Since everyone here seems knowledgeable, and I don't have multiple letters to deal w/, maybe you all can help me figure out where I stand and my next play?
Z is this cool chick who works at this food place maybe a couple blocks from campus. Normally, I'm a big fan of 'don't **** where you eat', but she's honestly a pretty diggable person. I had gone in to the place a couple times with my roommate 1. Because it has good food but then 2. Because she worked there and I was trying to find an in so to speak. Anyway, she winds up giving me her phone, fb, and email address on a napkin and says to hit her up. (!)
So I was feeling pretty good and we hung last week at some coffee place and watched some decent band and talked and crap and it was cool. I got a decent vibe since she pretty much shut out a couple of guys when they tried to talk to her in an advancing manner and we made small talk with someone else for a little while who was sitting by himself. So the night was going well, no pressure, she was fun to talk to and hang out with. She mentioned wanting to party since she had to work during the weekend but I didn't know of anything happening in the middle of the week but said we could bike over to a bar and see what's happening. After some indecisiveness of where to go, we ride over to this place but then it gets kind of apprehensive, mainly because they would ID me (she's a couple years older and I have a few more months to go until I'm 21
) and it wasn't really as exciting a place and we had hoped.
Anyways, there the night pretty much ends. We bike the same way since she lives a few blocks down from me. At the light where I turn we stopped and she could have kept going since it was green and **** but we talked for a couple more minutes and then made our separate ways. But yeah, on the way home I talked my way down from it being a fun night with future prospects to 'Oh god I'm so lame she didn't even like come to hug/kiss/pat my head'.
So later that week me and my roommate go to grab some grub around midnight and we're friendly with the people there since it's new and we go once a week give or take and one of the people says she'll go grab Z for me and I was pretty confused since I was high and usually it's just the first person there writes down what I want to eat and the workers just come and go and talk since it's usually emptyish when we go there. Anyway, she's working and we talk for a while and she apologizes for maybe being lame on account of the fact that she was pretty stoned. I tell her it was cool and that it was fun and she was fun etc just less lame, but yeah. I dunno if there was any window to future goings outs. She was mentioning what I was doing for spring break and I said that I wasn't gonna go home and all and she said she wasn't either. I probably would have asked her to hang later this week if I wasn't pretty stoned then and slightly uncomfortable asking her to come out around my roommate and her coworkers in the back. But yeah, night ends and I feel good again.
So anyway, I was thinking of asking her to come hang out tonight but I'm a bit sick and don't feel like biking a few miles nor being tired and boring from being sick. So that kinda sucked but I'll be better tomorrow and I was thinking of seeing if she wanted to bike downtown tomorrow night to see a show or go to this food place where they also have movies to rent, like French movies and kung fu and indie films and crap. I figured I'd suggest we should watch a movie some time at one of our places and I could figure it out from there. It seems pretty innocuous in that it affords her an easy out but also provides an opportunity to make both of our intentions clear? Obv I prefer going to the place that has food and movies and 'hipster' ****.
Yeah, anyway, opinions are appreciated. I've been 'out of the game' for a long time and am still sort of awkward in getting back on the horse and my roommates are really of no help. I know I just have to not be a bitch and make advances and all that but yeah. I'll update in the future with what happens.