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I was just driving in my car and I received a codeword for ParanormalDate.com The codeword is George. I'm not sure how big of a discount it is but it should help out if you are looking for something interesting or strange.

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01-27-2020 , 01:01 AM

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Natamus

Tripped and Fell

Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 16,388

DC is weird and misunderstood but I like the guy, he’s interesting no to me no doubt

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01-27-2020 , 01:05 AM

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oddly catty

Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 23,026

I actually would love to get a beer with dc if I'm ever in Dallas. Unorthodox yes, but I see an interesting guy underneath it all

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01-27-2020 , 01:06 AM

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oddly catty

Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 23,026

Thailand thread update. Life is unfair because all women want is a CrossFit instructor and that one CrossFit instructor monopolizes all women to himself.

Literally can not make this up.

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01-27-2020 , 01:09 AM

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oddly catty

Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 23,026

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Originally Posted by ncboiler

It wasn't a knock. I was truly impressed.

My bad, sorry for misinterpreting

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01-27-2020 , 01:42 AM

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grando1.0

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Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 17,111

This reminds me of Friday at my job where some guy said they went to Thailand to do missionary work.

I said something like 'i feel that very little missionary gets done in Thailand' and he winked at me haha

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01-27-2020 , 01:48 AM

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Eeyorefora

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Interesting, maybe.

Until you get done hearing his spiel.

Then it get repetitive.

I thought maybe he's just a socially awkward young man, that needs to get out more.

Looks like he's approaching 50 with no social skills.

I'm sorry, if you lived that long and can't develop relationships except as commerce, there may be no fixing that.

Xenoblade seems to be closest on the mark.

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01-27-2020 , 01:54 AM

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NickMPK

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Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,579

That’s weird, last night my wife just suggested we go to Thailand for vacation this summer. Maybe she heard about this Crossfit instructor?

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01-27-2020 , 03:54 AM

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oddly catty

Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 23,026

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Originally Posted by NickMPK

That’s weird, last night my wife just suggested we go to Thailand for vacation this summer. Maybe she heard about this Crossfit instructor?

Better start talking to divorce lawyers or a hit man now because clearly none of us stand a chance so long as this CrossFit instructor is alive.

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01-27-2020 , 05:01 PM

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SandraXII

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This Italian girl is so different to any Italian I have dated. We just had a great second date in a restaurant , she offered to split the bill but I got it, she said ‘I’ll get the next one‘, so I’m thinking I’m good for a kiss this time. Then I go for the kiss as we part and she says ‘oh you wanna kiss me?’ And I’m like uhhhh THINK BRAIN THINK and just kind of burst out laughing in lieu of words

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01-27-2020 , 05:33 PM

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coordi

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Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 22,867

"Nope" with a sly smile and strong eye contact as you continue to go for a kiss

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01-27-2020 , 06:16 PM

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SandraXII

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Originally Posted by coordi

"Nope" with a sly smile and strong eye contact as you continue to go for a kiss

We’d had pizza and I was continually motioning like she had sauce on her face throughout the date so the choice move would have been to sly smile then point out she had sauce on her lips and move in , but like the last date she seemed weirdly resistant to my bag of tricks outside the restaurant .

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01-27-2020 , 06:38 PM

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Eeyorefora

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Doesn't seem like flirting.

More like friend zoned.

Might ask her who she's dating, and if you have a chance.

Have been that guy who thought i was on a date but found out she just liked the same food as me.

Or she's setting you up as a backup plan.

You'd better ask.

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01-27-2020 , 06:49 PM

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SandraXII

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Originally Posted by Eeyorefora

I agree it doesn’t look good, but asking is definitely no bueno.

We were flirting on the date pretty good. The thing is, 95 per cent of the time if she didn’t feel it on the first date there’s no second. She could have been on the fence but she was acting the same during this date as she did during the first, and she made a strong implication there should be a third

In fact IME her behaviour seems consistent with other girls i dated who turned out to have been sexually abused in the past

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01-27-2020 , 06:54 PM

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Eeyorefora

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Originally Posted by SandraXII

Im sure its possible, but i would lean against domestic/sexual abuse, usually by this time she would tell you herself of she had issues.

It might be that her last relationship ended badly and she's leery of getting into something serious.

But asking her would be no good? I would think its healthy to know where you stand, if she gets mad and doesn't want to go out with you anymore, did you really lose anything?

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01-27-2020 , 07:04 PM

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TimM

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If you want to know where you stand, let her be the one to make the next contact. If she doesn't, then you know.

Definitely don't ask her anything directly.

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01-27-2020 , 07:07 PM

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SandraXII

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Originally Posted by TimM

If you want to know where you stand, let her be the one to make the next contact. If she doesn't, then you know.

Definitely don't ask her anything directly.

Yep

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01-27-2020 , 09:47 PM

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JoeC2012

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Eeyore's advice is good.

I actually consider this a pretty big turnoff, when a girl doesn't want to kiss after a successful date.

Of course if she doesn't want to kiss me because she's just not into me (yet), cool, but girls playing games like this... Come on, grow up.

If a girl asked me if I wanted to kiss her and I did, I'd prefer to respond with a simple and confident "yes" then kiss her unless she subsequently indicated she didn't want to. In the words of the great Marlo Stanfield, do it or don't, I have some place to be.

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01-28-2020 , 03:03 AM

#52570

Dream Crusher

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Join Date: Mar 2016 Posts: 18,786

I ended up having like 7 matches on bumble over the weekend but then 0 of them contacted me within 24 hours. They were all located like 30 to 50 miles away from me which is weird since I live near the heart of the city and mostly swipe profiles within a 3 mile limit.

I'm probably about done with this dating thing. It's a ton of work with no payoff.

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01-28-2020 , 03:03 AM

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SandraXII

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Originally Posted by JoeC2012

I mean there are definitely WAYS of asking about other guys ( or rather getting info indirectly) but at this point I just assume everyone has a few options on the go anyway, so I’m not sure what it even achieves. For what it’s worth, this particular girl implied on the date that I’m the only one she’s seeing, observing that ‘English guys on dates are mostly married’, but if someone said that I would take it with a grain of salt anyway.

In any event I also have some place to be so I’ll leave it there and make it on her to say something if she wants to.

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01-28-2020 , 03:25 AM

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Natamus

Tripped and Fell

Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 16,388

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Originally Posted by Dream Crusher

Keep your mind and eyes/ears open IRL. Apps are overrated to get your $$$

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01-28-2020 , 11:37 AM

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WaxAficionado

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Join Date: Jul 2013 Posts: 173

My parents live in Highland Park.

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01-28-2020 , 12:02 PM

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coordi

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Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 22,867

Ohhh, fancy

I was living in mesta park and am about to move to the other side of the plaza

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01-28-2020 , 12:25 PM

#52575

PhatPots

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 3,948

I'm back on the scene. I have Bumble, Hinge, and Jswipe.

I am getting a lot of traction on Bumble. I am encountering a few lazy openers. (Smiley emoji face, or "Hey Phatpots"). I am not willing to make an effort while I have better prospects. This may change in the near future after the well begins to dry up. But I feel my profile has enough information and character to comment on something or start a discussion.

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