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02-27-2010 , 04:21 PM

#3626

Stinger88

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Karak,

Not your fault. Man it really seems like so many fat chicks are just total buzzkills, I don't get it.

supafrey,

I think Requiem is a great movie and all, but for a Friday night date? Heh, nice job though, and obv full TRs are cool.

02-27-2010 , 04:22 PM

#3627

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,724

some romantic comedy taht will make her sappy but doesnt appear obvious

uhh... hmm... 500 days of summer comes to mind

forgetting sarah marshall maybe

02-27-2010 , 04:22 PM

#3628

Stinger88

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LKJ,

Not super experienced with it but seems like romantic comedy would be the way to go, something like Forgetting Sarah Marshall would be my go-to

edit - great minds think alike Karak

Yeah basically a romantic comedy that's actually a solid movie too and not just being picked bc you're obv trying to get her in the mood.

Last edited by Stinger88; 02-27-2010 at 04:23 PM. Reason: .

02-27-2010 , 04:24 PM

#3629

pokerchap

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,514

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

some romantic comedy taht will make her sappy but doesnt appear obvious

uhh... hmm... 500 days of summer comes to mind

forgetting sarah marshall maybe

how can a romantic comedy ever not appear obvious? not only is it obvious, most of them are awful (500 days being an exception)

drama w/ underlying love story or pixar ftw

02-27-2010 , 05:13 PM

#3630

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 93,732

Yeah, ummm...I won't be getting any tonight.

She texts me and tells me that her dad is in the hospital and not doing well, and her mom bought her a plane ticket home so she has to leave tonight, and apologizes for canceling. Then before I can respond, she sends a follow-up saying, "Never mind, I'm coming. The ticket is for tomorrow. My bad. Ha."

So she is coming over, but ****, I can't make a move under these new circumstances. Clearly just need to be a good friend tonight, show her a good time (in a non-sexual way) and help her get her mind off of stuff.

02-27-2010 , 05:18 PM

#3631

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,724

You'll need to feel it out. It's quite possible you can still make a move, just make sure she's up to it and you aren't taking advantage.

02-27-2010 , 05:25 PM

#3632

LKJ

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Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 93,732

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

You'll need to feel it out. It's quite possible you can still make a move, just make sure she's up to it and you aren't taking advantage.

Well we're still going to drink and all, but I'd feel really frigging weird about being the overt aggressor in a circumstance like that. Without clear signals coming from her, I'm pretty sure I'll just play it cool for the night. Even if something did happen I think I might feel sleazy for it. I dunno, we'll see.

02-27-2010 , 05:29 PM

#3633

il_martilo

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Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

Don't be an overt aggressor in general. This really doesn't change anything about your play here IMO.

Wine --> On the couch --> Movie --> Sitting close --> Some sort of physical interaction (honestly I've "accidentally" fallen onto a girl when I had no other plan and it worked) --> Cuddling if you just got a green light before --? etc.

02-27-2010 , 05:30 PM

#3634

il_martilo

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Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

If we're talking in Karak's PUA speak this is a standard build kino or whatever he calls it and keep progressing slowly every time you get a positive response.

02-27-2010 , 05:57 PM

#3635

LKJ

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Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 93,732

Well okay, guess it comes back to Karak's initial response, I'll feel it out. I'll have to see how she's feeling about things; I texted her back to say sorry about your dad and that I hope he's getting better as we speak...so I won't bring it up in person unless she does, but I'll still have to find other ways to get a feel for her mood. We'll see how it goes. She comes over in about two hours.

02-27-2010 , 06:20 PM

#3636

socalsucka

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Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 336

Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

Haha...Requiem for a Dream, talk about a mood-setter. WTF.

Nice job closing the deal in any case.

lol I know. I don't really own any "mood setters" and I don't have a blockbuster card because most of them are closed by where I live. I showed her my library and she said Requiem looked interesting... or maybe it was because Jared Leto was in it. But yes, this does prove you can watch anything and get it on if she's somewhat willing. If you have the choice though pick something a little less depressing.

02-27-2010 , 06:58 PM

#3637

LKJ

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Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 93,732

Alright, she texted me and said she wasn't feeling up to it and just wanted to stay in. Obviously that's fine, I know she's really close with her dad and I'm sure she's in a terrible mood over all of this. Other than wishing I'd known that my night was going to free, because there was another girl I was planning to try to make plans with this night before this plan got made instead, this is no big deal. My undergrad's college hoops team is playing tonight, might just stay in and chill. There's a party invite on the table, but the dude hosting annoys the **** out of me, so I feel like I might just pass.

