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Originally Posted by Mightyboosh
Ok joking aside, I'm interested in people's perspective on this video of a kid who retaliates after being bullied. Everywhere I've encountered this I've been the only voice arguing that the kid goes too far against everyone else arguing that the bully got what he deserved, see what you think:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isfn4OxCPQs
As a psychologist I'm not overly interested in "right" and "wrong". I'm interested in what is human, what makes people tick and what works.
Obviously his action is not effective if the goal is to stop the (claimed) harassment. He might have been "lucky" in this case (because the case got so much attention and views on youtube), and thus hands were forced and remedial steps taken - but if we assume no camera or widespread media circus, all he did was escalate the conflict and in most cases any (potential) harassment would only grow stronger as a result.
Psychologically speaking his reaction is very human. He is physically much bigger and likely much more dangerous than the bully, and thus the risk of direct negative outcome is slim.... the survival reflex therefore does not trigger. His reaction is aggressive, which is also natural because he responds to direct physically aggressive behavior towards his persona.
If the "bully got what he deserved" requires knowledge of the situation and to pass moral judgment, something which isn't readily available from this short video.
I suspect most people go beyond the actual video and construct a scenario where the "benevolent underdog" person has been bullied and harassed for a long time by a person who has no concern for others - but the underdog has always responded peacefully (which storywise strenghtens his moral superiority) - untill finally one day it goes to far and the "evil" person finally has to pay for his lack of moral behavior (which only proves the underdog is only human).
This is typical "legend" crafting... most people love stories like that, and we when we love a particular type of story - we often tend to fit what we observe into them.
Note that this is grunched. I haven't researched or examined the case. You asked me to assess this based on only the video, and that is what I did. If anyone wants to protest because "there is more to the story" - good for them. Gathering facts is always the first step to determine what actually took place here - but I interpreted your "challenge" to assess this
only from the video.