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Originally Posted by bobboufl11
One initially ignored my request, responded a week later then ghosted when I asked for the number. One only ever responded with one word answers but I kinda ****ed that up by starting with an improv game without realizing it'd be tough to go anywhere with that if she didn't want to play the game. She answered my unrelated followup question a few months later, I asked her out, and she went silent. These two were toward the top of my range and above my range so I may not be hot enough to get them on Tinder given the ratio.
The two others and the one from real life responded to a few texts but then disappeared when I asked them out. The two app girls were mid-bottom of my range. irl girl was pretty hot, but her 2 exes didn't seem super good looking.
Did you really screw it up, though? Sure, a bit results-oriented, but would you picture yourself being with someone that isn't on the same page with you humor-wise? Girls as flaky as that are such a turn-off to me at this point, no matter what they look like, and if they were into you, they wouldn't be flaky in the first place. I do the same thing, albeit unintentionally.
I don't even think about my range anymore - then again, I'm not looking to just hook up so most of the time that I go out with someone looks-wise "out of my league" and it doesn't work out, I don't feel too discouraged since most of the time, something about their personality really turned me off anyway (refusing to have hope after the election, blaming all their problems on others and not taking responsibility, obsessed with material things, being a borderline alcoholic are a few of my recent dates).