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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

05-17-2010 , 02:02 AM
lkj what the **** am i "just a friend" to you too?

****ing hell
05-17-2010 , 02:04 AM
LKJ- I may have misread your post about the 'public'. Of course everyone is on Karak's side, what's the other side? "Man I hope that dude dies miserable and alone"? B

ut this emo **** is terrible, hopefully it's confined strictly to this thread because if this WHY IS EVERYONE SO MEAN TO ME stuff leaks into the real world people are gonna judge you.
05-17-2010 , 02:04 AM
You see, I go through phases. Sometimes I want you to shower me with money and attention and sometimes I don't. As of two minutes ago I don't.
05-17-2010 , 02:08 AM
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
LKJ- I may have misread your post about the 'public'. Of course everyone is on Karak's side, what's the other side? "Man I hope that dude dies miserable and alone"? B

ut this emo **** is terrible, hopefully it's confined strictly to this thread because if this WHY IS EVERYONE SO MEAN TO ME stuff leaks into the real world people are gonna judge you.
I don't even know if the second paragraph is about me, I'm guessing maybe not, so I'll just leave that part alone.

My post to him was saying, "Look dude. Everyone here has supported you. Tons of posters have stepped in to say as much. The second you get a couple of dissenters you flip out. You shouldn't do that." That's what it was saying. Or at least certainly that's what was meant.
05-17-2010 , 02:10 AM
Karak,

"do you honestly think 1 is true?"

My recollection/perception was that you had set-in-stone dealbreaker type issues related to your religion/morals that precluded you from having a long-term relationship with BG.
05-17-2010 , 02:23 AM
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
ut this emo **** is terrible, hopefully it's confined strictly to this thread because if this WHY IS EVERYONE SO MEAN TO ME stuff leaks into the real world people are gonna judge you.
lol'd
05-17-2010 , 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Karak
well that's that. reminded, again, why i dont post here. peace.
Karak, I like you and your posts here, but you can only make this ^ exact same post so many times before you're basically the new TUTS.
05-17-2010 , 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted by goofyballer
Karak, I like you and your posts here, but you can only make this ^ exact same post so many times before you're basically the new TUTS.
see my post a few down obviously
05-17-2010 , 03:55 AM
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
Karak,

Obviously you got more into her. And I have no reason to disbelieve the reactions from your friends or any other big picture things here.

However, it seems like through it all, you've been completely consistent re: one thing - that you see zero chance of a long-term relationship with this girl.

If that has changed, I take back a bunch of what I wrote. But I never read anything making me think you had even considered changing that.

IF MY IMPRESSION OF THAT IS TRUE, then her wanting to keep hanging out w/ you but not have a super serious relationship just seems like an overall positive thing.

Of course you're annoyed at her. But if the end result of this is that you can now hang out w/ her casually and have a fun time w/ her for as long as you want to do that, it seems like you're letting your ego get in the way of just having a good time.
karak has been repeating that he didnt see a chance for a relationship with this girl, but I (and im pretty sure a bunch of regulars) thought he was deluding himself, and just did not want to admit that he did. he obviously liked her, and it sucks that she did this. casual isnt texting everyday, hanging out with each other's friends, going on tons of dates. karak is not capable of casual (not an attack, some people just arent, whatever). Im sure she knew this, after hanging out with him for this long. If she wanted to keep it casual, she should have said something a long long time ago. she was definitely in the wrong here.

Karak, if I were you, I would not answer her calls unless you just want to give her a "**** off" type phonecall after which you two never talk again. just being indifferent and talking to her isnt a good idea at all.

Last edited by cplo42; 05-17-2010 at 03:58 AM. Reason: if you do have that phonecall TR it
05-17-2010 , 09:16 AM
lolllllll wtf happened in here last night!?
05-17-2010 , 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by zugzwang83
lolllllll wtf happened in here last night!?
thought the same thing
05-17-2010 , 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by cplo42
karak has been repeating that he didnt see a chance for a relationship with this girl, but I (and im pretty sure a bunch of regulars) thought he was deluding himself, and just did not want to admit that he did. he obviously liked her, and it sucks that she did this. casual isnt texting everyday, hanging out with each other's friends, going on tons of dates. karak is not capable of casual (not an attack, some people just arent, whatever). Im sure she knew this, after hanging out with him for this long. If she wanted to keep it casual, she should have said something a long long time ago. she was definitely in the wrong here.

