Dan, In your current emotional state, I think this is your biggest risk. Best of luck dude! I pulling for you.
BTW, some of the best places to meet women are where the woman to man ratio is the highest.
Off the top of my head:
1. Where teachers hang out. (Teacher credential schools? Office Depot? LOL)2. Where nurses hang out. (The hospital LDO, LOL)
3. Church activities
4. Volunteer workers
5. Sports dept of local newspaper? (OK, maybe not)
6. ?
Good luck!
The obvious answer here is schools. But hanging around elelmentary schools is probably not a great idea.
I once played a basketball game at some bandit teacher training college out in the sticks. I we wouldn't normally have been playing them since we were, ahem, the best university team in the country and they sucked, but their captain knew our captain or something so we played a friendly.
Anyhoo, they had a 9 to 1 female to male ratio (i.e. they barely had enough men to turn out a basketball team) (when i expressed my amazement this guy shrugged and said, meh last year was 17:1, or something) For some reason unbeknownst to the male of the species, the basketball team was the most popular thing in school, and pretty much the whole school turned out to watch us destroy their gods. After the game we repaired to the college bar, heaving with women, and the bastard driving the minibus decides he's had a long day and wants to drive home there and then. And I was ****wit enough to go with him.
I'm still thinking there's an angle to the Nursing Home plan... Dan could go scouting for "Sugar Momma's"
Sugar Momma: "Danny, come here, it's time to apply my Bengay ointment..."
AntiDan: "Coming dear..." (as Dan switches off his 70 inch LCD TV in his Martha Vineyard's Mansion media room)
I already had "volunteering" high on my list of things to consider. It's more about figuring out exactly how I want to do that. The YMCA (where I'm already a member) seems like a very good option.
I'm still thinking there's an angle to the Nursing Home plan... Dan could go scouting for "Sugar Momma's"
Sugar Momma: "Danny, come here, it's time to apply my Bengay ointment..."
AntiDan: "Coming dear..." (as Dan switches off his 70 inch LCD TV in his Martha Vineyard's Mansion media room)
I thought his brother had the BenGay crowd covered...
I still remember the Catholic Young Adult Conference where I met my wife-to-be... There were so few guys at the evening dance, girls were dancing with girls... I'm guessing it was a 4:1 ratio of females to males. And ALL of them were single.
As a single guy, it was like shooting fish in a barrel... Unbelievable.
Oh oh oh... How can I forget this tip. OMG OMG OMG.
I should be paid for this one....
Join a group of volunteer Christmas caroler's... Walking from old age home to old age home making people feel happy, so so so puts the women of the group in a romantic mood. Especially if the weather is right and the snow is falling. Women with boyfriends of 10 years will throw them out the door to nail you that night.
She met someone else. She wished me luck though. That's cool, good for her.
Yeah I'm definitely going to crank out a bunch more e-mails.
All in all, I'd say that's a positive result. Your note warranted an actual answer, even if the answer was no. That means you passed the first and hardest step. Well done.
Honestly, just write a generic one and copy/paste it to like 20+ chics/day....
we can help u write it
I don't want to do generic (I think that's a bad idea), I can take five minutes to write something short and original that inquires about her interests.