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once I know this one I can figure out the other

when you gonna let me tap that?

here you go

ok guys, Lately im finding that people i know dont like me for who i am anymore and this has got a lot to do with poker. My friends look at me differently now ever since ive been grinding alot more than normal this past month. One of them said how i will end up being a bum if i dont stop playing etc. Are these friends i should keep if they dont like me for who i am? I dont think i will ever stop playing poker for as long as i live. and if i enjoy doing something i like to share it with people not just keep it to myself and act secretive about it.

This thread has a(roughly) 0.03 post to view ratio, GET POSTING PEOPLE.

and wussop, they probably just think its a bad addiction. In my mind it really depends on a few things:
a) are you profitably playing, aka like a job
b) is it an addiction thats hurting your (social) life
c) are you talking about it 24/7? aka you're obsessed with it and annoying them

I'd just say its usually unnecessary to talk about with your friends, if they are just mad cause you don't chill with them as much as normal, just explain its like a job, but try to control it, play from x to x and then make plans after with them.
Its really just time management and shouldn't affect your social life more than any other job

They're waiting for Karak to post a detailed TR.

I could see it being quiet in here the next 2 weeks or so because of winter break...

wsop: man, tbh, i am not quite prepared to handle this introspective, emotional wsop post. i will have to give this some thought and get back to you.

OpIvy: while we are having some fun with your post, rest assured that you are def not the only one here who has been spooning with some chick with your dick pressed into her butt thinking "oh man, what should i do now? is she asleep? should i touch her? should i massage her neck? does she want me to try and **** her? is she awake? should i shove my boner into her more? will it get weird if i try something?" at some point in the future you will realize that once a chick is comfortable being in your bed after a couple of drinks with your erection shoving into her body, she is pretty much always down to have sex with you. but she often just wants it to "just happen" and "feel natural" so she doesn't feel like a slut. you've actually gotten past the hardest parts here and i'm sure you will get the last few steps of the process ironed out soon.

LT5 I could also, but I personally will either be staying in my college town and partying; or going home and partying and maybe trying to spark some old connections.




This is very true.
Tbh, I think its worse when:
Invited to a girls house, for obvious booty call type night, her parents gone etc. First time gonna be alone with this girl, we watch movies, make out, escalating all night, move to her bed and she randomly decides shes not into it/not going any farther and turns over and falls asleep.

I think that's probably worse than having nothing happen and wondering

Thanks el D. Going to her house now with my roommate to play beer pong.. TR will be forthcoming.. hopefully not till the morning

get her on your team

then intentionally throw the game so you get shut out and have to do a naked lap.

Yeah either that or do amazing and pray she doesn't make one so she has to do naked lap.
tell her that she doesn't have to do it there, but she has to do it around your bed when you get back

what bull **** rule is this?

even if your team wins if you don't make a cup it should be naked lap

no, thats bull ****, play some real pong

I have never heard of this ******ed rule. Better to be the "savior" who makes it and saves both of you, then suggest she can pay you back with a private naked lap later.

Why is the escalation kissing? They're in your bed, spooning and you have a boner. Take her hand a place it on your boner. Go from there.

The fail is that you let a girl get in your bed with your intentions unclear.

If I had not posted the louis ck link a few pages back I would just psot it here again.

onetax,

"Why is the escalation kissing? They're in your bed, spooning and you have a boner. Take her hand a place it on your boner. Go from there."

This is actually a pretty solid post, HOWEVER, I do not think in this specific case he is gonna have the nerve to go straight to any sort of genital contact. I think kissing is the clear escalation that he is most likely to execute successfully given the information we have.

Now, in the general case, I agree w/ your point. However, I feel that putting your hand on her vag is generally superior to moving her hand to your dick. I'm interested in hearing perspectives on others on that.

hand on dick > Hand on vag(although neither are optimal imo), and it doesnt seem nearly that close, one is sexual assualt for a lot of females one isnt, sure technically you can get in trouble for placing her hand on your boner, but the % of girls who will be a bitch about that compared to some random dude who she hasnt kissed putting their hand on her vag is so different. Escalating should be pretty easy within a bed so sexually asualting her shouldnt be our first step

El D,

I agree with you Going for her vag>than putting her hand on your dick. I have had great success with this before. I think if gives you the initiative to take control of the situation and get her in the mood to start progressing things.

CC,

I guess in that context that makes sense since they haven't started with makeing out first. But I still like takeing the initiative with the girl and getting her warmed up first.

Dick is less threatening in my experience.

It's a moot point. You need to be doing other things well enough that she does it voluntarily.

Your point is moot, cause grabbing her hand and putting it on your d is initiative...you know this right? I assume you mean you want to please her first? Which seems stupid cause starting with hand on dick is nothing over committal, its just somewhere to start.