Hey guys, I need some help.
I recently got separated from my wife. We are in the process of a divorce and I am now looking to meet someone.
Me: I am 40 but I look younger. Most people think I am 30. I live in Manhattan. Since the split from my wife I had to move in with my elderly father temporarily, until I save up to move to my own place. I'm an attorney and make low $100k which is not a whole lot in NY much less so if you have to pay for your ex as well as yourself and your kids.
I am not interested in going out with supermodels or party girls. I am not averse and actually prefer women my own age and weight is not a big deal for me. I am probably 30 or so pounds overweight myself. Just looking for a nice loving girl. Basically the female version of me (or sigh, my ex 😭
I am not unattractive but not a supermodel either. Just average, I guess. A poor man's Matt Damon perhaps.
So here is the profile summary on Match that I put in. Any input? Help, please? Too long? Too personal? I am clueless....
My tag line: When life hands me lemons, I make a Tom Collins.
Tom Collins, as in the cocktail... Ever had one? They are delicious!
I like to try new and interesting things and search out new experiences. Be it new foods, new drinks, new ways of thinking, art, movies, music....There are so many cool and exciting things out there.
I am looking for someone who has a sense of wonder and excitement about the possibilities that life holds.
I am very focused on my career and expanding the opportunities that I have within that. I am an attorney with my own practice. I really enjoy the advantages and welcome the challenges of being my own boss. I feel the challenges are ultimately worth the rewards. This is true for pretty much everything.
I am also a dad and am committed to remaining a good role model and provider to my children. But admittedly, I am a push over and let them get away with pretty much anything. My kids are my soul. I love them more than anything.
I am looking for a woman who holds similar values. Someone who is excited by life. Someone who values the important things in life. But always remembers to have fun and to laugh and enjoy the beauty of life!
Last edited by Debtonaire; 08-11-2015 at 06:00 PM.