what`s her name? I`m horny

That was my exact thought.

obv an awesome kkf trolling...

Going to see her to tonight to tell her it's either me or him. She called me last night and told me that he admitted he still likes her and wants to get together. Completely inexcusable at this point. It's either him or me. If she says no, we are done. If she says ok, and i catch some deception down the road, we are done.

This is your last chance to set things right. Trust this advice im about to give.

You must flip it on her. You HAVE to tell her that it is over. THat you cant believe you let her get away with this chit for that long. Then just leave, no conversation, no explanations. If there is any love and respect left in her, this will bring it out in the ensuing week or so. If not you then know it is good to be rid of her.

Giving her a chance to explain or even a chance to say "I only Love you" is unaccepatable at this point, and is every girls default when theyre in limbo.
GL

yeah, but that consensus comes from people whose experience with girls is mostly, uh, putting up photos of them for other people to rate

Wouldn't there be a strong correlation between how hot society things someone is and how attracted you are to them?

Maybe my tastes are just very mainstream but I have a near perfect correlation between what society judges as hot and what I judge as hot. The only deviation being that I give a negative score for bigger booty while in some cases that is judges as a plus.

Also not that I wasn't 100% sure after the wet update but after the most resent update anyone who doesn't see this as a level is ******ed. I've come to the conclusion that 2P2 's are not the most experienced group when it comes to women but no one is as clueless as OP unless it is an act.

Right now it's your self-esteem issues vs. her abandonment/security/daddy issues. The situation is perfect for hers right now, as she has 'old reliable' (you) who will never leave her, and 2 (or more?) other guys pursuing her. But there's no way for you to get your needs met in this arrangement. You believe you need her, because you're afraid no one else you're attracted to will have you. You want to keep her for yourself, and the harder you squeeze, the more she wants to explore other options.

Aladare made the best comments, although since she's coming from a more mature perspective, this may be hard to relate to. Although it's fun to talk about revenge fantasies, it's the absolute wrong idea, because reacting this strongly betrays the level of your attachment to her, and reinforces the pain associated with the relationship. Keep your self-respect or, in your case more likely, start building self-respect by having a conversation with her that includes:

"When we decided to be a couple, I thought that meant that we'd be doing things generally as a couple, etc., rather than exploring options with other people.

"Maybe it's time to re-evaluate. You might have a different idea of what being a couple means. I'm not willing to be your fall-back guy. It doesn't work for me. Your wanting to hang out with Bob and exbf seems to me that you're in a different place re- our relationship. Tell me how you see our relationship right now."

[she responds by saying "You're the greatest," etc.]

"So are we a couple? Are we together? Because hanging out with Bob/exbf tells me we're not a couple. You might think of it as innocent, but obviously it has led to one of them discussing wanting to have a relationship with you, so obviously they see it differently, as do I."

She can now say:

A: "I want you. I know that now. It was a mistake to hang out with them, it won't happen again."

B: "I want you, but there's nothing wrong with continuing to hang out with these guys."

C: "You're right, let's break it off."


If you hear A, then I guess you can give it another shot. If B or C, you thank her for the great times you've had together, and tell her sorry, but you need to move on with your life. Wish her the best (even if you don't mean it) and make arrangements for getting all your stuff. It will feel like **** at first, but I guarantee you will look back at this event as a change for the better years from now.

This leaves the door open for her to go bang Bob without any guilt and then come back to OP and get back together.

Stephan- Was it a "He confessed he still likes me and I'm not sure how I feel" or "He confessed and I told him it wasn't going to happen?" (I think I already know, just making sure.) This guy is moving in on your girl. Can you kick his ass? If you were to kick his ass and dump her, you would totally redeem yourself in this thread. I doubt you have that in you, but that would be sweet.

Dude,

As hard as it is just stop talking to this girl and move on.

It's going nowhere and you're letting yourself get played big time.