02-27-2010 , 07:07 PM

#3638

br3nt00

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Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 3,664

Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

no better way to get back at an annoying host than to drink all his booze

02-27-2010 , 07:09 PM

#3639

zugzwang83

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Quote:

Originally Posted by LKJ

By the way, is there an optimal genre of movie I should push tonight when the girl comes over? I mean, dude's TR with Requiem for a Dream above shows that you can get some no matter what you pick if the girl comes over wanting it, but I just wondered if there's a direction to steer toward that's optimal if I don't really know the girl's tastes at all. Maybe comedy? I've got a pretty expansive collection of DVDs/Blu-rays with all eras and genres.

And yes, unlike the other girl I'm pretty damn sure this one will sit next to me since we'll be sharing a bottle of wine and all (I'll set some cheese out too), pretty much forces both of us to the couch in front of the coffee table.

transformers. Also, in the 1% chance everything falls apart, at least you got to stare at megan fox all night.

02-27-2010 , 07:28 PM

#3640

br3nt00

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Quote:

Originally Posted by zugzwang83

transformers. Also, in the 1% chance everything falls apart, at least you got to stare at megan fox all night.

im gonna have to agree. its a great movie (the 1st one)

02-27-2010 , 08:09 PM

#3641

cplo42

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Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,832

yeah make her watch transformers if shes 14

02-27-2010 , 08:22 PM

#3642

Spurious

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Stinger88

edit - great minds think alike Karak

thought similar, but i wish the second part was true

i am heavily disagreeing on transformers, that movie is terrible...

02-27-2010 , 08:27 PM

#3643

zugzwang83

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Quote:

Originally Posted by cplo42

yeah make her watch transformers if shes 14

yeah good point, what the movie is makes a huge difference considering the past couple nights of success have ranged from wall-e (oh man was this girl 8?) to requiem for a dream (oh man is this girl an emo drug addict?)...

the point is, MEGAN FOX.

02-27-2010 , 08:31 PM

#3644

LKJ

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There's good eye candy in almost every good movie; as such, it doesn't make a ton of sense to watch a movie because of it. Megan Fox is of course ****ing hot, but she's not worth sitting through Transformers for again. Like a couple of the other posters...I hated that flick.

02-27-2010 , 08:58 PM

#3645

cplo42

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Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,832

Quote:

Originally Posted by zugzwang83

requiem is obviously a terrible choice, but walle isnt bad. girls like cartoons obv

02-27-2010 , 09:54 PM

#3646

il_martilo

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Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

500 days of summer a good recommendation?

And I'm just running over my gameplan with B tonight. She'll be there with C, but my goals are
(1) Make it a little clearer I do actually like her. I'm a natural flirt and unless she has really good reading skills there's no way she knows.
(2) Dance or at the very least get more touchy
(3) Keep doing what I've been doing
(4) Suggest we hang out solo this week sometime.

02-27-2010 , 10:07 PM

#3647

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,724

Quote:

Originally Posted by il_martilo

you seem to have decent natural game you'll be fine

over-analysis and plans at this point only serve to hamstring you

as for me, i was gunna go out again to another club with my friend(s but probably juts singular), but when everyone i was atlking to about tonight told me they were staying in to study for our midterm monday, it made me feel guilty so now i shall do the same. i honestly am pretty unprepared. oh well. gl to you all.

02-28-2010 , 12:33 AM

#3648

dumbluck13

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Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 456

Quote:

Originally Posted by zugzwang83

yeah good point, what the movie is makes a huge difference considering the past couple nights of success have ranged from wall-e (oh man was this girl 8?) to requiem for a dream (oh man is this girl an emo drug addict?)...

the point is, MEGAN FOX.

Funny you should say this, 'cuz she's made multiple jokes about looking like she's 15 or something (to be honest, she does not look 20, but definitely not 15 either).

... I SWEAR SHE'S 20.

02-28-2010 , 12:55 AM

#3649

lastchance

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LKJ, you've got to be kidding me right? Your run of luck is amazingly bad, wow. Sometimes there isn't anything you can (well at least, should) do.

Sucks for the girl too.. :/

Also, second Karak, very good advice.