This.

Hahahahahaha

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Induce_you,

Only if you are dating solidly 3 leagues beyond your own is this not an instant deal-breaker. Completely unacceptable.

just a disgusting burn to a bruins fan

Agreed. I ignored this sort of annoyance when it happened at a similar time in a past relationship of mine and I certainly learned my lesson. It does not go away and it does not end well.

Even if she's hot as f*ck it's not worth it, life is too short. They've been together 6 months, he's banged her plenty.

There are few limited situations where it wouldn't be bad.

Example, loser I knew was with a girl. She was looking for something serious. They were getting to the ten month mark maybe even a year. His life was basically do nothing but internet all day living off the severance ge got from his tech job. No hope of getting a job since it wasn't 1999 when if you could code anything you were in demand. The guy had a big screen tv and a x-box to his name going on early 30s. Owed income tax for a few years. Basically a dead end.

Thing is in a situation like that while it is ok to ask as a way to make a point the relationship is over anyway so really it is just more of a way to trigger a relationship ending fight.

can you expand on the art of intentionally triggering relationship ending fights?

If someone is going to trigger a relationship ending fight on purpose, rather than just ending it, they are a ****ing coward.

Ok so i asked that girl if she was free tonight or tomorrow. She responded that she had ju jitsu tonight but tomorrow she might be free and to text her.

I am planning on texting her tomorrow afternoon but what should i say exactly? I dont want to come off as asking too much?

What's the background? Is this a first date? How long have you been talking for?

Asked her yesterday on a first date, we've had class together for the last month. We only get to talk like 3-4 mins a day though.

Yestersday she said she didnt know if shed be free Thursday night, so i asked her again today after class

Do you have a party or anything cool to invite her to? If you are both under 21, that seems like the plan for a Friday night, to me.

Yeah a party or going out somewhere would be ideal if it's the weekend wherever you are.

Yea i mean thats fine, i can do that

But itll be my third time asking. I dont want to sound desperate.

Not really. It's not as though she's rejected you. It's not desperate.

This post from 2yrs ago really shows how things can change.

Hahaha wow. Also, why were you reading through that?

Weird thing here. The girl I was meant to be going on a date with tonight hasn't got back to me bout details yet. We have been chatting on and off for the last couple of weeks. I messaged her at 9am asking whats the details and no reply. Very weird for her.

The date is cancelled. Doesn't seem like a blowoff but I could be wrong. We have rescheduled tentative plans for her to come to my place.

I messaged her at 9am saying:
How's tonight looking?

She replies at 2:36pm saying:
"Hey I am so so so sorry. My charger packed it in and I haven't been able to charge my phone.
I've been a total idiot with dates and told my sister I'd babysit for my nephew thinking it was tomorrow but it's actually tonight
I am so sorry
I'll come see you sometime soon to make up for it.
I'm so sorry, I feel terrible."

What's your read people?
Also, her university roomate is my friends, best friend. Just for additional info. Met on POF though.

So there's a girl passed out on my couch that probably wants to hook up either now or in the future.

Should i wake her up and bring her to my bed (easy, but maybe we just pass out), or just leave her on the couch?

lol gtfo dude dont even think about it. is that a real question.

Nah just rape her on the lounge dude

seems like too much effort to take her to your bed

jsut **** her on the couch

Wake her up and offer her another drink, but this one with roofies. Just in case.