TD,

Oh, btw, I hate smoking cigarettes, but hookah is pretty cool/fun imo.

Never smoked a cigarette before, but I tried hooker once on a date with a stripper and it wasn't bad.

Do the same thing you'd do with someone who does drink... unless your goal is to get her drunk, isn't drinking just something you do while you're getting to know each other? As long as she hasn't said she has a problem with you drinking, she can drink something non-alcoholic while you drink whatever you want.

+1 to hookah is chill and bike ride sounds terrible

if a chick dont drink just crush some fro-yo or ice cream

DEM GIRLZ LOVE FRO-YO

Thanks for the compliment

Since my last update: went on a date with okc girl this past Wednesday, had fun, made out at the end of the date and didn't make concrete plans to go out again since she was going to be gone on a road trip this past weekend. I texted her on Saturday saying have a fun trip and we'll figure out a day to go out again when she comes back. She agreed.

Texted her today with an inside joke and asked how her trip was. She has been good at replying but today she hasn't responded at all. So my play is to just let this go unless she contacts me since I already reached out right? I don't think my read was off on her Wednesday and I feel very confident that it was a good date. Idk, she got cold feet? Changed her mind? I do agree with posters itt that you can't be that unbelievably busy to be unable to take a few minutes to reply to a text. Oh well right?

Wearing a fitted cap on a dinner date with a 21 year old and I'm 23 - big no? Or can it be pulled off

Nothing gives me confidence like a new pair of AF1's and a fitted 50/50

under no circumstance should a hat be worn while eating.

Are you black?

Before you even go on the date, the answer to this question should be 'yes'. Irremovably tight headwear looks silly.

fyp

For those of you guys that want more matches on tinder, I have over 250 matches in a span of 2 months and I'm probably just average looking. My roommate also has tinder and he has like 20 matches but I'm not much better looking.

The 2 things that will help you get matches is your tag line and the pictures you post of yourself. All my pics are head shots like I'm trying to be a model in some Calvin Klein ad. I just take a billion selfies with great lighting and if you capture the right angles, you'll look great. After you post it through facebook, all your friends should call you out for being "gay." I have theories to why "goofy" or "silly" pictures fail but I just think those pictures will hurt your match rate. Leave those pics out. Only sexy pictures of yourself. My roommate's tinder pics are of him trying to portray himself as laid back and fun. Girls already have friends for that.

Next part is your tag line, this is where you can portray yourself as funny and fun. Keep it short and simple. Try not write a paragraph. An example of one would be, "right swipe to unlock a secret passage way!" Yes it's stupid but I get good replies from that one. Another that even girls do is, "I'm going to say we met at Starbucks, ya?"

If you ar etall, use:

"6'x born to be big spoon. Jetpack tryouts apply within"

Which is something similar to what I say on okcupid. but much less forward.

im also drunk

Haha that's hilarious

Wasn't about the weight as I'm close to the same. It was about the fact he is even asking if girls like skinny guys.

Sounds like something you would hear from a kid in junior high. I think most of us know girls have all kinds of preferences and to ask such a question in your mid 20's screams of confidence issues to me.

If you fall into the normal range for body proportions and aren't ugly you'll do fine with a good portion of girls if you've got a great personality.

Hi, my name is Thomas. Online dating is just one way of getting to know your partner. there is a 23% possibility you will meet your partner on a online dating site. talking to ladies specially those ladies that tends to like you too.

when it comes making a conversation to a lady, don't be shy, just be yourself and everything will be fine.

skinny 6 pack? Confirmed black person.

Had no tag line, just changed it to "6'4, born to be big spoon. Swipe right to unlock a secret feature'.

I get basically ZERO love on tinder, will swipe a few hundred times over the next week or so and see if it gets any improvement from the blank one I had before (maybe 2 matches a week) which in itself was an improvement from the basically zero matches I had when I had an anchorman quote (probably before Tinder users time to be fair)

New photos have been a decent success.

Had 3 first messages from girls out of the blue on POF and a load of girls have rated me highly on the meet me.

5 new numbers today, might post some screenshots of the best successes if anyone is interested. Great confidence boost once you get one, lets you roll the next few out much easier.

I'm Puerto Rican. Are you black?

This is getting annoying this convo, can some read it and tell me what she is talking about?


HER
Well atm im on half term so im free all week lmao! I honestly dont mind, i beat you at gold though xx
Today at 1:26 PM

ME
I have not played in a while but still think I would have an edge on you! If I win do I get a kiss? want to do Thursday? xx
Today at 1:55 PM

Yeahh if thats what youd want to win yeahh we can do babe xx
Today at 1:58 PM

If you win you get to choose the prize, might let you win if you pick something good! xx
Today at 2:06 PM

Ohh so you want a kiss but mine might not br good. Charming xx
Today at 2:10 PM

Haha thought you might choose something a step up from a kiss! xx
Today at 2:17 PM

You said maybe something good so you wont know now xx
Today at 2:19 PM

My back up for you being so bad at golf I win even when letting you have a few extra shots each time heh so what you choosing? xx
Today at 2:21 PM

Just because you want ne to kiss you really haha. Ill let you know xx
Today at 2:24 PM

I do like a mystery makes life bit more exciting. OK looking forward to Thursday xx
Today at 2:44 PM

Haha you didnt deny i was wrong either so am i xx