Thanks for all the responses on my issue guys. I decided im not going to make any snap decisions on this overnight, but will really evaluate and see if how I feel remains the same just after the holiday. As Henry said, it will just get harder to break it off if I put it off. But the timing is awful with the holidays and I don't want to make a decision literally right after it happened. I'm not the type to have extreme difficulty breaking something off, so that won't be an issue especially in first two months of dating exclusively

*sigh* so who else is alone this Christmas? I'm considering feeding this hungry hippo that won't stop bugging me on Facebook. I'm probably going to regret it, she's not my type at all and pisses me off everyday tryng to strike up a conversation with me. Maybe finishing in under 30 seconds and then walking out will get her to leave me alone.

She's a bit of a psycho, I blocked her on Facebook a few months back and she signed in to her friend's FB to tell me that she knows I've blocked her lol. I'm considering banging her to get her off my back (be a selfish lover and let her know I just want sex) , and of course a bit of me just wants some Christmas grub.

get her to bring a friend

"two nickels make a dime every time" - Juelz Santana

But yeah Im single around the holidays and not really stressing it, would be nice to have a girl to watch stupid tv shows with and then smash though

This is exactly why you should have kept in contact w the cute whore you met a week ago in the back alley

On her birthday she asked me to go get drunk round her house, like 10 of her friends were there and she asked if I didn't mind being the only boy and that I could stay if I wanted (all her friends were staying me). The optimist in me envisioned an ultra remarkable gangbang. Then reality hit me when I realised the night would probably consist of her friends nagging me to hook up with her, or me being excluded in some other way.

She has my number. She hasn't contacted me so I assume that she didn't want me to contact her.

Why wouldn't that same logic apply to her?

All you had to do was check it out and leave if you don't get what you wanted obv

meh, never mind. im a fat apologist 4 lyfe

I agree with your point, but I don't care about her which is why I didn't bother contacting her. She blew her chance of us ever dating after she blew me in an alleyway.
This girl is a psycho, and I assume they travel in packs. I know if I were to leave I'd be bombarded with messages of "she's in tears", "you're a bastard". These girls are all 18. Maybe girls are a little more mature in the US, I don't know.

Uno you crack me up. Asset to this thread. I hope you're not a troll

What will be your plan if you have to celebrate Christmas alone? Being single and living in Asia.

You need to get laid, and get this bitch out of your life buddy. Seriously.

It's not about being selfish. Obviously, bitch sounds crazy and you need to leave her alone. Not having options sucks. Bigtime.

Banging her might escalate your issues and she might turn even crazier.. Just sayin'

Fat men can easily pull chicks Deldar182. It's much worse for fat chicks. ;-)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x27wabHGCac

Just watched a bit, theres a lot of gold in there.

Whew, lucky for me

Got super drunk, wore a GoPro, and partied with 9 guy friends at a ski resort in vermont. Video may be up at a later point, guy who owns it is gonna make a compilation.

brb slurring like a mother****er
brb dancing really silly
brb dive bar in vermont where we were 70% of patrons.

so it did not work out with tampa girl

i texted asking her if she wanted to go to dave and busters on monday. she agreed but then said "whos going?" sounded like game over to me

but im planning on asking the front desk/floor girl at my poker room out for drinks at some point. i talk to her quite a bit during my breaks from playing and she's actually shared some personal details with me (not sure if thats good or bad).

only problem i see is she's 24, turning 25, and im 21, nowhere near 22

Gunstar is back, once a motha'gain. I hate to break it to you dawg but you were invited to an all-girl slumber party. If you think she has any interest in you beyond painting your nails pink and having you dress up in girls clothes for her entertainment because she knows you are a desperate slug that will do anything just to get a hug, you must be on the Henry-train to Delusionville.

Pretty sure Uno is 100% trolling, and it isn't entertaining.

Except for the fatty wanting to bang him. That's 100% real.


See, being fat shouldn't mean you are beyond reproach for being fat. People get called out for making other bad choices such as smoking or shooting up heroin. And, as aforementioned, drinking and driving. I sure as hell can criticize people for those actions, but for some reason telling someone he or she is fat is off limits. They are all choices. Hell, it's much easier to not be fat than to stop an addicting drug or to stop smoking, and yet we'll criticize those people for making poor choices but not the former.

Nothing wrong with love, even if it is overweight.

What a little trailblazer you are, exposing the logical holes in society's double standards. I'm sure being the first to openly criticize fat people will get you somewhere in life - make sure to do so loudly if possible.

Anddd that's a giant wall of text, tl;dr at bottom.

