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12-02-2013 , 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Dale rob who probably took this most to heart has 28 posts in Sl girls thread. Which would be ****ing impressive if eh did so without reading a single TR, or seeing that people in SL have met me numerous times IRL.
You have >2k posts there and I have >1.2k. Why on earth would someone with 28 posts have followed it and know as many details about the people who post there to the degree that we do?

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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Lets not forget there was two semi discussions about me not having a car itt, and the entire post revolved around me having a ****ing car.
...so you're like "lol online dating thread" because in a very crowded topic people don't remember every detail about every poster like "ccuster doesn't have a car"?

Just chill out, man, idk why you're mad about people hating on SL (I haven't even really noticed that, but w/e) and feel the need to get so defensive about it and hate on people here. If anything I should be the one doing that as the person who mods that forum.
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12-02-2013 , 05:01 PM
3Bet: Are you azn? As for your question, I'd say 20% is ok, 30% is decent, 40% if you are very attractive w/ a good profile, and 50%+ if you are a really top-tier dude.

Custer: I was pretty underwhelmed that that obvious troll was all it was after seeing all the responses.
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12-02-2013 , 05:01 PM
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Originally Posted by 3BetBluffing
Idk all I wanna know is what a good reply % is when messaging 7+ women
I only message what I would consider 5.5+ and am at 35-40%. Probably like 20% on 6.5+. On first message that is, def had a few just die out.
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12-02-2013 , 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by movieman2g
why is this thread turning into a lame game of werewolf?
I don't get this reference. I googled it, but it didn't help.
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12-02-2013 , 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted by 3BetBluffing
Idk all I wanna know is what a good reply % is when messaging 7+ women
Mine is around 15-20%. I message about 6+
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12-02-2013 , 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
3Bet: Are you azn? As for your question, I'd say 20% is ok, 30% is decent, 40% if you are very attractive w/ a good profile, and 50%+ if you are a really top-tier dude.

Custer: I was pretty underwhelmed that that obvious troll was all it was after seeing all the responses.
Not Asian. 30% is just decent?

Is that with copy/pasted one-liners like "hey you look sexy in X pic. my name is 3Bet how ya doing?"
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12-02-2013 , 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted by dalerobk2
I don't get this reference. I googled it, but it didn't help.
I feel like Im being leveled but Ive always been naive. Werewolf is a POG game where villagers have to find out who the werewolves are and kill them. This is done based on dissection of posts/actions in the werewolf thread.

@3bet
I'd say as the percentages move up, you have to put less effort in as you're better looking/in life.
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12-02-2013 , 05:09 PM
Wants a Relationship, or Wants to date but nothing serious... which is preferable
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12-02-2013 , 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by goofyballer
You have >2k posts there and I have >1.2k. Why on earth would someone with 28 posts have followed it and know as many details about the people who post there to the degree that we do?



...so you're like "lol online dating thread" because in a very crowded topic people don't remember every detail about every poster like "ccuster doesn't have a car"?

Just chill out, man, idk why you're mad about people hating on SL (I haven't even really noticed that, but w/e) and feel the need to get so defensive about it and hate on people here. If anything I should be the one doing that as the person who mods that forum.
You dont need to post a lot to see the obviousness of the troll. it was literally absurd. Come on man. read it objectively, its absurd. Sure its probably a real story, but that doesnt mean people should treat it as a true story wherever its posted. You should default to troll, regardless who posted that.

Look at what El D just posted, it being an obvious troll. How does he know me better than anyone else ITT? A few people knew it was a troll, and they had no more knowledge of me than people who didnt.

This is all ignoring, my second post about not knowing how to delete, or thinking to simply edit that post to a '.' or something.

