Well I didn't receive a text from her saying that she had to cut our date a little short because of some function at a church but I'll address that later.

Date went well, went to a higher end bar/lounge and got some drinks and sushi. Conversation was smooth, picked up where we left off. Learned that I'm her first online date so unsure how to take that. Basically said that's cool and I'm enjoying her company. Moved on, that wasn't something I was going to spend much time talking about. She did talk about going to church every so often but she didn't mean that it in a devoted Christian way. More of a way to learn about Christianity. Idk, I'm not religious but I didn't get the vibe that she'd saving herself for marriage or anything.

Bill came, I took care of it. She said she appreciated it and felt that she should chip in somehow. I suggested we check out the arcade, decide on a game and the loser buys dessert. Well we end up playing ddr like we spoke about a few times and got my ass handed to me lol. We were having fun and some physical escalation so I went for the kiss. Got it, she seemed keen about it so we made out a bit. There wasn't immediately an ice cream shop around and she had to get going. Walked her to her car, made out a bit more and chatted. She's gone for the weekend but suggested I join her for her zumba class on Sunday. Figure what the hell and may go. I'd like to do that and see if I can get her back to my place and figure out if she's religious and no sex or she's dtf eventually. I don't have a great read on it but that's my tr. Not really interesting like amazin but figure thread is always needing tr's.

Yea.. Zumba. No

10/10 emasculation

This seems like a bad idea IMO, but if you think you can pull it off, go for it.

Mashoo,

Bad idea. I hate to use the phrase, but doing Zumba with a girl you've started dating is extremely beta.

Although she might have offered it to you, you will have emasculated yourself in her eyes if you go. Thats never a good thing.

Gl if you go for it though!

What's more likely to happen: you go to Zumba unprepared, get your ass handed to you because it's actually a super intense work out, and she has to carry you home because you can't walk.

Less likely to happen: you go to Zumba and impress her with your dance exercise and bang her.

Lol gotcha. Appreciate the feedback all. I guess I'll update again when I figure out what we're going to do for the next date.

theres no harm in not being super eager too.

be cool, man. be cool.

True true. It's nice to get an outside perspective here

Last Zumba I went to we were twerking and doing body rolls.

Lol yeah, not really my style.

Small note I wanted to add; my date said that she liked how I pushed from okc to text to date asap. Liked my "ambition". Unsure if that would apply universally but just a note. Also she mentioned while we kissed that "wow, you really are tall for an Asian" I loled because that's what I jokingly put for "what's the first thing people notice about me"

So, it looks like this hooker is really interested in coming

you pay $$ so you don't have to worry about that...

I'm not paying her anything

i want to thank you in advance for returning to this thread

I did not meet this girl as a client. She's just a chick I know who happens to be an escort. She wants to go tour the east coast so she was letting me know. I'll definitely meet up with her when she comes down and we'll see how it goes.

I was fooling around with an escort for a while. One of the hottest girls I was with and was incredibly chill. Really smart too, it was kinda weird actually.

Getting drinks with 5'10 Mexican/American tomorrow for happy hour, going to text a couple of the random numbers I have tomorrow to see if I can set something up friday, and dinner+drinks on Saturday with L2 top prospect girl.

The M/A tomorrow doenst have any really solid pictures of her online, but she has like perfect teeth and a good looking face, and not overweight...and shes 5'10 with died read hair, both are weaknesses for me.

May also just set up a second date with girl I got drinks with last weekend on Friday. She was fun to talk too, wasn't a huge connection I dont think but always worth another shot. I mean she said she loves Chance the Rapper so prob give her the second date nomsayin?

Amazin do you live in AC? I lived there for a few months early in the year, were you there then?

She's coming in 2 weeks, assuming she comes, TR pending. In the meantime, where is Jenni with my new OKC profile?

Nah, I live in a suburb of Philly. Go to A.C to grind at Borgata about once a month

Got a 4th date with the really awesome girl I met off of tinder coming up next Tuesday. She seems pretty into it, and I'm quite into it.

We have a lot in common, she seems fun, and she's super attractive.

This is when I start to overthink things.

edit: I've spent the last two nights we hung out over at her place... so I think things are going quite well.

Are you looking for spam? for a site that doesn't even both to capitalize sentences? and for weird stock questions about dating?

I am Asher of getoutofourthread.org

Dude, that's just for people that want to start dating today, don't be so offensive.

Don't rely too heavily on OKC's match percent; I've met a few men who I matched in the low 90s, & there were huge disconnects that didn't show up in the match %. I recently started seeing someone I only match in the low 60s, but we have tons of things in common.

Bottom line: cast a wider net & don't get hung up on the numbers or you might miss someone good.

I think this is bad advice if you live in a heavily populated area. Sure, you might miss someone good in the 60s, but if you're way more likely to find someone good in the 90s then why would you waste any time trawling around down there?