Alright well I know the correct thing to do in my situation is nothing but this girl is hard for me to read so I just want some opinions on how I've handled it with her to this point. I hear this place is lacking TR's so here's a **** ton over a semester.

Met a pretty hot blonde girl(8) at a party last year. Things went well with her that night from what I remember, but only ended up walking her home with her friends and getting her number. I invited her to a party the week after and she showed up at 1AM, played one game of bp with me and left.

Fast forward to this fall I get a text from a random number while I'm at a bar with friends and its her and she wants to know what I'm doing but I was already with another hot girl so I invite her to a party that weekend. Things go pretty well at the party but she knows a ton of people there so she's talking to a lot of other guys too. Eventually I find out she's going as a date with one them to an event at a bar the next day that I will also be at and later I see them sitting together on a couch about to make out so I'm like alright whatever and forget about her. As I'm leaving I walk through a room where she's talking to a friend of mine and she sees me and instantly yells my name and clings to me and we go back to my place and try to have sex but its like 3 and I'm too drunk to even put it in. When we wake-up the next morning her best friend whos been trying to get with me for a year had texted her 10 times in all caps telling her how much of a whore she is and how much she hates her and we laugh at the absurd texts.

After she leaves the next day she sends a text asking if I'm clean, if we used a condom, and says I'm only the second guy she's had sex with (she's 19 I'm 20) and the other is a guy she just got out of a LTR with that summer. I don't know if I should consider the 2nd person part a lie but respond oh well we didn't really have sex so you're good. That night I see her at the bar and she ends up coming home with me and we actually have sex this time. In the morning she tell me she ended her relationship basically to be sluttly while its acceptable in college. A week later I invited her to come with me and a group of friends to our rivals football game where we were staying in hotel in a city a couple hundred miles away for one night and she said yes.

The Wednesday before the weekend were at a bar and she's kind of there because of me but were with a bunch of my friends and she's friends with some of them too. I'm not sure if she was mad that I talked to other girls or something but she starts talking to some guy she kind of knows right by where I am and pulls him right by me and starts making out with him. She's really ****ed up to the point where she's falling every few minutes and people are looking at her and the guy eventually leaves with her. (I found out later they didn't have sex)

Obviously I only slept with her once so I was like ok **** it but I was a little pissed cause I thought I was gonna get to hit it again that night and I didn't know if she did it cause she didn't want to go anymore esp. cause if she only had sex with 2 guys its either that or she's really about to start sleeping around a lot. Also I didn't want to go with a girl that wasn't dtf in the hotel and could have invited someone else. The next morning she texts me saying she was such a **** show night and i'm like lol yeah me too crazy night and she starts telling me about her new phone. At this point I kind of think she still wants to go but I'm pissed about the night before so I invite her to something with my friends that are going too that night to see if she's still dtf and if not she wasn't going. There's only like 7 guys there and me but she eventually shows up with one friend and they basically just stand near me for two hours before her friend leaves. I tell her my roommates on acid and we head back to my place to check on him and have sex.

So we go the next day have a good time and have sex again that night before we go to the game Saturday and come back that night. She texts me once that week and we start talking about netflix and she demands we watch white chicks soon cause she loves it and I hadn't seen it. That Thursday I did something I couldn't invite her to and then ended up at a bar near where we both live around 12:30 and instead of just inviting her sent a pretty bad what are you doing text which probably came off as a bad attempt at a booty call. She didn't respond so I didn't contact her again until she texted me the next Tuesday asking about a picture of something from the weekend. Luckily my baller friend had a $1000 tab on the house at the same close bar on a Tuesday so I tell her I don't have the thing but invite her to that and she comes and brings like 5 friends.

We get wasted and me and my roommate leave with her and her friend and she brings up that we haven't had the movie night yet so we go back to our place and all watch white chicks. It was kind of awkward watching the movie cause I've had sex with the girl with my roommate a few times, she probably still liked me, it became more obvious she wasn't into him during the movie and I felt like I was being watched plus the two girls are pretty close to each other. Half-way through the movie I said I was too tired to finish it and she objected and wrapped herself around me which in hindsight was my q to take her to my room but I didn't. I try to get her to stay after the movie but they both leave.

