Thread is getting AIDS jfc who cares about some stupid bodybuilding forums meme

you should bangout in bb misc more goofy. not just a collection of stupid memes.

fk, stupid autocorrect. i meant hangout.

i was only referring to "bang IT out". when did i ever say that bang it out=bangout.

country and custer you two should bang it out.

Sounds like a make up type of thing

Like hug it out

Lol

There is this girl I have been hanging out with a mutual friend for a few months. About two weeks ago I was really drunk and I think I said I liked her (which I think she took as I love you---which is totally not what I mean when I say that). I remember a few of the things she said while I massively drunk and I know she lied to me as she said she was dating someone but I know that she isn't. I apologized and she continues to say that it is okay that I don't need to worry. My plan that night was to ask her out but apparently that did not happen lol. We have hung out several times since that happened, however her demeanor has completely changed. She acts uninterested and unresponsive. During the month we were hanging out (this is with our mutual friend) she couldn't stop talking to me or taking her eyes of me either with lots of flirting/touching. Some of the first times we hung out were initiated by her (she was the one who asked for my number and added me to facebook...she is not the girl to add every dude she meets or give her number out so easily either which I did not know at the time). However, at this point I was uncertain as to whether she liked me or not because she would say random **** like "I like my guys to be at least 6 feet tall" which is a huge beat since I am not 6 foot. I don't know whether she was trying to gauge my interest by saying that since the girls I've previously dated never did **** like this and I never go on forums like this. She also talked about her ex-boyfriend a lot which kind of put me off as she was not over him. She would never talk about how hot other guys were at the bar but she would randomly say things to guys when I was around even though that is totally not her type of personality--again which is I think to gauge my interest and to see how I would react.

The thing that really has me confused is that we were at a party last week and her attitude is again back to normal being all flirty and touchy again (yes she is a little drunk just as I am). But again, yesterday when we hung out and she is back to her ice-cold self again being non-talkative, unresponsive and uninterested. I don't know whether I should pursue this by asking her out over text to a dinner/movie in a day or two or if I should just forget about this all together. Is this her subtle way of saying that she isn't interested anymore if she does this?

She was never interested and isn't now. She's trying not to give you any reason to think she's interested, but slips up a bit while drunk because she views you as a friend.

That is what I was thinking as well. How do you know she wasn't interested in the first place? Even when she was sober she was flirty. When she is drunk she still doesn't flirt with other guys (she won't even really initiate a conversation with another dude). However, I can see that she uninterested now.

Saying other guys are hot (not celebs) in front of you is a pretty good indicator that she just views you as friends. The situation strikes me as her thinking you guys are really good friends and not realizing you liked her, then when you confess your "love" for her she doesn't want to lead you on anymore. Think it's a waste of time asking for a date given her behavior.

She never said other guys are hot though. Just celebs/athletes. The most recent time we were at a party I think she wanted me to admit that I liked her again...lol. I was talking about some bull**** Fight Club stuff and I said only 2 people in this world could hurt me...guess who they are? And she asked if one of them was her LOL.

I think she has hinted at wanting me to ask her out on a date before but it was very vague (as in saying to our mutual friend while making sure I was looking "I would date any of your friends that were fans of the Mets, Tigers and even the Yankees" which is a team she hates and I like). But we live in NY so I didn't read much into that.

Our mutual friend and her talked briefly about what happened when I told her I liked her while drunk and he told me he could summarize the conservation by "he is surprisingly pushy". I think if she told our mutual friend that she did not like me he would tell me that I should just forget about her.

The next step just isn't clear to me. Whether I should ask her if we are just friends or if I should ask her out since at times it seems like she does but at others it seems like she doesn't. Why does she decide to hang out with me if she didn't want to lead me on? She could surely just say no and not see me for a month and then that would be the easiest way to let me know without having to say anything. If she viewed me as a friend still then why is she so different than before? She could surely at least act more mature in a non-flirty way without leading me on. Let me clarify one thing, when we hung out over the weekend it was a road trip. She knew by agreeing to go (I did not ask her, our mutual friend did) that she would essentially spend the entire day with me.

next time she starts flirting with you, grab her arm and walk her away so you two are alone. then explain to her that you just want to remain friends.

that's what i would do.

What if she and I are slightly buzzed/drunk? I don't want her thinking that I like her only while buzzed.

One of the questions she asked me while I was drunk which was striking to me since I can only remember a few flashes from that night. She asked me if I wanted to have sex (I would love to hear what my response was)...wtf kind of question is that knowing that I am that drunk?

I am just worried if I take too long before any flirting happens again she will lose all interest. I know she isn't seeing any other guys and its possible that one guy from the last party we went to asked her out and she declined. So maybe I should just wait it out instead of forcing the issue myself.

if a girl you're interested propositions you for sex and you don't get laid i assume you ****ed up at some point during the night.

pretty standard question if you ask me. my response would of been "sure, let's get out of here".

This with 100% certainty.

There is nothing to do here. Just move on.

She posed the question kind of randomly. It didn't even make sense in any context that I can imagine. I think it was a testing question instead of an actual proposition. We were already at my apartment alone.

find another girlfriend/ girls to date. it will be a lot more obvious if she ever liked u, from how she reacts to it. as played u fked up big time. never ever tell a girl u like her in this spot.

she wanted to get laid.

if you accept her proposal and it turns out she was ****ing around i'd tell her good day and go mack some other fly honey and end all communication. no need to hang around girls who pull stupid **** like that.

I don't think it was a proposal at all. She just asked it and I probably said "sure" then she immediately she said no. I think her last boyfriend cheated on her after a 5 year relationship in some similar situation. He meets a girl on some road trip with his friends. He likes this new girl really quickly and they start having sex. He gets caught and then he breaks up with her after a 5 year relationship and starts dating this other girl within 2 weeks after the breakup. This was told to me by our mutual friend recently

Thanks for your opinions, I will just take her aside next time she starts to flirt and ask her what is going on with us.

i think it's safe to say that you should never tell a girl you like her. it sounds weird. there's a lot of ways to express interest in a girl without regurgitating some corny line. it's even weirder if you've never even made out or fooled around before.

i wouldn't even talk to her anymore, she's obviously socially ******ed and manipulative. why even maintain a relationship with someone like this. PILL you might have self esteem issues.

Do NOT ask her what is going on with you guys. Just let the dead horse alone and some random night you might get laid. Stop talking relationships with girls.

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I probably do. I'll not talk to her for a few weeks and see whats up.

lol, so which is it? Ask her what's going on the next time she starts flirting or leave it be? I think she was really hinting at me to ask her out before which I obv didn't because I'm a pussy when it comes to asking out a girl that I actually like beyond just wanted to bang her.

Nobody told you to ask her what's going on.

Yeah you are right. So next time she flirts just leave it be?