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Originally Posted by master3004
Its not about personal glory or ego, the kid signed up to play a sport and compete. If he didn't want to do that, then he shouldn't have signed up in the first place. And unless his values are to not compete against those weaker than he (thus expelling him from competing against most competitors, and essentially ruining the idea of competition in the first place) then his logic is terribly unsound. And if his religious values tell him "hey, you can't play sports with girls" then yeah, at the very least his religious teaching is highly sexist, and the fact that he chose to follow such would lead me to believe he is as well.
Despite his claims, I don't know if it's just about religious inspired sexism. I wrestled all through junior high and high school, and my initial reaction to this thread was no way would I have wrestled a girl. I could probably get past the 'groping' issue because I'm thinking if a girl wanted to learn how to wrestle and knew what she was getting into, the physical contact involved with wrestling wouldn't bother me if it didn't bother her. It's more the physical aggression that would hang me up.
If you're the recipient of some of the techniques and takedowns, they hurt. So on first thought I'd have a non-religious inspired mental block inflicting that sort of pain on a girl. On the other hand, if she were to inflict that sort of pain on me, that mental block
might go away. So, I don't know. Maybe if I started out in 7th grade wrestling girls, when the aggression isn't near as intense as in high school, and worked up to it might not be that big of a deal.
I do have some serious doubts about if girls can be competitive at the high school varsity level, just on strength alone. Just a guess, but I'm figuring at best we'd have an exceptionally strong female senior competing against the less talented and weaker sophomore males for a spot on the j.v. squad. I might be wrong on this, but if I'm not, I don't see the point in letting girls compete against boys.