The whole thing about “you just want us to be nice to racists!” is that by your own definitions, you’d almost certainly classify a majority (quite possibly a large majority) of American voters as racist. Probably all of Trump’s voters would be automatically categorised racist, probably most of Johnson’s voters, and the
roughly 1/3 of Clinton voters who don’t approve of Black Lives Matter is a reasonable proxy for the kind of Democratic-leaner who’d get called racist here. That’s at least 60% of all voters.
Or take when Jonathan Ferrell was shot, Fly was calling people racist (and others like MrWookie were agreeing him with slightly more civility) for putting forth the view that you couldn’t be sure that the woman who called the cops on him was racist. That view
was later espoused by Ta-Nehisi Coates (who if you’re not aware, has written articles like “A Case For Reparations”, and is surely well to the left of the median American on racial issues). I’m not aware of any of polls on that issue, but I’d guess it’d be at least 80% against Fly’s side.
Now, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re
wrong. Maybe it’s a defensible position that a wide majority of Americans
are racist, or that Coates was wrong on that particular issue.
But it matters a whole lot from a strategy perspective. If your opponents are genuinely fringe Nazis, then maybe yelling at them about how terrible they are could be a modestly effective way of getting them to realise that their views will see them shunned, even if they don’t actually change them. However, if you’re the equivalent of a vegan going around calling meat-eaters murderers, then it’s much more likely you’ll get the equivalent of people shrugging, heading off to their neighbourhood BBQs and exchanging quips about how crazy vegans are.