You telling him is out of line. You dont need to break the news to him, there is no gain for you.
You betrayed her trust, you know that right?

Just keep your mouth shut and go on with your life. It was a one night stand, no need to make more out of it.

This is a joke, right? When did I betray her trust? When did we even have a chance to develop some? Would that be before or after she was gagging? I disagree.

At least one other person in this thread stated that he would want to know if his girlfriend was cheating on me. It isn't as if I elaborately concocted this plan to **** this girl over from the moment I met her. I didn't realize that she had a boyfriend till the following morning when she was getting ready to leave. It upset me that she would do that to someone. I'm no Mystery or David D but I have pretty solid pick-up skills and if a girl like that is going to cheat on her boyfriend while sober, she's most likely a serial cheater and I saved that guy a lot of heartache. If you were him, would you prefer to find out now what a **** she is, before you have too much invested? Or would you rather wait until you are married to this chick in a few years and end up giving her half of your crap as well?

The trouble is who else will break the news to him? The girl certainly won't, and her girlfriend won't either unless she wants to sleep with the boyfriend.

He said that he didn't want to see her again, so there no reason to keep her happy or around. He may have 'broken her trust' but she also broke her boyfriend's trust. Its just a woman facing the consequences of her actions.

Dead is the Mother F***** man

I don't have loyalty to girls that I ****. Where's this coming from? What about the fact that she was about as disloyal to her boyfriend as you can get? Anyway, I didn't mean this thread to get derailed because of the last section of the trip report.

If I was the guy, I'd want to know. Like you said, what she did to her boyfriend was awful, and I was a willing participant in it. I'm not sorry it happened but I am sorry that the guy got cheated on by a bitch.

As for my motivations for posting, I saw the thread and other people had posted their NYE trip reports, so I wanted to add mine as well. It didn't take me that long to type because I already had about a page of Word notes about it. I like to do this because it helps me remember details after more time has passed.

Cheers.

It was an arrangement for one night, you made more out if it.

First, if a girl constantly cheats on her boyfriend, the boyfriend should work on himself, because he is most-likely a loser.

What does too much invested mean? Does that mean, if you invest too much into something you dont even know? Well then it's again his problem, not yours. And if you marry this girl, then there is no one who can help you, because you would be straight up ******ed.

There is no such thing as serial cheater. If you are worth it, she will not go in bed with the first guy she meets at a party.

Your reasoning for telling him is ridiculous and stupid. It makes no sense whatsoever.

If we really care that much about other people's relationships, maybe we should ask if the other one has a boyfriend before we proceed? But guess what? Nothing like that happened. It's pathetic to tell the boyfriend.

When a person does what he thinks is the right thing for someone else, there IS gain for him. You always argue things in utilitarian terms that don't even allow personal integrity into the mix.

You can argue that it wasn't right for him to do this, I'm pretty mixed on it myself...but sometimes the gain is being able to look yourself in the mirror and respect yourself. A person shouldn't need to point to more than that in order to take an action.

That's not how society works though.
He could have shut his mouth and no one would have been directly hurt by his actions. Now 2 people were hurt by his actions.

First insightful LKJ post i 100% agree with in a long time

Apparently it is cause he did it and the world didnt implode

Ofc it makes sense to you, you also believe in true love and people experiencing true love.

Yep everything is better in my fantasy world!

Hahah that was a great TR Dead would love to hear other trs.

send da pics obv.

I don't think I can post the boob picture in this thread without running afoul of the mods, so if you want it then send me a PM. No more in-thread requests beacuse I don't think anyone wants to see 20 or 30 posts in a row all saying bewbs. I'm not going to show the couple of face pictures I have from that night or from Facebook before defriending her because I don't want to create a potential trainwreck if someone on here knows her. If she stumbles across this thread (somehow), so be it, she will know I'm talking about her. But I'm not going to give her ammunition by blasting her face all over the internet.

You can post boob pics inline as long as you put it as a link or spoiler with NSFW tag

I don't even know what that means.

He made it so two people had a worse day that day. His action did not necessarily make it so two people were worse off in the long run. Again, it's a debatable point.

By the sound of it, he could easily have had a chance to **** this girl again. He chose instead to do something selfless. You can argue that he didn't do the right thing, but "there's nothing in it for you" is not an argument that rings true at all. Again, personal satisfaction of having done (in his opinion) the right thing is enough.

I guess I'd still prefer to not post it in a public thread just in case she somehow stumbles across it. Three people have gotten them via PM so far and I don't mind.

well than ship

LKJ is correct. As I said in the trip report, she asked me when she could see me again, and she wasn't headed back to central PA for another week. She was in the palm of my hand. I could have asked her to stay through the day and the following night and there's a 95% chance she would have called her local friend (who left about 20 minutes after we went in my bedroom --my roommate self-admittedly lacks game) and told her exactly that. I would have been able to hit that at least half a dozen more times before she went back to PA. But she became persona non grata after I found out what she had done to her boyfriend.

Yeah, understandable. It would totally ruin her life if somebody on here knew her and told her boyfriend or something. Oh wait...

Don't wanna turn this into a thread about morality, but I'm curious what you would do if you found out a girl had a boyfriend back at your apartment, but before you ****ed. Girls seem to like telling me **** like that just as we're about to hook up.

Come on now, Cubs. You don't see the difference between her boyfriend knowing what a skank she is and posting her picture on a public message board and all of her friends and acquaintances potentially finding out? All it takes is one person who knows her to start spreading the news, haha.

I know girls sometimes lie about that but I've never had it happen to me. Now maybe I've ****ed girls with boyfriends before but if they had them they certainly never told me. If a girl I was into told me she had a boyfriend I'd teasingly say show me your facebook. Everyone has one now and if it says she's in a relationship then I'll believe her. If there's no mention of it or it says single and she's willing then it's a different story, but willing girls don't lie about that. If they dig you and are holding out to see if you're serious about a relationship, then lying about having a boyfriend will end that pretty quick in my book. Also, if she mentions a boyfriend then she's obviously likely not interested, because that's kind of a mood killer.

To sum up, if I knew she had a boyfriend then I wouldn't have ****ed her. I think that's the most ethical stance. If I don't ask and she doesn't tell, it isn't my fault, it's hers.

Someone in PM asked me for more details about her. If this is NSFW then the mods can remove it. She was a **** machine, the kind you typically use for a few days and then forget about. 5'2" and around 105 pounds, slightly curvy. Solid C cups but they looked bigger on a girl her size, with a small waist and a butt you could just about bounce a quarter off. Medium-brown hair down a few inches past her shoulders with blue eyes and some freckles on her cheeks. If I had to guess, she has some Irish in her. I know she had some British and Jewish in her. Medium-brown hair and blue eyes, but I won't forget that rack for a long time. Cans that size and shape and a torso that long on a girl that short are a thing of beauty.

For a little while after she left, I actually had a moment of regret. It would have been nice to take her back in the bedroom and bang her a couple of times in the bed, just for variety, and then when she was going down let her take me all the way and then get some in her eye, accidentally of course.

wow, you don't post enough in this thread

At first I thought you were leveling me because I have 6 responses on the last page, haha. But then I realized that maybe you are saying I should post more.

Its 100% the latter