After 2 pages of the same, overwhelming advice you don't get it?

SHE'S ALREADY MADE HER DECISION!

True,but it will so blow her mind, b/c she is expecting stephan to go along with whateva she says. Now she is thinking that Bob may not be all he's cracked up to be. New and exciting feelings for stephan are registering brought on by this assertive dominant act. And for the first time she is feeling a real risk of losing him

Dear OP,

Please break up with your gf, but make sure you nail down your toaster to the counter before you do so.

watch the film swingers, then go out and **** then other girls. if you still want to be with her after ****ing ten other girls you have got a few things that you lack at the moment;

[x] set of testicles
[x] know that there is more pussy out there
[x] have the skills to play this LAG psycho

honestly the best way of totally ****ing up with her head is;
calmly without going ape sh it on her to tell her that you are bored in the realationship and that "you can still be friends"...

First, I'd like to say that it's good that you're a passionate, passionate person. You understand this well, so at least that's something, right? It is very likely she loves you deeply as well and is shy communicating how she really feels.

Here's some things I'd consider:

To get her "juices flowing" you clearly need to mix it up w/ this chick. If she's not stimulated, try waxing your balls and/or trimming the hairs around your butthole region. There's nothing like a shiny ball sack to spice things up.

I'd also consider a tag team effort w/ Bob to break the tension between the three of you. You never know, you could have found a BFF and a soul mate! Take a chance!

Just make sure to discuss what you're gonna do if you and Bob cross swords. Happens sometimes. GL!

Hey OP,

Don't let the haters get to you, they are probably jealous, since you have a hot girlfriend that apparently everyone wants to bang. I hope this goes well for you and that she chooses you. I would hate to see a nice relationship like this one break up.

Good luck!

Stars did it first.

Please refresh my memory on this


agreed

its not about she being hot, its about she being a total fatal atraction style nuts, and thats not the good type of "nuts". Ive been in similiar situation, me working in the fashion industry as a designer you get to meet loads of hot hot women/models. One girl was so frickin crazy that she started to stalk me and i had to get a restraint order against her. she cant come any closer then 50 feet of me, no phone or any other contact.
Althgough op doesnt need to get to that point, he needs to come to terms with a few facts;

1. there are more girls out there (hence go and sleep with 10 other women)

2. he needs to find his balls or at least grow a set if he wants to get any where in this so called relationship or matter of fact life.

3. most importantly he needs to realise that he doesnt need someone to be happy.

He referred earlier to another female friend whom he know who gave him a hug etc... and that he maybe should get it together with that one instead;
this is just a sign that op doesnt care as much about the gf but more about the fact that he doesnt want to be alone.

sure if you never had a gf before and you have come to a point where your right hand is rejecting you and the only date you can get is if he gets his left hand drunk, but i dont think he is there yet, and it sounds that he is quite young (highschool / college?). those kind of places have a steady influx of potential girls...

move on and get your groove on

^^^ You're a dude??^^^

Damn, you have my name (amber) but wtf w/you being a male? Just curious how you came up w/that handle for here...

Can you see the pic of my avatar. Its focused on the yellow or orange (amber).

Amber Gambler = someone who sees the yellow trafic lights but decides to (maybe foolishly) to speed up and drive instead of slowing down / stopping.

But i understand though that my handle can be mistaken for a girls name...

anyway op:
the light at the end of the tunnel that you might think that you are seeing (by her recent change of attituede) odds are that its not a way out but instead an express train heading directly at you...

^^^yeah, i saw the avatar pic^^

We call running those lights "pink"..so, not quite red. I also call u-turns 'flipping a bitch' - which California didn't know that phrase when i moved here in 1989 but it is slowly catching on...
This being a poker site- with you using Gambler at the end of your handle, just struck me odd. Add your location, i thought you were a les. lol

a les? im prob. a les trapped in a mans body!

the location is reference to my GF who is the mother of my son.

wheres the pics?