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So what you're saying is that you have racist friends, you sometimes even invite them over for dinner and let them use your bathroom and everything?
Some of my best friends are racists, or at least have racist tendencies. It bothers me and I dislike it, but they have been friends for over 20 years. They are also intolerant of Muslims, gays, etc. I dislike it and they know how I feel about it, but they are still friends. They are all white, by the way. All of my black friends are not racist, but some do have the "black chip on their shoulder".
The reality of the situation is that most white people I've ever met that aren't younger than me are at least partially racist. Hell, my mom is racist. My wife locks the car door when we drive through black neighborhoods.
I live with it. One of my friends says I'm some sort of bleeding heart type dude who loves black people when I say things about black people simply not being anywhere as dangerous as people think. Like I've said, I've gotten into many altercations in my life when I was younger, and all of them were with white kids, never once with any black kids, and I grew up in a very "black" city.
It must be social influence or media influence. People where I live are simply scared of black men and don't want to live in black neighborhooods, or go to black clubs/bars, etc etc etc.
It's just the way it is for my age demographic and older. Is it getting better? Sure. Is it still there though? Absolutely.