Most Spaniards are catholic. So that in itself doesn't mean much.

"Won't be up for sex before marriage" is a possibility but I think you overstate that probability. These days, even more than average religious girls don't take it that far IME. Of course if you're a hardcore atheist it's understandable that you'd call it a red flag anyhow.



I'm fairly new to the current city so a few pictures aren't that much of a concern but personal info is. Maybe it's weird but I tick like that. Most likely won't try it anyway. The whole concept just seems strange.

2nd time having car sex
2nd black girl (super white washed)
6/10. great track body and was down with pulling her hair
couldn't finish because of condom+drunk
also the car was hot as ****

not into her at all. she was just there at the end of the night so i did it. i actually remember a couple weeks back she was flirting with me at a bar and i was thinking i'm happy i never pursued it. definitely not regretting it but i think i just had higher hopes for the night.

Inb4 accusations of rape

I have a tough time really enjoying myself in a car. I guess I'm clumsy.

I'm curious what the final line was though. "Hey you wanna... go to my car?"

Car sex is impossible in my car but it is pretty hard to have enjoyable sex even in a 1980s boat. There just isn't enough room. I can see it being fun as some sort of fantasy role-playing thing once or twice but other than that I'd vote no.

road-head tho

Quick run down of dilemma: Last month, hot chick from work tells me she's down to go out. Flirt a lot for a couple weeks. Went to a concert date 2 weeks ago, ended in overnight hotel stay, did everything but bang, went really well.

1 week ago, she meets up with big group, including her ex, at EDC (electric daisy carnival) in Vegas. Not sure what happened there.

Today: I ask her on another date, and she says she got back with her ex-boyfriend. However, she says she is still down to hang out, and "we'll see how this plays out" with respect to her getting back with her ex. Her boyfriend lives all the way on the West Coast! (we are in the DC area).

What's my play? She expressed a lot of interest in me, and the date went so well and she was really into me, but now she hits me with this ghey news. Half-wondering if she's just testing me because her ex lives like 3000 miles away. I was pretty disappointed and had a tough time concentrating at work today after she told me, although we still interacted friendly after I got the news. She's pretty hot and I like her, but this is kinda lame. Do I still try and hang out with her or do I just ignore her and show I can/am getting chicks other than her. Thanks for any advice.

That's pretty horrible. She might not bang you just because of the bf and feels like that would be crossing the line. But there's really no way to know until you try to push it that far.

No way this relationship with her ex lasts but unless your job is some crappy retail one with high turnover (doesn't sound like it is) you generally shouldn't get involved with girls from work.

If you're gonna do it anyway, just act like you should've been acting from the beginning - like a normal single dude. If you go out drinking with people from work go ahead and flirt with her, act like the boyfriend situation is non-existent to you.

Easy,you bang her as much as possible. Don't get attached till she makes up her mind.
The "seeing how this plays out" is usually girl code to see if you are willing to bang her on the down low.
Don't over think it.
But don't get attached.
And last of all,keep it light.
Don't get attached.

This seems about right, the only position I've found bearable in the car is cowgirl with the seat back, but that's only if you can withstand the monotony of a single position.

Went to EDM festival. Consumed party drugs and had sex with Ex because of environment. For some ******ed reason now feels she has to be in a "relationship" with him -- see topic in OOT for why. She is already counting down the days for when they can break up.

Don't date girls you work with unless you are 100% certain both of you are mature enough for that -- in this case it doesn't sound like either of you are.

Well, she initiated the relationship, and she's hot, can you blame me? No one in the office knows about it; she told me to not disclose it so she can keep personal separate from work.

Thanks for the feedback so far. Def gonna de attach myself but still stay friendly. Prob will end up hanging out for fun and see what happens. She told me to invite her to one of my tennis matches that same day. I am an attorney doing compliance and she is on the same project. Def risky to go for a co worker but this project is somewhat temporary and her T and A makes my brain say I can handle it ; ).

I was brought up in a slightly more conservative values household so this have a bf but mess around stuff is kind of surprising to me. But I guess that's how it works these days. I initially saw this girl as a possible gf but after all this I feel like maybe she's just the have fun type. I think that's what hurt me a little.

Also, what does keep it light mean Eey, is that another way of saying don't stay attached?

She doesn't really have a BF.

What on earth.

Yes, you got it right.This girl is risky.
Both cause of her bf and job.
But that's what makes it hot, amirite?
What could happen down the road,but don't get your hopes up,is she falls in love with you and quits her job to make you happy.
If you don't chase her and fawn over her,this is more possible.
If you try to woo her ,she will probably lose respect for you and end up using you for her selfishness.
Its messed up,but women think this way.
So keep it light,don't get serious. Good luck.

WTF

Service animals are animals that have been trained to assist people with disabilities -- see my interaction with Tom Collins for further enlightenment.

I'm going to spend the rest of my evening trying to figure out whether Henry actually thought that I didn't know what a service animal was.

(I guess I've missed the TomCollins interactions though.)

i havent been following this thread lately. any updates on the gus/gcg wager?

Nothing yet (possibly soon), but you'll know when it's over.

disko, good to see you posting. i wanted to ask you about your situation - in the past you said you had 2 or 3 women that you could call for a booty call on any given night. i find myself in a similar situ these days, but the girls are all getting attached. what do you do to keep things casual? i find that sex leads to cuddling and it all leads to girls having strong emotions that are potentially dangerous, even though it's set up in advance to not be serious.
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[QUOTE=GoCubsGo;33384227]disko, good to see you posting. i wanted to ask you about your situation - in the past you said you had 2 or 3 women that you could call for a booty call on any given night. i find myself in a similar situ these days, but the girls are all getting attached. what do you do to keep things casual? i find that sex leads to cuddling and it all leads to girls having strong emotions that are potentially dangerous, even though it's set up in advance to not be serious.




the BIG one is to never ever meet their friends or family. i'd also suggest not allowing them to meet your friends but sometimes that's unavoidable, especially if you're a bit younger.

don't ever offer information regarding your love/sex life. don't ever inquire into theirs.

try not to hang out on consecutive days or call on consecutive days. don't call to say hi, only call to hang out.

even with all this it can sometimes be impossible to keep the girl at bay so sometimes they'll pressure for a title and you just say something like "things are great right now i dont see why we would change anything" or whatever. this might not work and they'll threaten to cutoff contact but they almost never go through with it.

Random thought for the day: Theres such a massive difference (when people are wearing normal work clothes) between a chick with an average body to a chick with a great body. On the contrary the difference between a guy with an average body and a guy with a great body is not that great with clothes on.

Other random thoughts: A chick can be quiet, shy, outgoing, or whatever but as long as shes hot and not crazy she will always get guys. A goodlooking guy who is naturally shy and quiet and not social will always struggle until he learns to be more confident.

No I have not taken any drugs today.

I agree with most of your post, which is why being more introverted as a guy usually sucks even being good looking as an introvert hasnt helped me ten fold. Also yeah most natty dudes in clothes will look pretty normal until they take their shirt off(no ****) while a hot girl in a business suite will look hot as f***. oh well just part of the game