Looks like #4 ghosted. She's pretty young, 20, so I thought it might be a possibility. Tried to check in a few hours before and she just never responded and now it's 7, when the date was supposed to start. We'll see if she even offers up an explanation.

I guess I'll have to settle for a pathetic 3 1st dates in my first 2 days back instead of an awe-inspiring 4.

Maybe you should gain some weight...

I tried. I have a form of IBS and feel terrible if I don't eat pretty clean or if I try to eat a ton each meal. I'm fine where I'm at now.

It probably wouldn't change my preferences much anyway even if I weighed 175. You're attracted to what you're attracted to.

But the way you phrase things makes it sound like you're more attracted to a woman with more curves, but just feel like you "should be" with a skinny woman.

#6 is too big for me

Then perhaps I phrased it wrong. I'm a lot more attracted to #1 (who I met yesterday) than #3 for example, and will likely be more attracted to 4, 5, and 6 as well. It's just that I'm attracted enough to #3 to want to sleep with her and maybe see how things progress from there. I think it goes without saying that I'd sleep with most of the girls that I've been posting ITT given the chance, when I made the comment on #3 it was more like a "well I don't find her super attractive, but still would" type thing.

I don't feel that I "should be" with a skinny woman, just that, all else being equal, I would prefer to be with one.

FWIW I read it exactly how you intended it and not how chillrob saw it whatsoever.

How tall is #6? I always imagine girls who look like that to be taller, like 5'8 for some reason, but there isn't much sense of scale there. Might be because of those long legs.

An ex was those dimensions, I didn't used to go for taller girls with that kind of figure but she really changed my mind. I love banging girls like that and having their long legs wrapped around me. I'm a boob guy too, and she had the best rack ever. Awww I'm getting nostalgic now.

Anyway 6 would be my choice for sure but there's always the risk she'll show up fat and ruin everything. Hopefully those pics are recent, but even those pics are slightly borderline. Lose 7-8 pounds from that version and we have perfection.

Truth. Play on, playa!

I am also skinny at 6', 150 lbs and I love girls with curves (not fat, though they can be fun too). Super thin women never did much for me. Hip bones slamming into each other is not hot ime.

6 didn’t list a height, but just playing the %s it’s very unlikely she’s 5’8”. I’d say 5’3” is the most common height I see, with 5’ being more common than 5’7”. I think I’ve met 2 girls who were 5’7” and only one taller at 5’9”. It’s not the place to be if you like tall girls, but it doesn’t matter much to me.

When I was in the Yucatán and saw some of the Mayan women, there were a few who were damn near 4’. The farther north you get, the taller and whiter the girls will be, but I prefer girls with darker features.

Ah nice, so you understand the struggle! Agreed that occasionally it's fun to partake in curvier, maybe fat girl. I've had the hip bones thing a few times, but not all that often. Mostly it's when she's on top in cowgirl that it might come into play. I think yoga helps a lot here, b/c I have enough flexibility in my adductors that usually I can find the right position.

And the last girl I hooked up with was 4'11", 90 lbs. and it was nice feeling like I could throw her around more if I wanted to. Not really an option with a bigger girl.

4 completely ghosted and didn’t even offer up an explanation like her phone died or something. First time that’s happened in awhile, usually they’ll at least offer up an excuse like they have a headache or something.

I’m meeting 1 for a park date this afternoon. I like park dates as a 2nd date because you can find a secluded spot on the grass and lie down together and get a lot more physical. She was conservative with her kissing on date 1, so I’m hoping she opens up a lot more. She also leaves for Montreal on Saturday and stays for a month, so I’m hoping to make an impression. But honestly, if I keep up this breakneck dating pace, I’ll probably have found a girl I’m pretty serious about by then anyway.

Wtf are you talking about?
Fossil was perfectly clear. Your rain cloud must be interfering with your reading

OK good, glad I'm not losing my mind. Didn't think it was too ambiguous and he's followed the thread a while and I've probably mentioned how much I like skinny girls at least a dozen times.

Out of those 6 women he mentioned "really wanting to have sex with" only one. If I said that, the one would be the woman I found most attractive.

I guess you guys are so anti - chubby girls that you knew that wasn't what he meant.


And yes, you have mentioned preferring skinny girls, but you never gave as a reason before that you were skinny yourself. You also have mentioned that some chubby women you have been with were amazing in bed, and I think you even said that you agreed that chubby women were generally better in bed than skinny women.

Just kind of assumed that it goes without being said that if I had an incredible date with #1 and I thought she was really cute that I want to have sex with her. I already explained that my comment on #3 was more along the lines of "she's borderline, but seems like she'd be solid in bed so I really want to see".

Yah, I do agree that chubbier women have been better in bed, but often times the physical attraction isn't near the same so a lot of my most memorable experiences are with the skinnier girls that I found really attractive. I've found that chubby girls will at least put in a solid effort, so they'll range from average to great whereas some of the skinnier girls don't bring much passion and can be starfishes. A lot more variance.

There’s a huge difference between really wanting to date someone and really wanting to have sex with someone. And there are a lot of women who I would love to have sex with but would never ever consider dating...and there are people who I think would make excellent life partners but don’t get the engines humming so to speak, despite being attractive.

Another disaster. Original plan was meet at 3, but 90 minutes before she said she wouldn't be able to make it and wanted to change to 8. No big deal. Then an hour before that she asked to change to 8:30.

I let her know at 8:20 that I'd arrive at 8:35. At 9 I still hadn't received any word and it started to rain so I left. At 9:10 she texts saying she arrived. By that point I'd already arrived back home and she didn't even give an apology or reason why she couldn't contact me. So I didn't really have any desire to go back out to meet her and threw up a "we could hang out at my place" hail mary knowing it was low % but I was probably done with her anyway. She declined saying that she'd already called her friends and agreed to meet them (lol).

Maybe I overreacted, but I value my time and don't like these games. If you're gonna be 40 minutes late, at least let me know beforehand. I could probably let that pass if it didn't become a pattern, but leaving someone in the dark for 40 minutes and then not even apologizing seems pretty crappy. Shame because I liked her. Oh well, on to the next.

Don’t put your ****ty reading ability on us, bro.

Well you know thats not going to work.

Probably not intended to make you work for her, sounds like she's just inconsiderate.

Online dating in Latin countries is the nuts for gringos.

Probably anywhere that you are perceived as exotic (and rich)

i do not think thats pettty of you at all, and even if it is, I think youre in a position where you can be. no big deal on to the next

40 minutes late is like 2 hours early I Latin America

In Colombia and Perú that was more my experience, but even then they'll mostly update you if they're running late.

In México it hasn't been my experience as much.

40 minutes late with 0 heads up is still ****ty in any culture. After 30 minutes with 0 contact am I supposed to think "she's probably just gonna show up an hour late", then after an hour "well I've waited this long, might as well wait 2 hours"?

If I got there at 8:30 then she says, hey I'm probably not gonna be there until a little after 9, it still sucks but at least I know what's going on.

I'm seriously considering some sort of Mexican tour over two weeks, that's the most holiday I can take over one period.

Fossil, given these constraints what would you recommend for a solo traveller itinerary to meet women? Keep it to around 3 different cities before going home, or just 1? Is it reasonable to expect decent accommodation for $50 a night for bed and breakfast type places? worth splashing out on a few better hotels here and there?

Also, I may have said before how much I love Hinge but I presume I wouldn't even need it out there given Tinder seems to not be dead in Mexico?