Thanks for your continued insight and advice, everyone.

I'm wondering, how exactly does having money attract women? How do they know you have money?

In response to deleting my account and what not, I just re started tinder, and put the best pictures I have of me on it.

How can I start realizing if women are showing interest towards me? Are there clues that apply to the population in general? I'm sorry, I know it's probably getting annoying with me playing the autism card, but I SUCK at reading people's body language and intentions. For example, about a month ago, one of the regs and I were just ****ing with each other, exchanging playful insults (or so I thought), and then out of the middle of no where he started literally yelling at me and saying **** that I thought was way out of line. It got figured out, and we settled it, and made a pact not to talk about not teasing each other about certain subjects, so that was good, but one of the other regs said that he knows it's difficult for me, but that it was blatantly obvious that he was getting more and more mad as the night went on, and that he gave very blatant cues to me that he was getting ready to explode - albeit, he said his behavior was way out of line and not OK, he did say that every other person in the room would've been able to tell how angry he was.

I also agree that bars and clubs are boring as ****. What am I supposed to do? The only reason to go there imo is to get pussy, and that never happens, so what the **** am I supposed to do? Sit here and do a hard drug (alcohol), while I can't hear anything and pretend to be enjoying myself? Also, they never fill up until midnight-ish, and I'm in bed by midnight most nights, so I have to sacrifice having a good day the next day to just sit there and indulge in drugs while feeling angry about not getting laid.

Money is an interesting concept. Essentially you are able to exchange it for goods and services. So, if a woman has Y that you want, you can pay her $X in exchange for her Y. The great thing about money is that you don't need to have the exact goods or services that she wants. You can just pay her with $X and she can then use that $X to purchase the goods and services that she wants from someone else. It's much easier and more convenient than the barter system.

Yeah, but how do they know you have money? Do I just walk around with 100's? I've gotta be a minority - I'm far from being able to say I have money, but I've gotta be a select few that isn't in debt on campus, and far from it too.

just stick to the app game for now, bumble, tinder or whatever else is popular

You need to get around women to realize this. Your not doing this enough.

I go there and don't drink, go out alone and girls come up to me and ask me if i wanna sit with them, invite me to other bars with their friends, offer to buy me drinks, ask me why i'm angry or sad, grab me to dance, put their ass on my crouch on purpose. Those are signs of interest.

yeah i hate that.

Thanks for rubbing it in

You can these results if not better results. You just need to go out. I've tried the game of approaching women and it didn't work for me either. Now I don't even bother approaching but rather just look into her eyes from across the room. She comes over to me then.

So you're suggesting I just go out to bars and just sit there and wander my eyes and try to make eye contact?

I'm sorry man but this is like the umpteenth time you've posted that. They may be rare but they exist.

Besides, it's all subjective anyway. If someone thinks they are talking to a 10 let them have that moment.


Here's a receipt to put an end to these comments

I know photo looks staged but funnily enough she's not posing. She's just normally like that and I saw what I liked and took a picture.

It's about the way you dress, the job you have and way you act.

Lots of women assume I'm very well off because I don't have a local dialect, have traveled extensively, have a job that sounds like I make a lot of money and will wear boat shoes.

Ironically, the travel that makes them think I'm loaded is exactly why I'm not.

Trust me, every woman you meet sneeks a a peek at your shoes within 5 minutes. If you're wearing sneakers she's going to assume you're poor.

You don't need to worry about signaling success so much now because at your age they'll assume you're poor anyway. But still, if you're out and looking for love always wear a collared shirt and don't wear sneakers. Get yourself a comfortable pair of boat shoes or loafers or whatever.

You 100% have classmates, TAs, younger professors who all dress very nicely. Start paying attention to what shoes other been are wearing and emulate it. If you have any female friends, sisters, cousins, even your Mom in case of emergency, send them pics of shoes or clothes you are thinking of buying.

Found this just now, seems legit https://restartyourstyle.com/1018/shirts-fit/

Few men your age wear a shirt that actually fits well.

67, dont go out to a bar with intention of laying or getting dates. stick to apps for the first year and once youve been on quite a few youll find yourself mre comfy and then if u want to go into bar scene then u can dip in

I always assumed it was because I looked so young. No clue. I don't go to strip clubs anymore since a stripper stole my Galaxy Note 2.

Dream crusher, I went to a strip club in Dallas a few years back for my buddies bachelor's party and it was a blast. The girls kept telling me $200 to bang which kind of ruined the illusion.

Never paid before but I'd be lying if I hadn't considered it.

Weird part was the groom's brother in law was with us he was chatting up the girls nonstop. I would be so weirded out is the guy married to my little sister was getting lapdances and spending like an hour just chatting one on one with a stripper at the bar but they acted like nothing was strange.

