Do not want!

lol....are you going to leave us hanging here?

When you guys meetup with girls from online, how quick do you go for a kiss. Just finished a 2nd date with a chick this past weekend and went for kiss and it failed miserably. I got side of her head. Don't think it was good idea as it seems she wasn't too into me now looking back and not showing many indicators of interest. I then stated it was creepy lol and she texted me after date saying it wasn't creepy. Is 2nd date solid point to go for kiss. Also anyone have a date they like to hook up by before investing more time/money into a chick. I would say I feel 3rd date should be movie date at my place to see if it's worth continuing on. Thoughts?

Kiss first or second date.

If you get cheek after two dates you've either failed to flirt, she's lost interest during the date, and/or she's a weirdo. I would guess the percentage of further dates after a second date cheek is less than 0.1%

If she legit wants to see you again she now controls the physical progression. Any time the power swings their way I've always felt like a bitch and find it impossible to recover.

I thought a kiss at the end of a first date was pretty standard.

Certainly not creepy at all on a second date. If they were interested enough to go on date 2 then it's not unreasonable to assume a kiss would be attempted at some point.

At least make out a little by third date

Yeah first or second date is when it ideally has to be locked down

First girl I met online I goofed hard and didnt kiss until the 4th date, only had two dates after that.

She was kinda awkward but so was I tbh, waited wayyyy too long

I've been messaged first by two solid 5s this weekend

If you go out on a second date and arent sure if shes physically interested the answer is no.

lol

But you didn't do the TR for this.

sorry, the TR is not coming as quickly as I did.

So my girlfriend lives with her sister. The sister is an obese, shrill, aggressively annoying monstrosity. She met a boyfriend on OK Cupid a short time ago. He is an Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh but with a higher voice sounding, paleo diet eating crossfitter.

I actually think on paper he is way too good for her cuz she is almost 30, never finished college, not remotely attractive, abrasive personality, has no career prospects, still has a sister who just graduated college as a roommate, the list goes on and on and on. He is in decent shape and is a structural engineer. But he is just a total downer in any social situation, with absolutely no personality. He's about 40 I think, nearly doubly my age.

Anyway, they met in March and they spend every waking moment together. In fact, they've already made plans to live together next year! The very thought of it makes me physically ill

The lesson is- self improve all you want with your crossfitting paleo bull****, but you better have some damn personality.

She doesn't look nearly as bad as you described.

loool

gotta fap one out earlier in the day if you think you might have sex IMO and this could happen

Still waiting for highly amusing TR.

Although I think guys put a lot more emphasis on performance issues than women do, particularly first time or only occasional issues.

Or develop a serious alcohol problem to fake one.

Ridiculing your girlfriends sister and her boyfriend on the internet (with picture) is a classy move though. Anyone with an abrasive personality deserves all they get

In my experience I'm usually more sensitive after whacking it.

Bobbo, if you cum before she does, you still have fingers. If you minute manned her, I'd make extra sure she gets off. She'll forget all about your top flying off early.

I used to do this when I was closer to 20. Now that I'm closer to 40, I make a point to not fap one that day. Or the day before, if there's any alcohol involved. #real

Having sex the day before not only makes you last longer but for me it made my erections harder too. I used to always bang a sure thing the day before a date with someone I hadn't slept with yet

Yeah I've noticed that as I and my partner pool has aged, not being able to climax is more an issue than premature climax.

The guy I've started seeing (I spent the night on our third date, we've already seen each other again and will go out this Wednesday) said he didn't fap for a couple days once he knew I was coming to his place, and even then he didn't climax our first go round.

Doesn't really bother me per se, just something I've noticed.

It takes an awful lay for me not to finish

I'm pretty sure it's an age thing, or in this case, possibly an age + first time thing.

He didn't have any problem later. Or the next morning.

It happened to me one time only. I was wearing a condom and faked it.