[QUOTE=Henry17;31865643]Even if it doesn't increase confidence it keeps you from weakening it so you are better off doing nothing than failing.

It also depends on what you do with the time. If you spend it doing something that increases your appeal to girls then staying in can increase your confidence. If a guy needs to rebuild he shouldn't be going out. He should stay in until he is ready to go.



Failure does not build character nor is it a good thing. It is a indicator that you are doing something wrong and need to change. Ignoring the importance of what failure means is why most guys just double up the efforts of doing the same thing that led to failure.[/QUOTE

what if u have done everything right but the chick is shallow and dosent consider u good looking enough. IE U DRESS WELL, HAVE A GOOD JOB, MAKE ALL HE RIGHt moves conversaion wise etc. dont tell me these girls dont exist cos they do.

Damn, it's almost like he was trying to freeroll...

Not finding someone physically attractive does not make someone shallow and there is nothing wrong with that. Beyond that I'm not sure what to say in response to your comment. Failing because you are not physically attractive enough does not build character nor is it a good thing. If that happens often enough to be an issue then the guy is doing something wrong in so far as he has unrealistic views of what his options are and needs to start going for girls who are themselves less desirable.

Other studies find similar results - men are typically more helpful towards blondes and more eager to interact with blondes.

It's laughable to say that the results of the study can be explained by lighting. How does that make any sense?

It is more reasonable to say that it has something to do with the particular woman - but if anything, more women can pull of brunette than can pull of blond.

I don't think "no action" means what you think it means.

Have you ever been to a club? The club environment is just more favourable to blondes both because of their hair colour and because of the clothing that goes with being blonde. There is also a preconditioned preference to favour blondes in clubs. Each kind of venue / event actually has preconditioned preferences for certain looks so this would be true anywhere. Hair style is also a huge factor that they did not account for. Blonde works better short than the other two hair colours.

My experience had not shown this to be true but sample size is small. I know a lot of natural brunettes who went blonde and it was an improvement. The few girls who went from blonde to brunette couldn't really pull it off.

dude, go bang her. May 1st? You'll blow 3 loads by March 19th.

don't ever do this to me.

You must not have seen the festivus episode of seinfeld!

agree! but i'm biased cuz i have blonde short hair. There is nothing worse than seeing a girl who has gone blonde and shouldn't have EVER. Or actually there is. A beautiful natural blonde dying her hair new jersey black. ****.

Yes, I know what it means. The bets are returned.

However, it's a good way for you to angleshoot anyone if you desired result (banging the chick) does not happen by May 1st.

Would you perhaps be accusing him of being unethical in his gambling behavior?

These bets are pretty horrible. I generally hate bets that have subjective components but these go way beyond that and have the outcome completely dependent on one of the stakeholders claims in a way that is completely unverifiable.

of course not! we're already such great internet friends

Ah ****, a girl enters the thread and jackets starts speaking in exclamation marks.

I've never seen something like that before.

Grudge bets are stupid too. You can't bet with someone unless you trust them.

someone isnt a 4l poster

Most of the time yes but sometimes you don't care about being paid and just want to embarrass the other party. These bets can't rely on trust though and need some form of verification.

Moobs itt

I'm not some ordinary girl! I'm extraordinaryyyyyyyy

Don't worry; I gathered that from the Seinfeld reference.

I get what your pointing at here, but even if he says yes to this, it doenst matter. Gus borrowed money, he didnt angleshoot anyone or create some false bets to make....You are acting pretty immature LKJ...at least when you want to derail the thread do it with something thats accurate.

I never asserted anything about angleshooting. I asked him more generally about unethical gambling behavior. Considering what surfaced about his past as a scammer on this site as well, it is fair game to question these things.

It's truly unfortunate that people feel fit to act like GJGOAT is anything but a second-class citizen unworthy of basic respect.

So GJG scammed people?

lol, I'm not a serial killer or a rapist. I've never not paid anyone back eventually. Custer is saying this as a party for whom I owe money to. It's not much, but I think we both realize that if I pay it back in a short period of time from now, no harm, no foul.

LOL no harm no foul...

You mean you did the bare minimum?