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Originally Posted by Spurious
I agree but he should have already slowed it down before.
Yes, this is true. But it didn't happen. As I said, the situation was not handled well at all. But this is where we are now. Can't change the past.
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When we first started hanging out a lot more we slept in the same bed together 2 or 3 times. I made moves, she denied. I told her that we were done with that. That was fine, we still hung out, but weren't as cuddly. Then about 2 months later it started happening again. Shortly thereafter we banged. Then she went on a trip. Came back. Thought we'd be banging again, but that was a no fly zone. Fast forward a year of intermittent cuddling and attempts at hooking up. Nothing.
She plans another trip. We plan to hang out before she leaves. She gets weird and changes the scope of the hangout. I ditch. We don't talk her whole trip. She comes back. She attempts to hang out 3x. I deny. We talk to each other briefly at a bar with friends. Now here we are.