I fully expect a flaming here considering my post history, but got cold-messaged by a cute writer a few weeks back that was interested in
trying this out in her profile. So what the hell, why not?
We seemed to have a good rapport beforehand and on the date itself. She had 4 drinks (3 Martinis, beer), 3 for me (beer, two scotches neat), got comped the most expensive shared plate item on the menu because they messed up our appetizer order, split the check, 3.5 hours, and we had a lot in common as far as outlook on the world, what we want to accomplish, our family history, views on love, etc. (part of the questions, otherwise I wouldn't be asking the last time someone cried in front of someone else, trust me).
Walked back to the train station, sprinted after and stopped a bus from leaving that she needed. Went to hug her but she kissed me goodbye and jumped on the bus. She didn't seem drunk fwiw. Said I had a great time and we should do this again, she said had fun but she didn't feel a connection.
I'm done for now, just not even seeing light at the end of the tunnel, so clearly I have A LOT to work on to be a better man at this point.