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Originally Posted by Jennitron
Of course I want people to be happy. I wouldn't spend my lunch breaks reviewing profiles if I didn't. Calleddownlight is frustrated and has waited 8 weeks which doesn't sound like true happiness.
May I ask why you would think that?
well to say I have "waited" is a stretch as I haven't done much since the first 2 weeks aside from respond to her texts.
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
CDL,
Maybe the profile is fake.
possible, but "she" always has immediate responses and a lot of local knowledge so it would have to be someone who posted fake pictures and now doesn't know how to get out of it or is just doing it for the lolz.
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
CDL have you posted your profile in here? There must be something wrong beyond your messages if your response rate is that low - afaik you are a relatively successful and decent looking guy who has no problem getting IRL dates?
nah, I haven't and don't really want to after so many others have expressed regret and worried about trainwrecks.
fairly successful. could improve appearance, but I am a fraction shy of 6'4 and generally dress acceptably.
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Originally Posted by dkgojackets
cdl do you message like you post
nah, my message game isn't as hard and is more inquisitive. Is that the issue?
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Originally Posted by mathmagician3
cdl use tinder. I can approve of 60-80 girls per minute and it's nice not sinking hours of my life into a stupid online game with stupid rules. I feel no pressure too because of how easy it is to end up texting with a girl...risk of failure doesn't even matter.
no moar openers, invasive profiles, mass messaging, and girls are very aggressive and message first! however, there are still bots it seems. I'm pretty sure a pay-site > tinder, but tinder is just so so good.
I just started using tinder. I have also enjoyed my one experience with grouper and am going on another next week.
I am much much better once I am >5 minutes into a conversation or in a group setting and have a much better track record in connecting with girls in those types of scenarios.