TBH I dont see anything wrong with that ? I hope Ill be able to have 30 mins make out in the parking lot sessions when Im of age ... What is your guys sexting policy ? I dont send pics with my head on it (or my dick fwiw), she does and now asks me to do the same ... Its not too bad, her pics are way raunchier and her face is on pretty much all of them but I cant help but feel uncomfortable .. We've dated 3 times.

Yak

How did that exchange go or how did it start?

I need tips as well

If I see that listed, I feel like there's a decent chance the guy isn't really interested in anything long term, even if he says he is. If he has short term & long term listed too & initial messages have been good, I'd still meet him because I realize some people do the casual thing while they're looking for something more. So my answer is... it depends

So.... what do you send pics of? Chest, arms, legs? But if you're feeling uncomfortable with sending her pics like what she's asking for, don't do it. Some people are into that & others aren't.

Actually, we use the whatsapp chat thing, I cancelled yesterday morning for last night as I was sick from work and would be at home all day. I texted something like I'd probably be bothering her while lying in bed though and she said she probably wouldn't feel bothered about that. She proceeds to tell me that she's going to shower and I reply with 'teasing already are we?' she replies positively and it goes on from there. Side note is that it was agreed on the end of our last date that we would have sex last night though, so the dynamics were somewhat different. I've never done this before tbh.

Sounds like there is no upside to putting it in then .

She asks me for something 'like she send' which was full body/face/some other stuff in her underwear, I send a full body shot without a face in my boxers. She sends more then asks for one with a face so I do that. I think feeling a level of discomfort the first time is probably normal and I dont want to be a pussy about it so I thought **** it in the end. I may or may not have wanted to be a little more muscular.

that's rad yak

i finally got my profile in gear, doing sober october and it's encouraging me to send out loads of messages, been in the gym past few months, everything going right, can't wait to report back here.

random note: turned the asian only filter on and was attracted to a good 50% of them. either i have a fetish or asians are good at OKC

I tend to be a little paranoid about stuff like this, I'd personally never send a picture like that - but if I did, it definitely wouldn't include my head or any obvious identifying features. I'd be concerned that if things didn't go well (you said you guys have only been out a few times, right?) that my picture could end up getting posted somewhere public as a revenge tactic & it could end up causing a problem (family/job/etc). I know some people are really skilled with Photoshop so it ultimately might not matter. As long as she doesn't turn out to be a crazy person it shouldn't be an issue anyway.

Good luck skater, if you want you can PM your profile, always interested in seeing other peoples profiles.

@yowsa
Yeah that was my idea as well but then I figured her pics were 100x more compromising and more in number and tbh I dont care if my body with boxer is on the webs, that way everyone can enjoy =). I'd never send a dick pic with face though. Probably wouldnt even retaliate by uploading hers if she does mine..

Yak

How good looking are you?
How did you rate your pics and how did she rate them?

I'm averagish, 1.84 cm, 70-75 kg. How do you mean rate them ? She said she liked the pics but Im pretty sure naked selfies in the mirror will never be my strong point in a relationship. I have been thinking about working out for quite a while, maybe I should try and put that in effect...

Not everyone is going to be a buff, muscled person - and not everyone wants someone like that. If you want to work out, make sure you're doing it for you - not because you think it's what women will want.

LOL at "naked selfies in the mirror will never be my strong point in a relationship" - if that was your strong point, I'd be worried

I'd probably play around with the different filters on your phone camera since lighting is usually always horrendous for selfie mirror pics. I'd try out the greyscale filter. Chicks rely on the filters all the time to make themselves look better, so why can't we? haha

Yeah Yak by rate them I was meaning how did she respond to the pics other than liking them ie did she find them sweet and amusing, endearing or hot. Don't worry too much though.

The emoji girl replied with "hot" to my pics but I don't know if that's just the standard.

I sent a head pic to emoji girl with an emoticon X and got no reply for a few hours... I sent a msg saying not hot enough and silly emoticons, she sent back - lol

Then later I messaged that she sounded noncommittal do you want to meet tomorrow?

She has not replied.

Sounds not good

Thanks BG. It feels good to know that I can pick up the pieces. It's also an object lesson in pursuing a woman. I'm pretty self conscious and passive but when I really want something I go after it.

37. That's the result of sexual tension / strong attraction.

This is very wtf brah. Dont do that **** .

Selfie mirror pics are doable, you just gotta look your ****ing best while also making it appear like you're not taking it too serious.

Odds that I land the digits here?

Well...
I think it's a guaranteed. She messaged and it led to skyping and at that point, fairly quick she said she could come to Glasgow tonight so that's good.

Then skyping with my camera and not hers and she saw me in bed and we had camera sex or whatever you want to call it.

That was new and exciting!!

Will do a TR to confirm the body is who she says she is now that I heard her voice. The voice and accent could well be a 40-50 year old 20 stoner with a face like a bag of nuts

ATF- Not bad. You could do us all a favor by cleaning that up into something more readable where we can tell who is saying what.

You make some dumb writing errors that show you aren't proofreading your messages well enough. "I'm can abide", "You're choice in online dating". Fortunately she's stupid though and won't care (I don't have your email...lol)

Actually, I would say message instead of email so that it's clearer.

Overall could be much cleaner, but pretty good. Nothing to cringe over.

Brown Gord-

Tell me I am missing something.

You met a girl online and you did a webcam session where your cam was on and hers wasn't and you had camera sex?

You are either trolling or about to get blackmailed.

Sly

Yeah prob not +ev
I was talking to her and she didn't have a front facing camera on her phone.

Prob will end up on u porn

What .... wat ?! I cant understand that BG post for the life of me (or better said, I hope I'm misunderstanding ...)

lol, just been trolled by a girl on OKC saying her friend didn't get a reply from me on a different site 6 months ago and I need to Facebook her if I'm interested. I'm sure she's a real catch.

No you're prob not misunderstanding the general sense of the post which was that a conversation on Skype led to camera sex. The critical point is that only I was on camera.

I could be getting trolled or worse etc but f... it.

I am meant to meet her later

That seems quite critical indeed .. Did you not feel uncomfortable/somewhat scared ? Id be psych of that **** ending up somewhere esp. if I never even met her yet...

Fair enough. Different strokes for different folks.