That Friday she comes to a party I'm at and things basically go well but were both there for like 3 or 4 hours so I obviously talk to a lot of different girls and I don't think she liked it cause she eventually stuck herself to some other guy that I knew she would never do anything with. So it's like 2am and she's still stuck to this guy so after she ignores my attempts to get her attention I start talking to two of her friends and they're gonna leave so I'm like ok me too. As we're leaving she walks by us with the guy and I tell her bye and she stops and is like wtf youre leaving and then turns and goes back to the guy. So I leave and while i'm getting stoned she texts me "are you serious?" and I get really pissed. I respond whats that supposed to mean and she says "you left with some random girl" and I'm like "yeah so what you basically said no" even though I didn't take either girl home. She sends a lol text saying she could go home with any guy but would want to go home with me and says whatever have a great night thanks for nothing and Byeeeeee!. I respond with lol wow it really didn't seem like it bye I guess and she instantly responds saying well its just what people have told me and if you're not into me just tell me.

I don't respond for like 20 minutes and she calls me at 3:30 saying she's outside of my apartment and the guy she's with from they party passed out in the grass. I walk out my front door and she's just standing there. She tells me the guy passed out a block down and was trying to prevent her from coming to me lol. So we walk down and he's no longer in the spot he passed out so we go back and start making out in front of my apartment and she comes in and we have sex twice and once in the morning.

Halloween is on a Thursday and she couldn't come out that night but I end up making out with some other girl at a bar which I almost felt bad about but knew I shouldn't. When I get back at 2:30 I go to where she's having a charity event thing and my roommate tells me shes been asking where I was and stuff so at this point I'm thinking she might have wanted something more than just being a hook-up. We don't have sex cause it's like 3am and she would have to walk pretty far so I kiss her and leave.

Here's where things go bad so I guess I may have done something wrong. The next two weeks she texts me a quite a bit but we don't see each other cause shes out of town both weekends. The next week I see her at bar while I'm with my friends with shes with another group with only one guy she wouldn't do anything with but she leaves with her group after like 2 minutes. We end up at the same tailgate that Saturday before the game and only talk for a few minutes and she eventually just leaves. I kind of want to know where I'm at at this point with her so I text her during the game that she should come sit with me and my friends if she's in the same section. She says "yes but i'm already sitting with people" so I figure at this point she's not into me how I thought she was and I don't really wanna invite her to anything else and if she wants to keep seeing me in anyway she'll contact me so I don't respond.

Three weeks go by and nothing until her and friends show up at my friends small apartment party where there's only like 10 people. She comes up and says hi and hugs me. Its kind of awkward but I get hammered and hit on the one hotter girl there and one of her friends. She eventually starts trying to talk to me and I basically just politely do my best to not care about her being there cause shes ****ed me over enough at this point that she's gonna have to show me she really wants it. Her friends and her announce they're going to the bars and some guys are too but it's really cold so I don't go and just let her leave and she doesn't say bye or anything. Five minutes later she calls me, I missed it but they all walked back in 10 minutes after that and they were still planning to go and came back to get more people ie. me. So she starts more obviously begging me to go and I eventually agree. At all the bars we went to she stayed by me wherever we went and whenever I tried to leave cause I was cold she would grab my arm and drag me to another bar. One of the guys with us made a lol attempt but got her number while she was stuck next to me watching me eat pizza. By the time we left at 2 it was just me her and her best friend from the previous story that sent her all the crazy texts when I first had sex with her. It wasn't possible to get her away from her (how is this done?) so I just said bye and got off at my stop. The next day she post pictures of the 5 of us on FB and I was too drunk at the time to notice but she's clearly trying to lean into me or be by me in all of them.

So that was about two weeks ago and that's my whole history with her. We're in different cities over break so I won't see her until next semester but we're bound to run into each other again. I feel like I still shouldn't contact her and basically move on unless she initiates something with me the next time I see her. I would date this girl if she wanted too but as a guy I would obv just wait and keep hooking up with her if she wants until she says something.

Advise or criticisms please. I sometimes feel like this girl is trying to passive aggressively hint for me to ask her for a relationship or something more by talking to other guys or not talking to me cause she always get jealous when I talk to other girls. (A friend told me she told him she was really upset one time when I was talking to one of her hotter friends.) Also I would like to know the best way in general of going from the hook-up stage to exclusive. Do you just start hanging out more casually or start setting up your next encounter more often?

TLR: Been having sex with girl, she seemed to back-off and I don't know where I went wrong. She seemed to want again last time we hung out but couldn't accurately measure cause of CB friend.

I'm at work just killing time and I couldn't even get through that TR. So many useless details you decided to include making it unreadable.

I'm sure there are entertaining stories in there somewhere too. Try again?

Shes mind ****ed and pissed that you haven't asked her out.

Do it or its over imo

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You two seem like a great match considering how you both seem to enjoy playing mind games with each other

THIS !

You treated her just as badly as she treated you, neither one of you has the maturity to nurture a relationship.

So bang as many of her friends as possible, chicks respect that.