A moment later or a climax later?

He's prbly a real jerk during his refractory period

loool

I guess I just have an unreasonable hope that she gets her **** together for her daughter.

Heh. Her sleeping with her ex-husband is more likely.

Congrats on the new job MLYLT.

This will never ever happen. And this job is the best choice for my daughter. She'll be able to see both her parents regularly.

Don't feign such surprise. Everybody knew it was [insert too easy pun here].

Just as we all know that this job won't last 6 months--if she actually accepts it.

Still we all keep hoping she will pull things together. Silly us.

Mlylt,

Including "will not be in the same multimillion population city as code3" in your career selection criteria sounds like a really poor decision.

Lol this whole thing is hilarious. Never ending train wreck.

Has anyone actually met her yet?

Mlylt,

If you want code to pay attention to you again, just start ****ing lots of dudes from the internet again and posting about how many big loads you're swallowing, and he'll be back to telling you how much he cares about you in no time at all.

It was. But I mean...... That is so incredibly......not smart. It is so obvious that the guy doesn't love her. And she is old enough to have already been in similar situations and should see through it. The only person she should be upset now is her.

It is a right decision to get away from the guy, only somehow I have doubts that she can do it.

MLYLT,

An intensely unsurprising update. Also, +1 to what El D said.

Let us know when you move out of code's place!

Lapka,


What tipped you off to that? Was it code telling her repeatedly that he doesn't love her, doesn't care about her emotions, and has no interest in ever being with her long-term?

I agree that people with a lot of relationship experience might be able to draw some conclusions from those subtle hints.

ManbearpigYouLongTime

Not to mention high pressure, probably some depression, maybe even some fronting.

FYP

take the money and run

Except he tells me he loves me everyday. El D, maybe he'll listen to you; can you please explain to him that he can't say he loves me and not care about my feelings, not care about hurting me by being with other women, and not wanting to be with me.

He tries to blame everything g on me. He even tried to blame him cheating on me; he said I gave him the impression I wouldn't care if he was with another woman so it's my fault I'm hurt that he cheated. Of course I don't want you doing anything with other women you idiot! He also blamed the problems with his family on me saying he shouldn't have cared how I felt because I didn't act like someone he would care about. It's your goddam fault you didn't want to do anything or care how I felt!! Someone else please explain this stuff to him. He is completely clues sleds about how a relationship works.

Can you guys please give him some knowledge on how a guy that loves a girl is supposed to act because he has no ****ing clue.

Code3, you want to be alone and play video games everyday like a teenage boy. You don't want a relationship if you have to do any work whatsoever. Your life philosophy is to do as little as possible and get the most gains for gods sake! Just admit this ****! It's not my fault you don't want me, it's your fault that you don't want a relationship and don't want to have to put in any effort and you don't want a commitment because you just want to sleep with other women.....this is all you, not me!

A call to White Knight arms

I'm very serious, he doesn't understand the basics of a relationship. Please for the love of god guys explain this **** to him.

Seems like he has enough knowledge to do a facsimile of one that is a sufficiently realistic Jedi mind trick to get laid by the weak-minded.

If you read between the lines, it is all there for you to see and it has been there for a very long time.

All you need to do is to understand what it means, accept that he is fine with where he is and what he wants. It is you that wants something else.

JFC woman, everyone else itt knows exactly what the **** is going on. Try asking yourself why you are so willfully dense about it. Introspection/self awareness much?