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Originally Posted by El Diablo
Karak,
Obviously you got more into her. And I have no reason to disbelieve the reactions from your friends or any other big picture things here.
However, it seems like through it all, you've been completely consistent re: one thing - that you see zero chance of a long-term relationship with this girl.
If that has changed, I take back a bunch of what I wrote. But I never read anything making me think you had even considered changing that.
IF MY IMPRESSION OF THAT IS TRUE, then her wanting to keep hanging out w/ you but not have a super serious relationship just seems like an overall positive thing.
Of course you're annoyed at her. But if the end result of this is that you can now hang out w/ her casually and have a fun time w/ her for as long as you want to do that, it seems like you're letting your ego get in the way of just having a good time.
karak has been repeating that he didnt see a chance for a relationship with this girl, but I (and im pretty sure a bunch of regulars) thought he was deluding himself, and just did not want to admit that he did. he obviously liked her, and it sucks that she did this. casual isnt texting everyday, hanging out with each other's friends, going on tons of dates. karak is not capable of casual (not an attack, some people just arent, whatever). Im sure she knew this, after hanging out with him for this long. If she wanted to keep it casual, she should have said something a long long time ago. she was definitely in the wrong here.
Karak, if I were you, I would not answer her calls unless you just want to give her a "**** off" type phonecall after which you two never talk again. just being indifferent and talking to her isnt a good idea at all.
Last edited by cplo42; 05-17-2010 at 03:58 AM.
Reason: if you do have that phonecall TR it