If you do a 1 on 2 thing, do you have to pay for both women? I would think so. It would be kind of awkward to tell the server, yeah I'm paying for her but not her. It would kind of piss me off paying for her friend too. Not that I can't afford it, but simply on the principle of it.

Think about it this way: If you and your male friend were to go out and hang out with just one girl, who would be in the position of power? It would be her, obv. It's a triangle, where the two of you are fighting over her, trying to one up each other, impress her, etc. (not literally of course because presumably you're bros, but it's just human nature.) So just flip the script and go out with the two girls and win both of them over. But of course, you don't want to make your date feel like you're hitting on both of them. If you can make her feel like her friend really likes you too, because you're just a great guy to hang out with, but you are doing the little things to make your date feel like she's the special one...then you'll be in. And her friend will be the jealous one.

No, of course not. I think that actually it benefits you because you buy the first round and then they take turns. You obviously don't have to buy drinks for both girls all night.

If you are taking them to dinner, then yeah pick up the bill. Of course. You're on a date with two women, bro. Pay the check and thank the gods for their favor.

ok. you guys seem to be really divided whether i should go alone or bring a friend. the idea of it being a predate gives it a much better vibe imo. going alone i wouldnt mind much either. I imagine the first 5-10 mins to be really akward but then it will be smooth sailing. 3somes never happen -.-

If you have a friend who's down with wingman'n in this spot , then just bring him.

Bid deal she wants to bring a friend. Maybe she's a little bit uncomfortable going alone. So what. If you're interested in her just play it cool and hang out.

Not sure why a lot of you are so offended by the idea that you would just insta cancel.

How old is she Zacharrrr?

First, she didn't suggest that she bring a friend along to her date. She said "i made plans with a friend" after she already had plans to go out with Zacahar, on the day before the date, and then expected him to change the plans that they had already made.

Second, she apparently is afraid that Zachar is a rapist or something like that.

Third, given the way the whole thing is phrased, I get the impression the she is testing the guy in some way that she isn't upfront about.

I find all three of these pretty offensive. If she had been honest with Zachar about her concerns in the first place, I can see this being OK (although I still certainly wouldn't do it), but absolutely not the way she went about it.

I'm thinkin the rate a bunch of girls 4 and 5 stars strat may be legit.

I honestly think you're overanalyzing a not uncommon thing, but that might just be me.

At the end of the day it's all about what you're comfortable with. If you're not comfortable with a 2 on 2 wingman scenario then don't do it. If you feel good about going alone then do that. If you don't feel good at all then cancel, it's an online date. If you feel uncomfortable at all you're gonna have a bad time so do what feels best for you

My expereinces with online sloots is epic. Some ok, some VbadERY

I'm pretty sure the correct play here was to bang the gay friend to show her what's up

Zacharr had a third option. Tell her she can go with her friend and " maybe youll see eachother some other time".

They always come crawling back after.

She is 16.

Just kidding. She is 22

if you posted that earlier i would have done that. like that option best.

Isn't the date tonight? Also 22 makes a ton of sense for her to say that

Edit: Or to just be flakey in general

this. thats pretty obnoxious. and for me thats over the line of stuff ill put up with from a girl, especially before we've even met. if that nappened to me id probably just be like "thats cool, have fun with your friend and we can get together some other time" with the intention of not communicating with her again unless she initiated.


A+

A is ignoring me. I only have time for a few more dates before I move anyway so I guess I'll just try to bang S. She seems down to get drunk as well, and she's toward the bottom of my range lookswise so I may need a few to really into it, but I gotta make sure I stick to 8 drinks or less this time.

I skimmed over the guys who were online now to scope out the competition. The average is pretty lol but there are sooooooooo many more dudes.

also stick to high fiber foods

so i texted her "my buddy bailed, have fun with your friend though ! See you another time"

she answered "ok no problem lets just meet another time =)"

How do I play this from here ?
My default would be text her tuesday and set something up for wedn/thurs

2 smileys in 1 text? definitely 22. i might wait a day or so longer, but ive never been good at judging the +/- on when to txt and what not

yes she puts at least 2-3 smileys in every text. i thought only 18yo do it.

I personally would nottttt waste my time. See how you feel about this tomorrow then check back if feel your up to it. In spots where I'm on the fence w a girl, I wait it out just a tad and by then things usually are much clearer what the best plan is going forward

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she is quite pretty judging from her pics and exactly my type. im not looking for a relationship, so i dont care much about personality

Good chance you guys will never meet. I would have just brought the wingman and went and hung out with them and showed her how awesome you are. Chance to hook your buddy up as well. I do get not agreeing with this line.

I wonder what that "athletic" girl from Toronto is thinking these days, as she wonders why she's suddenly getting views from around the world.