we got into talking about pickup and whether she thinks some of the techniques are legit and if she's had any used on her. Girl is an 8 at worst (tbe59 can vouch). That being said, she's been relatively friendly stopping to chat every once and while when she's not busy and offering to pick up coffee whenever she's taking a run up to tim's. The conversation has been very casual/informal and i've gotten a few interest indicators like her asking if i'm working certain weekends,what my life goals are, etc.

If we were both in school I know this would be EZ game but I'm unsure of the progression from here with. Her company is really weird in that they can't take lunch breaks away from the office or anything so trying to increase the comfort level at work is difficult. I think I should man up and find a way to arrange something away from work but I'm not sure if I should find more opportunities to talk to her a bit more and get any more signals before moving forward.

side note- found out from a female coworker who has talked to her that she is planning on moving to the UK to work abroad for the year sometime this summer, which she hasn't told me yet. I realize this shouldn't impact my decision it's a factor none the less, especially if she appears hesitant to begin any kind of relationship,casual or otherwise.

seems easy... go get drinks after dinner sometime. thats pretty standard.

Second yeota both times.

First piece of advice is really good. I think, gibson, you need to back off and not lay it on as thick as you're doing. You just have to deal with the butterflies and try not to let her know how much you like her early in a relationship, if it's like that. It also sounds like this girl is going through hard times, which happens. It also seems like she's more mature than you, and kind of wonders about that. She might just not have time, meh. Dunno.

Second, drinks/coffee/whatever sounds great. It seems like this girl is giving you the go-ahead.

She's a confirmed hottie.

my only advice is to be assertive and just ****ing do it. don't be all uncle ****ty and wait 2 years to admit that you like a girl like he's done with every girl he's ever seen. jump in, if it goes well then awesome, if it doesn't then who cares? you're not wasting any time wondering.

ok i tell this just for entertainemtn's sake

i went out with my friend and our mutual friend and his sister for his siter's 21st birthady onight

1 month since she was 21 but her bro (25) never got to celebrate with her so we came too

this girl was all over me all night. she was touching me and lifrty... and as soon as she got drunk she started grabbing my ass and feeling me up... then she actually started stroking my **** under the table as her brother sat across from us .i pulled away and asked her to stop and she admitted she did it but came up with a stupid reason wh.y

then on the awy home she kept talking about how she touched my **** and eventually her brother snapped on her and told her to shut the **** up and tsop talking

honestly if i was drunk i'd nail this girl but sober i wouldnt and knowing she is my friend's sister i def wouldnt

funny story though amirite?

This is how I read Karak TRs.

just playin. I enjoyed the TR.

SHE'S 21 but her bro didnt blame me for how i acted. he admitted his sister was trying to **** me and actually gave me kudos for not pursuing it further.

now the other friend that was with us... i told him i'd **** his sister sober drunk or inbetween whatever because she's hot as ****. im pretty sure he didnt appreicate that but he never told me that so i feel ok

also i showed them all pics of BG cause i told them the story and they were curious and they all said they'd **** her too

fml

pic from dinner.

yick

rly?

edit: hard to tell in this pic, but she has rockin boobage.

agreed with you vintage. hell, both are pretty cute.

her hair si weird

but she's prob hot

girl on right = no thanks

you're weird

girl on left is def. hot.

girl on right is nto at all. are you serious?

meh i'd smash. whatever maybe its the beer.

Girl on left is the girl in question. Girl on right is some rando we were eating with.

Yeah, she does have some hair, but she's also smokin hot, and a dancer @ my school. fwiw, she had to have breast reduction surgery, so not only does she have plenty of boobage, but they were sculpted by a plastic surgeon for a legit reason!

Pic of her @ a football game w/ another friend of ours.

BOOM BOOM BOOM

fyp

Should have got drunk imo

i was drunk and i would ave done what i said i would have done cept she was my friend's sister. bros before hoes BRAH

I get the bros before hoes thing, but I have a few friends whose sisters I would defo sleep with. I probably wouldn't hide it from them either.

I guess it's obv I don't have sisters of my own.

im an only child so it doesnt mean **** to me... i dont udnerstand the sibling **** at all

but i do get that older bros are very protective of their younger sisters

and honestly if my friend's sis was a rando chick i'd still have to be drunk before... ya know

my OTHER friend that was out with us tonight (minus his sister sadly) on the other hand... well dang no alcohol needed. i told him this. he shook his head rapidly and said "ill pretend i didnt hear that i cant think about things like that" and i respected his wishes

He HAS to know he has a hot sister. I'm glad I don't have to worry about that mental torment. Esp if she's younger than him.

Welcome to L(ets)J(ust)B(e)F(riends) Land.

I dont think she is psycho from what I've read.
She doesnt send mixed signals, she wants to be friends and doesnt want to hurt him.
Standard behavior from girls. I agree with your second part.

Back off from her, dont text here unless she initiates. Dont get too emotionally involved, which seems pretty hard, because from what I can tell, you are heavily involved (pretty standard given it's your "first time").

You need to find someone else, you wont get together with her anytime soon.

I think this "talk" stuff is also weak sauce, there has hardly been any physical contact with the girl and you are in love with her. This kind of behavior only works with manipulative girls.

And one more thing, please dont tell a girl that she is beautiful, when you dont have any relationship with her. Make more specific compliments, she gets the "you are beautiful"-line often enough, she wants someone different.

my 2 cents