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Originally Posted by Duerig
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But come on, Brad Pitt is higher on any ladder than a crack whore. Within midwestern college kids an in-shape guy > a fat chick.
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Haha. It's tough for me to envision the circumstances under which BP and CW are hanging out and socializing, and CW is thinking, "God, he's really cool. If only I weren't a crack whore."
But my point was that I may look at a woman and think she's too good looking for me, but that's flawed thinking because if I think she's so hot then it's what
she thinks that matters. And if she's more of a social than a visual creature (as most women are), then my persona and attitude make a difference; maybe even a defining difference.
In other words, if I decline to treat her like she's "above" me any more than I would the "fat chick" then she's less likely to get the feeling that I'm "beneath" her. And if I push her buttons, the way that guys she finds attractive do, she's more likely to find me attractive.
Likewise, if the "fat chick" somehow gets all hot, I might find her attractive even if she acts the same way she did when she was fat.