Mad about peoples thoughts on SL? What? Where did that come from. I was genuinely laughing at the references to SL. If anything you seem slightly rustled about my assumptions on this threads posting base.
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12-02-2013 , 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by housenuts
Wants a Relationship, or Wants to date but nothing serious... which is preferable
What do you prefer ? I have dating but nothing serious. When questioned I just tell them that obviously Im not going to turn down the woman of my life but Im comfortable in the position Im in and not really desperately looking for a relationship.
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12-02-2013 , 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Yakmelk
What do you prefer ? I have dating but nothing serious. When questioned I just tell them that obviously Im not going to turn down the woman of my life but Im comfortable in the position Im in and not really desperately looking for a relationship.
That's my same approach. Basically that I'm busy with work, but if the right girl came along I'm not against getting in a relationship
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12-02-2013 , 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Yakmelk
I feel like Im being leveled but Ive always been naive. Werewolf is a POG game where villagers have to find out who the werewolves are and kill them. This is done based on dissection of posts/actions in the werewolf thread.
yeah, its kind of like "hes a troll!" "no he's another account!" "no im not!" except that in werewolf, its a game, itt its just sad.
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12-02-2013 , 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by housenuts
That's my same approach. Basically that I'm busy with work, but if the right girl came along I'm not against getting in a relationship
Ya the options are truly horrible with no middle ground. I put dating but nothing serious, to avoid looking like I am dependent on finding a relationship. I dont care either way.

They should really just have three options: dating, casual/hook up, friends. Or allow you to pick multiple.
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12-02-2013 , 05:22 PM
3Bet,

No, I imagine response rates on something like that would be quite a bit less, and "Hi there " is probably a better opener than that.

BTW, the combo of intelligence being your strong suit and you obsessing over poker don't really mesh with the quality of your poker posts.
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12-02-2013 , 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Mad about peoples thoughts on SL? What? Where did that come from. I was genuinely laughing at the references to SL.
Ok, I prob misinterpreted.
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12-02-2013 , 05:29 PM
I have about a 40% reply rate sending personalized messages. "Hi how's it going?" messages are not likely to get any attention from high quality girls, who receive hundreds of identical messages daily, and who probably won't even bother looking at your profile
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12-02-2013 , 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
3Bet,

No, I imagine response rates on something like that would be quite a bit less, and "Hi there " is probably a better opener than that.

BTW, the combo of intelligence being your strong suit and you obsessing over poker don't really mesh with the quality of your poker posts.
You mean I post stupid poker questions and statements?
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12-02-2013 , 06:00 PM
3bet, can I see your dating profile? Do you use OKC ?
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12-02-2013 , 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Tyler Durden
3bet, can I see your dating profile? Do you use OKC ?
POF and no lol none of you trolls are looking at my profile. KPowers made the mistake of posting just two pics and he is still hearing Fat Albert jokes weeks later
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12-02-2013 , 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by 3BetBluffing
Not Asian. 30% is just decent?

Is that with copy/pasted one-liners like "hey you look sexy in X pic. my name is 3Bet how ya doing?"
If you graduated from Berkeley when you were 20 and are sending out messages like that, you are going about this completely wrong.
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12-02-2013 , 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted by NickMPK
If you graduated from Berkeley when you were 20 and are sending out messages like that, you are going about this completely wrong.
Well me and my friend did develop a canned line that has 40ish% response rate. Results from when I tested it on OKC a few weeks ago:



It's essentially a line that tells girls they seem like they deserve better than a dude who messages a copy/pasted line and a request for nude pictures. But smooth. It appeals to their "I'm special" psyche and they think that "yes" I "understand" them and that it's nice to finally come across a guy who's different. All while never realizing it's a canned line in and of itself. I would post the verbatim line here but I don't want my line getting googled and taking girls straight to this post which exposes me for the tool that I am

But I'm trying other things and the "hey you look sexy blah blah" is one for now. This is one is doing horrendously though. Not too surprising given how unimaginative it is though I guess

Last edited by 3BetBluffing; 12-02-2013 at 06:22 PM.
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12-02-2013 , 06:19 PM
Chingy itt
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12-02-2013 , 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by KPowers
Chingy itt
Chingy is the nuts
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12-02-2013 , 06:29 PM
Are we supposed to be able to read that picture?
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12-02-2013 , 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by 3BetBluffing

It's essentially a line that tells girls they seem like they deserve better than a dude who messages a copy/pasted line and a request for nude pictures. But smooth. It appeals to their "I'm special" psyche and they think that "yes" I "understand" them and that it's nice to finally come across a guy who's different. All while never realizing it's a canned line in and of itself. I would post the verbatim line here but I don't want my line getting googled and taking girls straight to this post which exposes me for the tool that I am

But I'm trying other things and the "hey you look sexy blah blah" is one for now. This is one is doing horrendously though. Not too surprising given how unimaginative it is though I guess
That line sounds like it could have some merit if you have a large pool. It needs to be good though.
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