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Originally Posted by Robot Face
thanks for sharing! i watched it twice. He made it sound like it was so simple. I cdn't even imagine. I think he's bluffing tho. I wd bet against that he stayed completely silent for 17 years.
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Originally Posted by CallyGal
How did the family respond to non-speech month?
If you do this, does it mean I will miss a Youtube in March?
see below.
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Originally Posted by Big Run
Nice video Ray, as usual they always seem to make me laugh a little. Whats the deal with the horseshoe as your walking into the casino and you not touching it? I'm sure you've mentioned it before but I can't recall why.
Those are some purty new chips ya'll got yourself down there, never was a fan of the old ones.
thanks. The Horseshoe is just something I can't touch. I just dont like that shiny horseshoe placed right there. It's trickery to the patrons coming in.
It's a pet peeve, and ocd thing for me.
I like the chip colors too. They seem a bit lighter though.
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Well, how do I bring up the “No Talking for a Month” topic to my family? Struggle, struggling, struggled. I want the family’s support because I know it will have some affect all of us.
This is something I have wanted to do for a long time for many different reasons, but how do I go about bringing this up to the fam? And then a ah ha moment.
The Approach: I just went for it, putting it out there straight and simple.
The Strategy: I asked for a year of silence first. I thought if I started the bartering discussion bar high, then it may better my chances to get approval on just a month. #tactics. The 1yr “No Talk” proposal was shot down quickly. Then I went down to 6 months and shot down just as quick. Strike 1, strike 2! My last chance…I suggested maybe that we can settle for a month. Mayb?
The Result: My gf’s first words uttered were, “I’m taking you the see a psychiatrist tomorrow.” Long story short, she doesn’t understand why, and not really on board. I still got the ok, but not ok vibe. So I guess she’s on board, but not on board…if u catch my drift.
WHY AM I DOING THIS? WHAT DO I HOPE TO ACCOMPLISH?
-this wd b in the midst of Lent, so just as Jesus walked 40 days/nights all alone, I am hoping to connect deeper, be more obedient, and grow in my faith.
-Searching for a deeper understanding of myself, or meaning.
-Is silence really golden?
-Accomplishing the challenge will help me face other obstacles that may come my way in life.
-Will it open up awareness in other areas?
- Will I lose my mind or have more zen?
-Most of all, life is short. I’m looking to expand my whole self by pushing myself to the limits. Trying to fulfill my life and open up new boundaries in my life by getting outside my comfort zone and trying what some may think is weird.
March Goal:
The goal is simple, not talking for the entire month of March. None. Not a laugh, not a peep, no sound at all.
I guess my plan of action will be to post something about my challenge on FB prior to March. That way this keeps me accountable and lets my neighbors, friends, extended family know why I’m not talking. If anyone does try to speak to me, I will be prepared to give them a card explaining why I can’t talk. I will carry these cards daily and hopefully by handing them one they won’t think I’m being rude by not speaking.
I will still try my best to get my words expressed without any verbal sound. Therefore, I will text, write things on paper, and do my best to talk w my hands.
I will try to post daily on 2+2, and may attempt to vlog somehow.
This will all be on the honor system, and I guess u will just have to take my word. #fulltransparency. My daily life won’t change, just the No Talk portion. I still plan on grinding my normal hours, and doing my normal routines. The biggest challenge for me will be if my tenants try to contact me w issues.
Please know, I’m gonna do everything in my power to meet this challenge. It doesn’t matter if anyone wants to bet or not, I’m still gonna try to tackle this one.
I’m prolly drawing dead, but we trying this one in March.
Rayz