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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
Yeah he has wants. He knew he didn't want to be with me a year ago and wanted to still live cheap with me there paying half the bills and giving him a steady stream of sex despite how it would hurt me and my child.
It isn't his responsibility to worry about the health of your child. It's YOURS
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He's a selfish, self centered jerk.
No, you are. You're putting your sex life with code3 and your relationship issues ahead of your daughter
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I explained to her that we will be leaving and he wouldn't be coming, and she always says to him "please forgive me and my mom so we can stay together" she thinks it's her fault!
Holy **** this is awful. Get the f*** out of there right now, never talk to code3 again, and get your daughter in therapy right the f*** now. I'm serious. She is going to end up exactly like you in her relationships unless you take this seriously.
Also, re: her father - have you talked to him about this move and what your hopes/expectations are of him? Is he on board? The worst thing you can do is build him up in your mind (and your daughter's) and then if he fails to meet your expectations you've damaged your daughter and her relationship with him.