I think you need to figure out what your strengths are. Like some of the experiences people are describing are so alien to me. I cannot ever recall a girl I didn’t know approaching me while I was out in public alone to ask me a personal question in any context.

So when people are describing looking for signs of interest from a stranger, I would have no idea where to begin.

But I also almost never had trouble converting online matches into dates. That was always the easiest step in the process! So it is also strange to me when people seem to have trouble at that point.

The 22 year old called me today and told me she was taking a trip to Florida and wont be back for another two weeks. Nothing to do but shrug. Hopefully the wind blows her back in my direction.

Had a home run first date tonight. 25, 5'3, around 140 and voluptuous. We meet for a drink at a bar by my place and shes already there when I walk in. She has thick brown hair down to the middle of her back and looks just like her pictures, so that is always exciting.

We start chatting and I quickly learn that shes in the accounting program at my alma mater and make an easy connection talking about professors, classes, and etc. That transitioned into her talking about her job and I know her bosses through one of my previous jobs. Then that transitions into her being a pilot and I used to be an airplane mechanic. It was all effortless.

I moved us to a pool table and she started talking **** immediately, which I love. Both of us were pretty trash, but it was a great time just chopping it up and laughing. She kept coming in close, but neither of us would initiate any keno, just intense eye contact and banter. I was kind of enjoying the tension tbh, which isn't really normal. Eventually we broke and started making light touches here and there.

After a couple of games we tab out and I walk her to her car. Almost immediately we start making out and I move use to where I'm pressing her against her car. This goes on long enough that I can tell shes way into it and suggest we slide into her back seat. She declines but we keep making out until I suggest we drive somewhere more secluded, to which she agrees. We hop in my car and I take us down a road behind a store where there are no lights. After some more making out in the back of my car, the clothes come off and we **** until the windows are fogged and we are both dripping sweat.

We ended up agreeing to meet again next Saturday and I'm thinking we will play Mario Kart or something like that. Shes into really chill **** and I dig it, but the only problem is she doesn't smoke weed. She didn't seem to care too much that I smoke though, so hopefully that doesn't turn into an issue.

Yes.

It is not because you fall in love with a girl and do not manage to bang her that it makes her a ten. Was she posing for enormous hands magazine on that picture (or is she just a tranny?)
Stop it with the so-called 10/10, it is ruining the authenticity.

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Great TR, can't wait for second part, if second part there will be

Doesn't that make you look super desperate; like you're chasing ass?

Oh, and thanks for the link, Rick. I looked at it last night, and my shirts definitely fit.

Opening line help? I got two more matches.

First one: I would say she's a 6/10. She has a bunch of pictures of her smiling and/or drinking. Her profile picture is her in a bikini turned around, with her head turned; her butt is OK.

Bio: "I'm goofy, sarcastic, sassy, and love the outdoors.
if you only have group pictures we can’t tell who you are !!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t like being asked questions
19*** not 20. Construction Management major"



Second one: I would say she's a 7.5/10. All of her pictures are selfies, besides one - which is a pic of her dog without her in it.

Bio "Let’s take dabs �� If you’re not obsessed with dogs it’s a no from me��
All I do is waste my time with y’all ������*♀️"


On a side note, I don't like #1 because I can't ask to go out for a drink unless she has a fake, and I don't drink coffee or any caffeine, so I'm lost for what a first date is is. I heard lunch/dinner is horrible.

first date doesn’t matter much where it takes place, goal is to be able to connect with said date, so anywhere that allows talking, like just read coordi’s write up, don’t overthink it, don’t be too serious

rick, that is a very nice quality sex doll.

This is what I came up with for #1: [her name] says she loves the outdoors, then crams as many indoor photos as possible into her profile


This is what I came up with for #2: Photos 2 and 3 - after [her name] had taken too many dabs, she doesn't realize her camera isn't on selfie mode


Good, bad, ugly?

Better than your previous msgs!


But take a sec and reread those - you might come off as too negative/sarcastic.



So at least use a winky emoji (ugh, I know...this is sometimes tedious) to easily signal that you're just having fun. (This is much easier when that's your actual mindset instead of your previous "woe is me" posts). GL!

You don't think adding a winky face comes off too hard as "please accept me, I don't want to hurt to feelings"? Isn't it more dominant/masculine/powerful to tease without saying "just kidding"?

Ask her why she's a Construction Management major. Is she a duuude? Same for the chick in the photo above. Seems highly like that one has a penis. I figure probably a good 30% of these women have genitals tucked into their buttocks but of course the likelihood is even higher based on certain physical tells.

Also, ask her why she didn't major in Engineering instead? Is she lazy or just dumb? Maybe be subtle about it and don't even mention the major. Just say "Are you lazy or dumb lol"