Karak, if I were you, I would not answer her calls unless you just want to give her a "**** off" type phonecall after which you two never talk again. just being indifferent and talking to her isnt a good idea at all.

imo you hit the nail on the head. ive lectured karak about this a couple times.


i would just ignore her. that **** will eat at her, believe me.
05-17-2010 , 01:58 PM
LOOOOL Drama nuke itt.
05-17-2010 , 02:12 PM
Dont put all your eggs in one basket.....unless you are searching for easter eggs as a kid, in which case you have to store them somewhere

But seriously Karak, it seems like you put so much of your day to day happiness in the hands of people that are not you...You should focus on making yourself happy and not relying on other people to do so...I have said this before but just thought I would reiterate
05-17-2010 , 02:54 PM
I think Karak watched too much Animaniacs as a kid.
05-17-2010 , 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911

But seriously Karak, it seems like you put so much of your day to day happiness in the hands of people that are not you...You should focus on making yourself happy and not relying on other people to do so...I have said this before but just thought I would reiterate
uhhh... no. because you get hurt by a girl doesnt mean you "put your day to day happiness in the hands of other people"

it's very reasonable and acceptable to be hurt in a situation like this and doesnt mean i have co-dependency problems lol

in fact im doing quite well lol

Last edited by Karak; 05-17-2010 at 02:56 PM. Reason: would probably be doing just fine if poker didnt decide to bust its nut all over my face
05-17-2010 , 02:57 PM
i think he could is making a general observation which i can understand from the tone of your posts, obv knowing you this isnt true but i see what he means.
05-17-2010 , 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
i think he could is making a general observation which i can understand from the tone of your posts, obv knowing you this isnt true but i see what he means.
that's what i was trying to say...
05-17-2010 , 03:14 PM
Nah im pretty sure you are just in the veil of ignorance in that you dont see whats going on merely because you are biased because it directly affects you, but form majority of your posts itt it seems like you feed of others in order to fully comprehend what is going on in your life. IN many of posts, I could mulitquote if I wasnt lazy, you come off as someone who needs constant approval and attention from your peers in order to feel like yourself...No offense to yeota but again, you are biased, i couldnt be entirely off base but almost every one of your posts is ridden with the feeling of needing approval in order to gain some sort of clear mind or happiness...
05-17-2010 , 03:16 PM
yeah but you said it in a dick tone lol (@karak)

CC- i agree with your assessment of his posts, but internet karak is a fairly different (though similar in many ways) person from real world karak, thats all i was saying.
05-17-2010 , 03:32 PM
anyone else here believe in fate? i was just leaving the gas station with a large icee, having forgotten all about my need to drop the 15 lbs/23 days, and left it on top of my car so it fell off on the way home. only had 1 bowl of rice yesterday, and today has been 1 bowl of rice and a small thing of baked beans (gotta keep my protein up, knaamean?). should be able to last til tmrw on this.
05-17-2010 , 03:36 PM
Why are you dropping 15 lbs in 23 days again? For FW? You described yourself as athletic, are you 15 pounds overweight or just trying to go from athletic-looking to skinny-as-hell for a chick who may or may not even prefer that?
05-17-2010 , 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by goofyballer
Why are you dropping 15 lbs in 23 days again? For FW? You described yourself as athletic, are you 15 pounds overweight or just trying to go from athletic-looking to skinny-as-hell for a chick who may or may not even prefer that?
haha no not overweight at all, a very typical 5'10 170 soccer player build. 155 is going to be a bit underweight for me but i have to negate every advantage MAN has. hes like an inch taller than me and probably 150!
05-17-2010 , 03:39 PM
i dont know how anyone can truly try to analyze a person and know them well enough to characterise them from posts online. I think its better to try and be objective about the situation instead of making generalizations on someones personality or state of mind.
05-17-2010 , 03:40 PM
lol youre not real

      
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