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Originally Posted by Wilbury Twist
Mullet Man, Slam, etc... any wisdom on this?
I agree with SGT RJ. Although I don't have any firsthand knowledge of this, my general read is that skipping meetings is how things can unravel, especially early in the recovery.
Or is an every-other-day frequency fairly standard?
No, every day is standard early in recovery, even multiple times daily if necessary.
That he's using excuses to not go to a meeting on day 2 is telling.
On some level I think I hope people saying stuff like this angers him and pushes him to prove us wrong (whatever gets him on the right path) but the reality is what I've said before - he shows no evidence of being really serious about this right now.
He knows what he's expected to say (that this is a problem and he wants to fix it) but he doesn't actually show any evidence of believing it right now.
If you really believe something in your life is that ****ed up and it needs to change, right now, you do something to change it. You don't post on an internet web forum about how you don't feel that well but you'll get back on track tomorrow.
It's just another example of a small poor choice that he doesn't want to address right now. Enough small poor choices lead to large poor choices, and he already knows where that leads. He just doesn't care enough to change right now.
Last edited by SGT RJ; 07-03-2014 at 06:05 PM.